My Not-So-Good Neighbour

By Sai
@vsai2008 (11796)
India
September 25, 2018 5:17am CST
As i posted previously, we were away from home for a few days as my nephew fractured his elbow, my neighbour was responsible for keeping the area infront of both our homes neatly. We share a common space. But instead of keeping it clean, she dumped most of the garbage just infront of our door. Last night i couldn't make out as it was dark, but today morning my mother told me what she has done, it wasn't good. I clean the common area once every 2 days and wash it weekly. But we haven't done what she has done. Today as i slept late, my mother cleaned our common area. My neighbour really tests my patience level.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
25 Sep 18
argh! such a nerve wrecking.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
Yes, sometimes i get so angry but she is somewhat hopeless kind of person So i let it go
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
25 Sep 18
@vsai2008 correct it is better than way that to pick a fight.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
@Mavic123456 i too feel so, better to use our energies in a positive way
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
26 Sep 18
that is what usually happens in front of our gate. the trash of others are thrown in front. that is why i always talk loud saying ''you want to keep your place clean, but you throw your garbage in another person's lawn?''
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
27 Sep 18
@vsai2008 my sister and i do talk loud but not shout because we say our piece to the general public who may be listening to our rants.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
27 Sep 18
@ridingbet i told my dad about talking loud so that people can hear, he told it is good idea lol He will do it soon it seems hahah
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
Hahaha this is also good, she is a loud person maybe she too will understand if others shout like her But i cant do that, maybe my dad can lol
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• United States
25 Sep 18
Wow, I think I would have picked all the garbage up and throw it in front of her door. She might would get the message then.
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• United States
25 Sep 18
@vsai2008 the way I see it is, what goes around comes around! lol
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
Hahaha that would have been good, thanks for the idea I will do that next time something similar happens
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
@sweetashoney haha so true, she needs to know the taste of her own medicine I agree with you
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Sep 18
That’s not nice! I guess your neighbor can’t be trusted.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Sep 18
@vsai2008 I’d be sooooo upset, too!
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
@DianneN She does things according to her convenience , makes me upset and angry as well
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
We can't even talk to her, trusting would come much later I guess
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Sep 18
I have some different problems like decorating apartment in middle of night.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
You decorate or someone else does it??
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
@mrki444 oh no My neighbour has similar issues, i can completely understand you
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Sep 18
@vsai2008 My neighbours do (I forgot type). I can't sleep because of noice.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
25 Sep 18
Huh? Why would they do that? It's so rude and disrespectful! I am a very patient man, but this kind of things needs an explanation, I would demand one from them .
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
@Kasjnak Just today morning she was shouting on her mobile phone on someone, i could hear her from every part of my home Noise has been my constant companion since they came
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
They were kind of good when they came first after that they showed their true colors. She doesn't let us speak and on top of that she plays victim. It is really vary hard to converse with her.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
26 Sep 18
@vsai2008 I'm sorry for that. I know he tipe, met a few people like that and I didn't like them .
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
25 Sep 18
Sorry to hear about your unpleasant experience with your neighbor. I hope she realizes that not only is it unsightly to have garbage in front of your common space but it can also be a health hazard. Have you tried talking to her? Hopefully she is not that unpleasant to talk to.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
She is very unpleasant to talk to, she doesn't let the person even open the mouth, she just goes on and on. We all are having very difficulty in speaking to her, it has been 5 yrs,but we still can't make her understand.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
25 Sep 18
do you not have a community leader you can talk to about this?
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• Philippines
26 Sep 18
@vsai2008 no wonder she acts that way.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
My apartment president and that lady are friends, they are similar people
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
@hereandthere we cam hear her everytime she opens her mouth Hopefully we will get a calm neighbours next time
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
25 Sep 18
your supposed to get along.But here not
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
It is not possible, we tried but now we just let go
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
26 Sep 18
@amadeo That's really nice and brave of him to accept and apologise for all the mistakes he has done. Glad you could patch up
@Janet357 (75657)
25 Sep 18
We have the same problem with my neighbor, i meant not the thing. It’s about the parking area. They love to park in front of our gate and we can’t get out because of their vehicles.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
25 Sep 18
The people who have good neighbours are really blessed i would say. We have been living with them for the past 5 years and they have created lot of problems for us. Did you talk to them about the problem you are facing??