Daddy's Gone

@nanette64 (20368)
Fairfield, Texas
October 4, 2018 11:35am CST
God and his angels came by and took my Dad early this morning. Besides his advancement with Alzheimer's, he had developed a Hernia, twisted intestine and colon which developed into a serious case of Sepsis. He was taken to the hospital from the nursing home a week ago and put on antibiotics before the possibility of any surgery. The doctors said the Sepsis was too bad, so they transferred him to a Hospice on Monday. He was in horrible pain and even on Morphine, when he would awaken, he was crying, "Help me, help me!" So after 3 days, Dad is no longer in any pain. Bye Dad, I love you.
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@amadeo (111956)
• United States
4 Oct 18
I am so sorry there.Your right he is no longer in pain.Now he will feel rested.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
Thank you @amadeo . Knowing my Dad, he's probably already raising holy cane up yonder.
@amadeo (111956)
• United States
4 Oct 18
@nanette64 Good for him.Why not
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
My condolences. He is now in an eternal place where he cannot feel any pain anymore.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @SIMPLYD That's the way I look at it too.
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@LadyDuck (454850)
• Switzerland
5 Oct 18
I am really sorry Nanette, this was the only thing my mother said the last few days of her life "Helpme, help me!". This is heartbreaking, they are better now, free of pain.
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@LadyDuck (454850)
• Switzerland
6 Oct 18
@nanette64 My parents are finally reunited, living in pain in a hospital bed is not life.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
6 Oct 18
@LadyDuck I agree 100%
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
And for my dad to have been such a strong man, for him to say those words rips you apart @LadyDuck . I think of both my Mom & Dad as sleeping peacefully.
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@JudyEv (323662)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Oct 18
I am so sorry. I really hate it when people have to die in so much pain. At least his agony is over.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
I appreciate it @JudyEv . I can't even imagine his suffering.
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@dgobucks226 (34196)
11 Oct 18
So sorry to hear Nanette It is so hard going through the loss of a parent. With me, even though they are with God, they are never far from my thoughts for very long. The memories for me can be bittersweet, but in a way comforting too. It is a helpless feeling to see those you love so much suffer before heading off to eternal life.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
12 Oct 18
Thank you so much @dgobucks226 for your response; it means alot.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
19 Oct 18
@dgobucks226 I am so sorry for your loss too.
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@dgobucks226 (34196)
12 Oct 18
@nanette64 Anytime, I recently lost my father too and understand completely Nanette...
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
4 Oct 18
I have compassion friend so sorry for your loss, I recently lost Mom so RIP both. She also was in agony in hospice and morphine.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
Oh lordy @Courage7 ; it rips your heart out to see them diminish like that.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
@Courage7 I know. But I still talk to my Momma every day.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
5 Oct 18
@nanette64 Yes it destroyed me, I am a changed person.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
4 Oct 18
It is a moving discussion. Receive my sincere condolences.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
Thank you @topffer . It makes us think about every day being important because you never know.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
4 Oct 18
@nanette64 Very true
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@Juliaacv (48220)
• Canada
4 Oct 18
I'm so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest and most heart-felt sympathies.
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@Juliaacv (48220)
• Canada
5 Oct 18
@nanette64 You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
Thank you @Juliaacv I appreciate it.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
4 Oct 18
My deepest condolences, Nanette. May your dad rest in peace without anymore suffering. I'm so sorry to hear this.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
4 Oct 18
I appreciate it @DianneN . I will miss him and his orneryness. He was such a strong man.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
4 Oct 18
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@sunrisefan (28650)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
My condolences on your dad's passing, Ms.Nanette. I'm sure he's in a better place now.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @sunrisefan . I think he is too.
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@sunrisefan (28650)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
@nanette64 You're welcome, Ms. Nanette.
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@FayeHazel (40250)
• United States
5 Oct 18
I'm so sorry
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
6 Oct 18
Thank you very much @FayeHazel .
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@arunima25 (84953)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct 18
So sorry to hear that. My condolences to you and your family. May God give you strength to overcome this loss. May your Dad's soul rest in peace.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @arunima25 . No more pain.
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@arunima25 (84953)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct 18
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@debjani1 (7211)
5 Oct 18
So sorry. But now he will be free from pain forever now. Though you miss him a lot but when you think of his painful moment then I think you will thank GOD for taking him. If he survive more then he will have to suffer more.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
I agree with you @debjani1 . I don't think I could take that pain either.
@debjani1 (7211)
5 Oct 18
@nanette64 I know it will be more painful for u to see your dad suffering.
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• Quezon, Philippines
6 Oct 18
I'm sorry to hear it my dad paased away when I was 16 many years may had been passed there still the sadness in my heart and there are times most of the time that I long for him he is the kindest person I've ever met.My dad brought us to church every Sunday taught us to pray and to read the bibile that's one thing I will never forget and will always be thankful for to my dad. I'm most thankful to God that he has given my dad for us. Just keep on praying Nannette though we may not know each other, you will feel the sadness the loneliness and you will feel long for your dad just be strong and ask God to give you more strenght. You need to go througjh it so you can get through it. God bless.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
6 Oct 18
Thank you very much for your comforting thoughts @beannieboo .
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@snowy22315 (168368)
• United States
5 Oct 18
Oh my..so sorry about your dad..Thank goodness he is no longer in pain. Bless his soul!
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @snowy22315 I will truly miss him.
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@DWDavis (25820)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
5 Oct 18
I am so very sorry to learn of you father's passing and even more so to learn his last days were such a trial for him and all of you who loved him. I pray you are able to take some comfort from knowing he isn't hurting anymore and is at peace.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @DWDavis . I'll remember him as his orney, old self.
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@MALUSE (69428)
• Germany
4 Oct 18
It's understandable that you are sad but I'm sure it is a comfort for you to know that your father doesn't have to suffer anymore. May he rest in peace.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you so much @MALUSE .
@Shiva49 (26163)
• Singapore
5 Oct 18
Sorry to hear this news We feel more pain when we see others suffering and we are helpless to be of help. Yes, he is relieved of his pain after a well-lived life - siva
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
He managed 88 years @Shiva49 so I'd say that's pretty good.
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• New Delhi, India
5 Oct 18
May his soul rest in peace.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
Thank you @Swayamsiddha , I truly appreciate it.
@ZedSmart (19754)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
I understand the pain but now he's in the good hands and I think he is happy. My condolences.
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@nanette64 (20368)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Oct 18
I think he is too @ZedSmart . Thank you so much.
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