Are you the planner in the Family?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 28, 2018 8:26am CST
Sometimes I am when it comes to what is going to cook. Also when it comes to what to buy. Yes, I can say that since I am the eldest of the sibling, I plan most of the time. I also make rules. The other day, 2 of my siblings agreed we have to save for the future renovation of our house. Our house is too old and we need to do some fixing too.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137168)
• Philippines
28 Sep 18
I am a planner to all the needs of my immediate family.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137168)
• Philippines
30 Sep 18
@JustBhem You said it right. I am the eldest and my old man's responsibilities were turned over.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 18
I assume because you are the eldest too?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Oct 18
@Shavkat No wonder you are now the head of the Family.
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Shubhu
@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
28 Sep 18
That's nice. I'm a planner in terms of deciding where to go for dinner or lunch when we plan to go out
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 18
I see, which is not bad, right? Because we still have our purpose.
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Shubhu
@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
28 Sep 18
@JustBhem Yeah true. And it feels good when people look up to you for decisions.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 18
@shubhu3 Yes, especially if it's good for the household.
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Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
28 Sep 18
No I am too lazy to think haha.
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Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
29 Sep 18
@JustBhem No.. I am just the laid back type. hahaa. I am the youngest.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 18
So mostly you are the one who tells them to do this and that?
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 18
@Mavic123456 I see you are the boss then. Because usually, the youngest is the boss.
Bojel
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
29 Sep 18
I want to organize outings -- but I ask the people in the household of their suggestions.
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Bojel
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
29 Sep 18
@JustBhem most of the time it will not happen. Lol
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 18
And when is your plan? For sure they gonna like it.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 18
@jobelbojel Ahahaha. If you are the one who will plan the outing.
Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
28 Sep 18
I am not Mike is the big boss.lol
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 18
So you are the follower, Fredo? Lol
Darcy Nemo
@YrNemo (20261)
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28 Sep 18
I cook only for myself these days, and sometimes for others who come to visit me, so it is OK.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 18
I see, how about what to buy in the grocery?
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Darcy Nemo
@YrNemo (20261)
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28 Sep 18
@JustBhem never think much about it. While in the store, anything seems to be of a good price at the time, then that is what I am going to get (or if I am close enough to certain items which look interesting enough...).
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DianneN
@DianneN (246336)
• United States
28 Sep 18
My husband and I share the planning of the big things,
Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (305223)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Sep 18
It's good you all work together. I live alone, so that makes me the planner.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325086)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Sep 18
I think I'm the planner mostly. My husband gets a bit carried away in his own little world sometimes and it's left up to me to make sure things happen.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 18
And he trusts you on that which is a good thing.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75657)
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28 Sep 18
both of us. When it comes to buying things and my husband will use his money, he will decide but will ask me first.
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@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
28 Sep 18
Yes, sometimes. But I don't make the rules.