Gone without a trace
@allknowing (130067)
India
September 28, 2018 7:10am CST
There is a thing called closure when a person dies but when someone who stays away because of helplessness then that indeed is a sad thing.
@Hatley (Patsie) is one user here who we cannot contact nor can she contact us. She has not been posting for months now, She is one of the oldest users here and used to be a regular participant
Won't it be a happy moment if at all she gets back?.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
Despite her age and poor eye sight she posted here although we had to try and decipher (lol)
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
28 Sep 18
@allknowing Yes, it was hard work trying to work out what she was saying, but she is a sweetheart.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
In this time and age it is pathetic that such rules are imposed. Not even a phone connection is never heard of
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@LadyDuck (457315)
• Switzerland
29 Sep 18
@allknowing I fully agree and her son wrote that she is not at all happy, poor Patsie.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Sep 18
I would love to see her back here and I hope that she is doing well and very much much better too.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Sep 18
@allknowing
Well I don´t know its just my wish for her that´s all for her to be well.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
I have my doubts about her doing well. Her son is not clear on that.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
@sol_cee There were no codes used by her that one had to decipher what she wrote 
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
But that did not stop her from posting and that did not stop others from responding to her discussions although it was tough trying to know what she wanted to say That is myLot for you.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
29 Sep 18
@allknowing I like 'deciphering' her discussion. I hope she's okay wherever she is.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
She does not even have a phone. That is terrible.
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@JudyEv (325265)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Sep 18
@allknowing I didn't realise she didn't even have a phone. Poor Patsie.
@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
29 Sep 18
I did'nt notice Patsie here when I started because I was not around since July. I've search her account and I can't read what she meant, not to be rude but is she dyslexic?
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
She is almost the senior most here and later on she had very bad eye sight and could not type properly
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
29 Sep 18
She's very old and was in a nursing home. I think her eyesight may be bad as well, although I'm not sure about that. I started here in 2011 and she was here then, a very popular member. She had some epic discussions. By epic I mean pages and pages long, if I remember right.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
She is totally disconnected - she does not even have a phone.
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@marguicha (215134)
• Chile
28 Sep 18
I also miss Patsie and feel like you do. I´m glad that JJ is friends with her son in FB and we can know about her from time to time. I want more though
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@marguicha (215134)
• Chile
28 Sep 18
@allknowing I know. She was in a way the soul of what mylot is about.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
There are many who have gone without a trace but Patsie is different. 
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 Sep 18
'One of the things I like about myLot' is that ... it's here whether we show up or not! But it is 'nice to be missed.'
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
There are a few here that cannot be forgotten
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 Sep 18
@allknowing Right, but we're not 'waiting for them.' We're glad they're here, but they're not here 'because we need them to be' or 'because we force them to be' ... and thus we are honored by their presence 
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
29 Sep 18
Many of us were hoping her son could help her with this while she is on the mend, but I'm not sure if they live in the same area.
Some posts about Patsie have been on Facebook.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
29 Sep 18
Her son is also in a way helpless from what I read from a message he sent me may be a month or two ago.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
Such a small thing as the use of a computer she is deprived of. Sad indeed
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
15 Oct 18
No one knows what condition she is in just now.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
This member cannot be missed She was large as life here (lol)
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@popciclecold (35024)
• United States
28 Sep 18
I am so glad you posted about Patsie, and glad to know JJ is friends with her son. I do miss her.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
28 Sep 18
I am crossing my fingers. I am not a regular poster / visitor here but I noticed her absence.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
She is the oldest I think around 90 and was one of the most active users here.
@Marilynda1225 (79556)
• United States
28 Sep 18
I miss Patsie too and can only hope one day she'll have computer access and can say hello
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Sep 18
No computer, no Internet and no phone connection too. How can one live in peace this way?
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