First Day of October

@CarolDM (203454)

Nashville, Tennessee

October 1, 2018 11:26am CST

Lots of change in the air as October rolls in this fall. Not a lot of cooler weather but still a change can be felt. Changes are hard to deal with at times. I am trying my best to take my own advice I have given others. Roll with it. whatever happens, whatever you are feeling, just roll with it. It will all be ok. Take deep breaths. That helps. My PTSD rears its ugly head so often it seems, especially during change. But I will continue taking deep breaths and enjoying the fresh air. And I will just roll with it as I tell others to do. Happiness and peace are what I seek. Do you have a problem taking your own advice sometimes?

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@jparag777 (90)

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1 Oct 18

Yes you are right, that's why I never give any advice to others. I mean I don't like when someone advices me on most of the occasions , that's why I don't give advice to anyone. I mean everyone had his or her unique kinds of problems. What applies to us may not apply to them. That's why it is better to never advice anyone, I guess it's better to share your experiences with others , if they feel like learning from your experiences then the purpose is served. :)

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

If someone asks me for advice I give it but I never volunteer anything. I disagree with you, if they ask, I will give it by telling them it is only my opinion. That is how you can help others.

@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

@jparag777 Yes thank you

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@jparag777 (90)

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1 Oct 18

@CarolDM That's true , I agree with you on that, if someone asks for your advice you need to give it

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@LadyDuck (458091)

• Switzerland

2 Oct 18

I cannot give advice to myself, I am good to give to others, but not to myself.

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@LadyDuck (458091)

• Switzerland

3 Oct 18

@CarolDM We can see what other people need, it's difficult to know what ourselves need and should do.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

2 Oct 18

I think most of us are like that.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

3 Oct 18

@LadyDuck Yes indeed but we still need to take our own advice from time to time.

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@skysnap (20154)

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1 Oct 18

Year is finishing really fast. It seems like january was just last month. but we are in october now.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

I know, it is way too fast.

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@DianneN (246776)

• United States

1 Oct 18

For many, it's easier to give advice than follow it. I hope you receive happiness and peace you seek.

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@DianneN (246776)

• United States

1 Oct 18

@CarolDM That, it is.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Thank you Dianne. It is easier to give.

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@shubhu3 (36464)

• New Delhi, India

1 Oct 18

True. It's easy to say to others and when you have to do the same it becomes challenging.

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@shubhu3 (36464)

• New Delhi, India

2 Oct 18

@CarolDM Yeah I agree.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Yes but we have to start looking out for ourselves eventually.

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@Courage7 (19633)

• United States

1 Oct 18

Oh yes I certainly do. I am all good at trying to advise others, but for myself, I am a mess. I do love this month though, it is my favorite in the whole year. I just want to get moved anxious about that and waiting on others to get their act together. Sorry to hear of your PTSD, I too have it so can empathize with that. Blessings for you this month Carol.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

I know what you mean but it is time to change. Thanks, yes the PTSD is for another day. Thanks and the same to you.

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@Courage7 (19633)

• United States

1 Oct 18

@CarolDM Thank you

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

2 Oct 18

@Courage7 You are always welcome.

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@kevin1877uk (36988)

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2 Oct 18

Cooler here in the UK to what it was a month ago. Yes always do have problems taking my own advice lol.

@Juliaacv (48420)

• Canada

1 Oct 18

Our own advise is sometimes easier to give then to practise ourselves. I hope that you continue to roll with the changes.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Thank you very much.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

1 Oct 18

Oh yes many times.Not sure why

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

It is always easier to tell others what to do than to do it ourselves.

@wolfgirl569 (95165)

• Marion, Ohio

1 Oct 18

Yes you need to take that advice. Change is necessary and can be good.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Thank you very much, message heard loud and clear. You are so right.

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@Marilynda1225 (79709)

• United States

1 Oct 18

Just roll with it sounds like good advice. Sometimes I need to do that myself.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Yes we all do Marilyn.

@andriaperry (116860)

• Anniston, Alabama

1 Oct 18

Sorry, I am not like the others. I give advice its because I do it myself. Being a caregiver I practice what I preach and I am no fragile flower. Just yesterday I had the old fat man out walking with me again. I am up to 15 laps per day and he is back up to 3, yesterday he told me to go ahead he wanted to walk slow, I did. Instead pf 3 laps he did 5 laps. I was impressed and said so, he told me I was in his head telling him he can do it, that he can do whatever he wants, he does have the power. Yes you have ALL that power. So feel as you want to feel, you can do whatever you you want.

Oh you are new here, Tony has stage 4 lung cancer, in remission for the 2nd. time. Estimated time to live 2 years. He has lived 2 1/2

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

No need to be sorry Andria. Wow good for Tony.

@JohnRoberts (109857)

• Los Angeles, California

1 Oct 18

Perhaps more difficult as one becomes older.

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@CarolDM (203454)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Oct 18

Yes I am learning that John.

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