Are you hard or easy on yourself.?

@amadeo (111948)
United States
August 30, 2018 8:52am CST
Hello everyone the day after.staying home to reflect. Think the heat got the best of me. Are you hard or easy on yourself.? I think one of each for me.there are times could be hard. photo is mine
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 18
I think I am pretty hard, but not all the time.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@LadyDuck and why are you so pretty hard there.Italian temper.lol
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 18
@amadeo You got it, Italian temper.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@LadyDuck same here along with the Greek temper.lol
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@Kandae11 (53679)
30 Aug 18
We are human - no one is perfect. So depending on the circumstances I prefer to take it easy on myself.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@Kandae11 very good way of looking at this
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@vandana7 (98827)
• India
30 Aug 18
Me too..I am so unpredictable that even I can't honestly say how I will feel about an act of mine until it is past.
@vandana7 (98827)
• India
30 Aug 18
@amadeo Yeah sorry..been a bit busy ..had to attend court...and then a couple of days my net was down. Hope you are doing good. :)
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@vandana7 Not doing good but hanging on.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@andana7 thank you and nice to see you.Been awhile
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Aug 18
I come down hard on myself for making mistakes and bad decisions.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@JohnRoberts this I understand.Same problems here in my younger days.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
31 Aug 18
Sorry to hear the heat has beaten you up! I'm definitely hard on myself. Whatever I do, it's soon after that I've discovered all my errors, how it could have been done better;
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@kobesbuddy I am not supposed to be out in the heat.Not good for my health
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@kobesbuddy same here.I have to wear compression socks and elevate my legs time to time.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
31 Aug 18
@amadeo My legs retain water and swell, during the hot weather. I have one heart valve that doesn't always work properly.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
30 Aug 18
I'm far too hard on myself. *sigh* Cute photo
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@FayeHazel is this helping you there
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@FayeHazel why is that.Why are you torturing yourslef
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@amadeo Must be how I'm wired. I'm working on it with a therapist though. :-)
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 18
I tried to push myself hard before my retirement but I will like to scale down after that.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
31 Aug 18
I will retire once I have my objectives on my passive income per month
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@id_peace I see.If you feel good and your health.I will continued to work,unless you have something else in mind
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
30 Aug 18
I am hard on myself.
@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
31 Aug 18
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@LeaPea2417 I guess most of us are.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
30 Aug 18
My entourage always tells me that I am too hard on myself.
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
31 Aug 18
@amadeo Yes, I am, unfortunately.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@Marlina are you hard on yourself
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@marlina guess this is normal?yes
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@DianneN (246821)
• United States
31 Aug 18
I'm way to hard on myself, but am pleased with the results. I don't mind the heat at all, but it will be cooling off a bit.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@DianneN yes.Have you moved?
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@DianneN (246821)
• United States
1 Sep 18
@amadeo No. We are not moving. We will stay in Florida as residents for 6 months and 1 day, and use our CT home the rest of the year.
@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
31 Aug 18
Everyone tells me I'm too hard on myself but I don't know. It does bother me when I can't get everything done that I want to.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@RubyHawk I understand there been there.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Sep 18
@amadeo Sometimes I get too far behind in things I intended to do and it makes me feel like I could do better.
@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
31 Aug 18
@amadeo Yes, I can be very hard on myself and feel like a failure and then there are times I get very excited about what I want to do.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@Hanniha do not be too hard.Not good for your health?
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
31 Aug 18
@amadeo Thanks Alfredo and I know what you are saying but sometimes I am weak and do not feel good about myself.
@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
31 Aug 18
I can't say I am hard on myself. I have the inner strength to face any situation life throws at me.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@Rashnag that is great there.you sound so strog.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@Rashnag you are so strong there.Good for you
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
31 Aug 18
@amadeo Thanks dear
@Janet357 (75656)
31 Aug 18
Both. Depends on the situation.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@Janet357 yes your right depend on the situation.Nice to meet you
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@Janet357 thank you.So nice to hear this.
@Janet357 (75656)
31 Aug 18
@amadeo you too. I always read your posts:)
@Juliaacv (48437)
• Canada
30 Aug 18
I feel that I am hard on myself. I'm no slouch that's for sure. I hope that the cooler weather comes your way soon, we had it move in last evening.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@Juliaacv maybe it is coming our way?
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@Juliaacv (48437)
• Canada
30 Aug 18
@amadeo Izzy told me that she thought that the cool air is coming her way later on today or tonight.
• United States
30 Aug 18
I tend to be hard on myself but more so when I was younger
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Aug 18
@Marilynda1225 I see.Then you mellow out.lol
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• United States
31 Aug 18
@amadeo yes I am
@cintol (11261)
• United States
31 Aug 18
Thats a cute photo and so darn true!! I am sometimes too hard on myself as well but if we aren't who will be right.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@cintiol that is for suree there.Good morning
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
4 Sep 18
Same here!! Sometimes too hard and sometimes 2 easy!!! But my motto was always Rome wasn't built in a day!!! But 4 goodness sakes it was built!!! I gotta get movin"!!!!
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Sep 18
@db2074 gotta move .
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
30 Aug 18
I think I'm pretty hard on myself, although I wish I didn't have to be. I push myself to get things done, because they just have to get done.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@spiderdust your right.Things has to get done.
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@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
31 Aug 18
To be frank I sometimes push myself. But I know we have to be easy on ourselves. it is ok things go wrong and you cannot meet deadlines always.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
31 Aug 18
@mysimplelot yes try not to push yourself hard there.