Afraid to know the truth?

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@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
August 28, 2018 8:16pm CST
This topic came about when I have gotten a news about one of the bosses in our company. Her passing was so sudden most of us who does not work with her directly is really surprised of the news. Yesterday, I had a brief talk with her close staff and asked why so suddenly... He told me that they already knew there was something, she feels something is wrong but she is mostly just afraid to know the truth. All tests she is able to get them but never the one thing she and her doctor husband suspected - Cancer. She tells her staff that she is getting better, and its nothing and just needed rest. She has not undergone any cancer related treatments because she does not want to have it tested for that. She is in denial, she does not accept it to be happening to her. I really feel sad and sorry for her little kids, and she suddenly has left us now. Her husband said he is unable to make her do the test. Its really sad when we think of it, we are all afraid of the truth, but this has cost her life. I mean it could have been extended right? If only... Now, I ask you guys, have you had such an experience? You feel the truth lies before you but you are just too afraid to want to know it, afraid it might break your heart, afraid it might destroy your trust over someone, etc...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Sep 18
It happens to me. When I had my lab test and the results are not fine. I'm on denial that I'm okay because that's what I feel. It took 3 months for me believing myself that I will be okay though I'm not anymore. The Doctor said when I had the lab tests I need to have my dialysis but I don't want to. I'm too afraid to undergo the treatment, and I'm so afraid of dying. Thank God the boyfriend won't let me choose between my own thought of not having dialysis. If it wasn't for him, I'm 8 feet under already.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Sep 18
Glad to hear you went ahead with the dialysis. I guess if it is really with our family and loved ones who will push us to go ahead with the treatment. if they cannot convince us then it would be difficult... It will surely shake us if we do not get out heads together of the news about our health.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Sep 18
@chiyosan Yeah, or else I won't be here anymore. Parents did not do anything for me. The boyfriend and his parents do.
@YrNemo (20261)
5 Sep 18
Treatments can't treat all cancer cases unfortunately. Pehaps she knew so.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Sep 18
she knew, but some medications that is intended specifically for her illness might have helped improved her health and prolong her life. ='( its sad to think about it... but honestly, if it was me, i probably would never want the painful treatments as well.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
3 Sep 18
Very sad! I think it's best to know the truth and then one knows for a certainty what they are dealing with.
• Preston, England
2 Sep 18
many people keep bad health news to themselves - I think I would too as otherwise everyone would be pitying me and telling me what to do
@GreatMartin (23677)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
On the other hand maybe she didn't want to spend her last days seeing the eyes of people looking at her sadly--maybe even had she known and taken the treatments the same results would have happened. NO ONE knows what she was thinking so don't assume she didn't want to know the truth--maybe she did.