Does it hurt you?
By Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
Mauritius
October 1, 2018 8:49pm CST
I recently went to a newbie post on which he was given lot of tips.
Among which someone gave him the tips to avoid calling my "friend and dear" which interacting. I gulped and that put me it deep thinking since I do this all the time.
I consider everyone on mylot to be my friend. I never thought if someone might not actually like it and feel bad.
Do you dislike it if someone calls you friend or dear?
I'm sorry if I've hurt you I didn't meant to.
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25 responses
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
2 Oct 18
I don't mind the terms of endearment, but I wish that the people who use them would leave an elaborate comment and not just a "Thanks".
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
2 Oct 18
@BabeSays It especially hurts when the discussion is theirs and they dont participate.
Seems so aloof. 
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@arunima25 (85269)
• Bangalore, India
2 Oct 18
They are many here who use that and I don't find anything wrong with it. I am okay.
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@arunima25 (85269)
• Bangalore, India
2 Oct 18
@BabeSays You are welcome to call me friend anytime. I will be more than happy.
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Big hugs 
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Oct 18
I don`t mine it online, on mylot. I do not like it in person though, men can make me feel creepy calling me names like babe, honey, sweetie and darling.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
2 Oct 18
Yes me either. Only on mylot with mylotters. In real life that's gonna be too creepy.
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
2 Oct 18
I feel the same here on mylot. I feel being closed to them and happy. Glad that you don't find it offensive. 
@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
I actually find it sweet when someone calls me “friend” or “dear.”
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@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
@BabeSays Haha. Glad we are on the same boat.
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@betlynfrnds (4060)
• United States
2 Oct 18
I have no problem at all being a 'friend' or a 'dear' to anyone. I've had numerous members use those terms with me and I am fine with it. In fact I think it's nice.
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@betlynfrnds (4060)
• United States
3 Oct 18
@BabeSays With all of the conflicts we see and read about, terms of endearment are a very nice change of pace.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
3 Oct 18
@shaggin can I say "amen" to your comment? Some people look for reasons to be annoyed and complain. I hope I never do that to people.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
i prefer to be called by my name or username. i wish not to be addressed as ''dude'', ''bro'', or honey'', although there are some who address me that. i sometimes call Filipino Ilocano friends as ''kabsat'' (sibling) or hijo or hija.
being called ''friend'' is fine as long as i know my boundaries as a 'virtual' friend.
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
2 Oct 18
@BabeSays I have no problem if someone calls me friend or dear.I wonder what's objectionable here.
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
2 Oct 18
@BabeSays 'You are most welcome."Friend" and "dear" show friendliness and love.And that's what we like to see in others.
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• Derry, Northern Ireland
6 Oct 18
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