spreadPOSITIVISM
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
September 30, 2018 8:02pm CST
It is the first day of October my friends and I am resting here watching TV and making a discussion.
Since it is Monday and October 1st, positive vibrations should be felt around so there will be no misfortunes or bad luck and misunderstanding among people. But it is not the case here today.
My son arrived last night at around 9:30 pm but had to bring the car for a celebration with the students at a famous food store. He came back after an hour. This morning too he left at 8:30 am and he kissed me goodbye. He also does the cheek to cheek kiss with my sister but when I went out, my son's face was cross and my sister was talking loud. I asked why.
My sister said she refused the act because she was sweating; she was sweeping the garden with her usual sighs and rants. My son didn't feel good about that so he kissed me twice.
My sister is once again "in her menopausal period " with that kind of attitude. I should keep quiet now although we had a heated argument again yesterday.
How can you spread positivism in such a negative environment?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
oh, my sister was not nice that time. she intentionally worked strenuously in the garden and did not wipe her sweat even though she had a franella in her shoulder (we have that to wipe our sweat). she intentionally refused the kiss of my son. even with the knocking of their heads is already good for my son, but my sister refused. they both spoke loud that i went out of the veranda, and also to traffic my son from the garage to the road. i then left her out and kept quiet.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
2 Oct 18
@ridingbet Oh my goodness, I wonder why your sister is sometimes so rude.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
@LadyDuck yes, you can definitely say that again. always, but she reasons out she is already old, but she is still coherent.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
too bad he broke off with his gf. now, he is eyeing on one co-teacher but he says it is not a priority for him because he wants to hone his teaching skills.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
1 Oct 18
well she is right maybe, and maybe also wrong because she could have just accepted the kiss.. anyway..
“If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely”
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
my sister knew it was the first day of the month and first day of the week. because of her negativity, she will be in that kind of attitude until the 31st day of October.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Oct 18
@ridingbet lol. come on you know that's not true, maybe it is just a bad timing.
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
1 Oct 18
So your sister is in her menopausal stage! Women in that stage got Negative Mental Attitude. hehehe
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Oct 18
@ridingbet Just like my wife! ahahaha!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
@antonbunot but is your wife menopaused now?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
kabsat, my sister was already menopaused since 1980s yet because she was operated on due to ovarian cysts. her attitude is like that of a woman in her menopausal stage---cranky and 'nonsense'.
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@DianneN (246788)
• United States
2 Oct 18
@ridingbet Yep, I know your sister. She could have been much sweeter in saying goodbye to your wonderful son. Sigh....
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
@DianneN i think my sister was surprised before because my son applied for the job on Monday and was accepted on Wednesday, and she was not yet adjusted to the work time of my son.
for me, even though i sleep late, i have to wake up early to prepare breakfast for my son.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
if you know the attitude of my sister, you too will be disgusted. my son was showing respect by saying goodbye through the cheek to cheek kiss. my sister's face was cross, eyebrows meeting at the glabella, and pouting. she should have just said 'i am sweating' and offered her head but she was really rude in denying the kiss to my son.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
right, but your positivism should spread around. by smiling at one, the smile will travel far, and that is positivism
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
2 Oct 18
@ridingbet Yes but they do not like me to be cheerful I have a grouch so that is okay.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
that was what my son did. he drove the car to school though i saw his disgusted face, and after i closed the gate, i did not say a word to my sister, and silence ''was golden''.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
that was what i wished for... no bad vibrations please, but my sister knew that and still she was cross.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
i am always the mediator if these 2 have animosity with each other. my son too cheers me up if i and my sister argue with each ther.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
it is always like that. i am the quiet one while she mumbles senselessly. but sometimes i erupt too.
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