No Mr. Nice Guy.

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@Kandae11 (53601)
August 22, 2018 4:21pm CST
Or woman for that matter. There are some women who find the tough guy, bad boy persona quite attractive in a man - and there are some men who prefer the swearing, gum chewing, over tattooed kind of women. To each his own of course. So what kind of man or woman would you rather have sharing your space ? What qualities should they have? And what kind of behavior would be a definite turn off? No Mr. bad guy for me - Mr, nice guy will win every time.
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@ridingbet (66861)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
the father of my son seemed good, but lately, he was showing so much jealousy even to his son, so i scrammed him out of our lives (me and my son).
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
I like that word - "scrammed". I think that is worse - very nice in the beginning, then showing their true colors afterwards.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
23 Aug 18
You are wise to do so dear friend. I hope you and son are very well and safe.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Yeah its cool that word scrammed :)
@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
22 Aug 18
I don't like to hear swearing from anyone. I prefer someone that can express their feelings without profanities. I prefer someone who is humble, honest and kind.
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@db20747 (43406)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Sep 18
Me 2!!!!
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Honesty and kindness definitely.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@compslick No ratty beard for me. I prefer the 5 0'clock shadow like what Don Johnson wore in Miami Vice.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
23 Aug 18
As an example, looking at the one in the photo my first reaction should be to slap him in the face. Arrogant, selfish, believing to be a beautiful man, surely rude.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 I know and they end up abused.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Some women go for that exact look.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@LadyDuck Some are well behaved in the beginning, but show their true colors after - that is a bit worse I believe. It happened to me and I barely escaped with my life.
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@MALUSE (69428)
• Germany
22 Aug 18
A baseball cap and chewing gum would have no chance with me even though it were Mr Universe. I know that that would rule out at least half of the American men folk if not more.
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@MALUSE (69428)
• Germany
22 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Grown-up men? No. No way. The only man I know who wears a baseball cap even though he is already retired is our American neighbour. He is from Seattle. He was a teacher for the American soldiers when they were stationed in our town. He married one of the stupidest German women he could find. As to other European countries: I've been to Italy many times. I've married into an Italian family. Never have I seen an elderly Italian with a baseball cap! @LadyDuck Help me! Tell the members here that I'm right!
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@Kandae11 (53601)
22 Aug 18
@MALUSE I wonder why he chose the stupidest - or maybe he didn't know.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
22 Aug 18
I bet you will find quite a number of those in Germany and other European countries too. If not, I stand corrected.
@just4him (303392)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Aug 18
My number 1 requirement would be that he's a Christian, and not just saying he is, but living it. Next, he must be a considerate loving man, who puts Christ first and his family second. In this day and age, it's hard to find someone without a tattoo, so I wouldn't mind. My first husband had one. However, he must be neat in his attire, not sloppy. Definitely no foul language.
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@just4him (303392)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Aug 18
@Kandae11 They gotta hook you somehow. Mine told me he loved me - before we were married, but not after. When we decided on divorce, he told me he NEVER loved me. I was expecting that was the case.
@Kandae11 (53601)
30 Aug 18
@just4him He was deceitful and he was brazen enough to admit that he lied. How long were you married to him?
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@Kandae11 (53601)
28 Aug 18
The foul language is terrible. I suspected that if I didn't get away from my husband quickly enough I might have automatically started speaking that way. Note - I never heard a bad word from him before he got me hooked.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
23 Aug 18
I would find that attractive for an hour or so but not for a longterm relationship lol I have learned my lessons well. But that guy in the photo is not tough he is a wimpy boy to me lol
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
There are different kinds of bad boy looks, what about this one?
@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Or this one maybe.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Yes he is bad and stupid too lolThank you Kandase lol
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@BelleStarr (61050)
• United States
23 Aug 18
I prefer a man who thinks I am a goddess and who worships the ground I walk on. My husband is the sweetest man and was never a bad boy, well maybe a little bad lol
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@BelleStarr (61050)
• United States
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 When we met he rode a motorcycle, that is about as bad as he was!! lol
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Wow! I love happy endings and great love stories.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@BelleStarr Leather jackets too?
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@LeaPea2417 (36268)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Aug 18
I like the Mr. Nice Guy type and that is how my husband is.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Great.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
22 Aug 18
Oh my.Cannot reveal what type.Nice guys and bad guys depends.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
5 Sep 18
@db20747 I love the song.Good night my friend.
@db20747 (43406)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Sep 18
@Kandae11 That's what I'm talkin' about!!!
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@Kandae11 (53601)
22 Aug 18
Yes indeed it depends. Some bad guys turn out to be real nice guys and some nice guys reveal their true colors after you have been hooked.
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@TheHorse (203717)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Aug 18
I am heterosexual. I prefer being around a women who is as intellectually curious as I am. She doesn't have "all the answers." That's boring. Like me, she has more questions.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
No one has all the answers - though some pretend they do. There is a reggae song -"More questions than answers". Not sure if that is the title or the main chorus line.
@acelawrites (19274)
• Philippines
22 Aug 18
It is always Mr. Nice Guy for me. Of course we respect others' choices.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
22 Aug 18
What kind of qualities would you like in a partner?
@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@compslick I know, many women go for that type - and I can't think why.
@Hannihar (129095)
• Israel
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 If I were looking I would like a man with a good sense of humor and want he to be kind and sweet and a good personality.
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@Hannihar (129095)
• Israel
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Thank you.
@Hannihar (129095)
• Israel
24 Aug 18
@compslick People like to have a funny person around that makes them laugh and does not make them cry.
@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
All very good qualities.
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@Peach10 (1920)
23 Aug 18
I never liked that look . I shy away from those kinds. Over bearing conceited kind of look.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Some do find that look attractive , but I am not impressed either.
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@MACQUUNE (513)
• Lagos, Nigeria
23 Aug 18
We African men we so much love respect, honour, so I will for a smart, intelligent and a respectful lady no matter the race.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
Good qualities to like.
@MACQUUNE (513)
• Lagos, Nigeria
23 Aug 18
@Kandae11 thank you! Thank you! You you! I hope to find such lady.
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@cttolledo (5462)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Aug 18
I want a guy who is respectful and who consistently love his family..
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@Kandae11 (53601)
22 Aug 18
Good qualities.
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• Preston, England
23 Aug 18
I like a lady who is bright, breezy, intelligent and sensitive and caring
@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@arthurchappell - lovely qualities.
@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
@compslick Why naive I wonder.
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@rakski (112993)
• Philippines
22 Aug 18
Oh yes, Mr. Nice guy will always be on the winning side!
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@rakski (112993)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
@compslick why? What is your experience? Care to share?
@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
23 Aug 18
I used to be attracted to the bad guys type in my younger dating days. But as I matured, they were no longer attractive to me.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
23 Aug 18
No, I think not. We are most adventurous during our teenage years.
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@db20747 (43406)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Sep 18
Mr nice guy 4 me 2!!!! But U still have 2 watch them if they're 2 sweet!!! If they're 2 sweet, Watch out!!!!