How to deal with a nagging child?

@debjani1 (7211)
September 21, 2018 1:40am CST
She get irritated continuously at the time of study. My child is interested only in playing. She is 8 years old .She only wants that everyone should listen to her but she listen or follow our words rarely. How to deal with such a child?
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@MALUSE (69428)
• Germany
21 Sep 18
You can ask the member @TheHorse. He is a child psychiatrist.
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@TheHorse (203718)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Sep 18
I might need a bit more information to be of much help.
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@debjani1 (7211)
24 Sep 18
Tell me what to do?
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@debjani1 (7211)
24 Sep 18
Okay take your time to help me more.
@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
21 Sep 18
You have to stop some old style of approach or treatment for her. It is time to introduce to her new treatments of approach, new styles or new of routines to motivate her for good attitudes and character buildings. To focus her attention on other more creative and productive things that are good for her life ahead. Like, firstly, is you have to personally talk to her teacher at the school. Ask her teacher's assessment to your daughter. How she is doing in class and with other of her classmates. What needs more improvements. And also have consultations with her teacher or even with some of your personal friends or with other persons that might help you, about your daughter behaviors. Have a friend of your daughter or other kids to have some enjoyable group studies. Or make the study a fun atmosphere. Give her favorite happy snacks after finished studying or doing her assignments first. Giver her rewards (like new toys, etc.) when her grades or good and satisfied. It is also very good when you make your daughter always busy. Like doing self-improvements skills/talents. Train her into sports or in singing, dancing, acting, modeling, arts, and so on. And, most of all this hard to do. Self-discipline. Like, time management. Early time to sleep, early time to wake-up in the morning. Nap in mid-afternoon. When to take a bath. And, when to play outside.
@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
21 Sep 18
@debjani1 That's good. Keep on watching and look out on her. Appreciate her always. Motivate her. Now you have to learn for yourself about dancing. So, you can be her personal private trainer. Search for workshops or studios for training kids on dancing or other creative arts/talents/skills.
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@debjani1 (7211)
22 Sep 18
She is already involved in dancing and drawing. During 1st year she was very interested. As the day goes by she becomes less interested.
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@debjani1 (7211)
21 Sep 18
She is learning dance. I have talked to her teacher. She said that she is learning slowly. I have to give her more time.
@VivaLaDani13 (59989)
• Perth, Australia
26 Apr 19
@debjani1 I wish I knew the answer. I don't have any kids of my own but I do love watching a show called Super Nanny. She deals with child who misbehave. Teaches parents how to deal with their children when they aren't listening or messing up etc. Maybe would worth watching if you wanted to.
@sukhmani (881)
21 Sep 18
Just treat her with love ..try to be a friend with her..make the study as interesting as playing so that she doesn't feel the study boaring.
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@debjani1 (7211)
24 Sep 18
She doesn't want to sit even at the time of study. She started crying.
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@sukhmani (881)
24 Sep 18
@debjani1 treat her with love.
@debjani1 (7211)
25 Sep 18
I will.
21 Sep 18
whenever my daughther will have that mood i let her understand that if she will give me a bad behavior that is what she will get from me too. so she needs to be good and just let me know nicely what she feels and want.
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@debjani1 (7211)
25 Sep 18
She gets angry when you try to tell her about good behaviour. But still we will try our best.