Want to change my husband's mind.

@debjani1 (7207)
September 21, 2018 10:57am CST
My husband always busy with his office work. He is not entertaining. Even he always talks about his office related work. Hardly l can talk to him about other matters. He is short tempered. Well he is very caring. Suggest me how to make him involved in family.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
21 Sep 18
You need to talk to him and ket him know how you feel. Let him know that you love him and want to spend time with him. You guys should have a candle light dinner and have some chatting not discussing about work at all. Good luck.
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@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
He is not interested in candle night dinner. But other suggestions given by you is really nice. I will definitely try to follow.
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
25 Sep 18
@debjani1 Best of luck dear.
@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
@BabeSays thank you
@melissa1024 (2456)
• Beckley, West Virginia
22 Sep 18
You need to sit down with your husband and let him know that work needs to be let at work because it is interfering with you alls relationship. I am sorry but to put it bluntly if you do not talk to him and let him know how you feel things will never change and may only get worse. Communication is key to a good, healthy relationship. Good luck, my friend.
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• Beckley, West Virginia
26 Sep 18
@debjani1 That's the best thing to do. I assure you that keeping the lines of communication open will help keep things running more smoothly, atleast, it has in my 20 year marriage.
@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
I will assure you that I will definitely talk to him about this matter.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
24 Sep 18
Get him to pay the bill.
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@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
Yeah sure he will pay the bill.
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
21 Sep 18
he needs to learn how to leave work at work. no work talk at the dinner table.
@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
I think he will definitely change with time as we talked about other matters while taking dinner.
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@kajuuu (54)
26 Sep 18
first of all if he stays busy in office then let him be free from all that. ...then when he comes to u ...frst of all let him say abt todays work or u ask ...then sort out by talking if there is any business issues try to make him relax. ..after that u say your talks. ..I hope then he will listen and understand you !! good luck !!
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@debjani1 (7207)
26 Sep 18
Thank you. Now day by day he is gradually changing.
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@elfness (11)
• United States
23 Sep 18
If it's really bothering you then try talking to him about it.
@debjani1 (7207)
25 Sep 18
Okay.
@VivaLaDani13 (60314)
• Perth, Australia
26 Apr 19
@debjani1 I'm very sorry to know this as family time is really important. I understand that work is important too but there will come a time where he is too old and it's too late to play with his daughter or go out with him. He needs to know that time is ticking away and any precious time left with you guys is important! Even if it's a movie night once a week or just something once a week where it's just you guys together enjoying each other's company!
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
26 Sep 18
You can text him. That's would be a peaceful way.