When exactly should we stop being kind

October 4, 2018 11:59pm CST
People can be so ungrateful that our act of kindness turn sour.you lend someone and they refused to payback, you housed a friend and it become war and things like this.When do we draw the line or do we give and be kind still it hurt? What's your take on this?
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
5 Oct 18
Kindness is like our skin and it should always be there but sometimes we may need to protect our skin so that we don't get hurt.
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@Rashnag (30600)
• Surat, India
5 Oct 18
One should be cautious while interacting with someone and can be kind to others. Not everyone is mean so shouldn't stop being kind just a little bit careful
5 Oct 18
I like your suggestions
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@Rashnag (30600)
• Surat, India
5 Oct 18
@augusta123 Thanks dear
@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
When you start to feel you are being abused.
5 Oct 18
yea but will you stop still being kind
@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
@augusta123 depends on degree of abuse and my relation with them.
@Wowtalk (585)
• Jamaica
5 Oct 18
I learn to only to lend what I can lose. My view is that person borrow because they don't have in the first place. so the probability that they will pay up is very slim. Also money tend to get in the way of friendship, My motto is No if I cant lose it. It does hurt when especially when they make a vow and break it. Been in that position before but will never make that mistake again.
@Wowtalk (585)
• Jamaica
5 Oct 18
@augusta123 Thank you.
5 Oct 18
you've got great views
@Icydoll (36725)
• India
5 Oct 18
I have learnt that kindness should be Limit from my past experience..
5 Oct 18
maybe,should it be to everyone
@arunima25 (84953)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct 18
I always try to make sure that I am kind but firm. People should know the limit and not exploit me or abuse me. I have learnt my lesson hard way after few bad experiences.
5 Oct 18
I like the statement kind but firm it will be helpful
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@arunima25 (84953)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct 18
@augusta123 Thank you.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
5 Oct 18
When you know that a person is using you again and again, stop being kind.
5 Oct 18
yea,is it just to that person or everyone.
@Rosain (639)
• India
5 Oct 18
I stop being kind, whenever i notice people is taking advantage of it.
5 Oct 18
will be you stopped being kind to people