Do you have brothers? How do you deal with them? / myLot

September 6, 2018 10:56am CST

I have a brother who is younger than me. Even if I am his big sister, he bullied me. We never could get along. Now he is far away and he never calls me. I am in Europe and he is in USA. We have a distant relationship. I don't know if for you it's the same. Something happened and our relationship has worsened. I always fighted with my brother. If you have brothers how do you get along with them? I think brothers should be our best friends. They have to support us in this tough life. Image credits: http://unisci24.com

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Shiva

@Shiva49 (26192)

• Singapore

6 Sep 18

I have two brothers and we get along just fine - help and support each other whenever the need arises. It serves us well to be in touch as we share the same parents - siva

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DianneN

@DianneN (246334)

• United States

6 Sep 18

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Marlina

@marlina (154166)

• Canada

6 Sep 18

I have 2 brothers and we never had any fighting together. It was my oldest brother's birthday yesterday.

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marguicha

@marguicha (215189)

• Chile

6 Sep 18

My brother used to be a very good friend. Not anymore. Now we have a polite relationship, but that is all.

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topffer

@topffer (42156)

• France

6 Sep 18

I have a brother. We have not always been in good terms, but our relationship has improved, maybe because he lives in another city and we do not call each other often...

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Sai

@vsai2008 (11796)

• India

6 Sep 18

I had the best relationship with my brother till he got married. But now we talk rarely.

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august

@august18 (3907)

• Tunisia

6 Sep 18

I have two brothers and we get along very well. It's true that there are some ups and downs in our relationship but we are always there to support each other.

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21898)

• Thailand

7 Sep 18

I have a brother and six sisters, they are all older than me, (I'm the youngest, ehem!) My brother and sisters and me used to fight a lot as in a lot. but now we are OK, and my brother is such a sweet guy.

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DianneN

@DianneN (246334)

• United States

6 Sep 18

My brother and I love each other. We live in the same state and he bought a condo in the same complex as us in Florida, too. We had our arguments as kids, but we are closer than ever. I'm so sorry you and your brother have distanced yourselves. How about a friendly text or phone call to break the ice?

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Angie

@andriaperry (116860)

• Anniston, Alabama

6 Sep 18

I have one brother I have not seen since 1982, I got other brothers and we get along, we just don`t hang out much anymore or talk a lot.

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Courage7

@Courage7 (19633)

• United States

6 Sep 18

I am sorry to hear about the not so good relationship with your brother. Yes brothers can be good for us and protective. But my brother also I only have one is all over this big country and now he is a complete stranger no contact. It is sad.

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Jamilah Hassan

@JamilahPH (105)

• Brunei Darussalam

6 Sep 18

I have nine brothers, and most of the times they wre very supportive. The only brother that i remember having a fight with was the one who is one year older than me, that is when we were younger. I don't remember having any fight with the others, especially as we grow older. I have respect for them. Simple rule for keeping a harmony with family - Respect elders and love and care for younger members.

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@freelancermariagrace (27219)

• Philippines

7 Sep 18

I have an older brother but we are not that close.

Nicckholla

@Nickzter1331 (4229)

• Philippines

6 Sep 18

,,,yup., i have an older brother.... i get along with him through music... we're very close...

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Melody

@melody22 (291)

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7 Sep 18

I have 5 brothers who are younger than me but he really have a hood relationship. Sometimes we faught but in the end we stick together. I’m still their big sister so they respect me. :)

ultraman cosmos

@id_peace (14005)

• Singapore

7 Sep 18

No I do not have any brother.

Debashri Das

@deba12 (2951)

• India

7 Sep 18

I have cousin brothers. From my childhood they are not so close relationship with them. We have a hi and bye relationship. I don't feel sad thinking that I have no brother.