When exactly should we stop being kind

October 4, 2018 11:59pm CST
People can be so ungrateful that our act of kindness turn sour.you lend someone and they refused to payback, you housed a friend and it become war and things like this.When do we draw the line or do we give and be kind still it hurt? What's your take on this?
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8 responses
@1hopefulman (38698)
• Canada
5 Oct
Kindness is like our skin and it should always be there but sometimes we may need to protect our skin so that we don't get hurt.
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@Rashnag (4402)
• Thane, India
5 Oct
One should be cautious while interacting with someone and can be kind to others. Not everyone is mean so shouldn't stop being kind just a little bit careful
5 Oct
I like your suggestions
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@Rashnag (4402)
• Thane, India
5 Oct
@augusta123 Thanks dear
@Wowtalk (477)
• Jamaica
5 Oct
I learn to only to lend what I can lose. My view is that person borrow because they don't have in the first place. so the probability that they will pay up is very slim. Also money tend to get in the way of friendship, My motto is No if I cant lose it. It does hurt when especially when they make a vow and break it. Been in that position before but will never make that mistake again.
5 Oct
you've got great views
@Wowtalk (477)
• Jamaica
5 Oct
@augusta123 Thank you.
@arunima25 (14187)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct
I always try to make sure that I am kind but firm. People should know the limit and not exploit me or abuse me. I have learnt my lesson hard way after few bad experiences.
5 Oct
I like the statement kind but firm it will be helpful
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@arunima25 (14187)
• Bangalore, India
5 Oct
@augusta123 Thank you.
@louievill (21346)
• Philippines
5 Oct
When you start to feel you are being abused.
5 Oct
yea but will you stop still being kind
@louievill (21346)
• Philippines
5 Oct
@augusta123 depends on degree of abuse and my relation with them.
@Icydoll (29491)
• India
5 Oct
I have learnt that kindness should be Limit from my past experience..
5 Oct
maybe,should it be to everyone
@Rosain (661)
• India
5 Oct
I stop being kind, whenever i notice people is taking advantage of it.
5 Oct
will be you stopped being kind to people
@deba12 (3068)
• India
5 Oct
When you know that a person is using you again and again, stop being kind.
5 Oct
yea,is it just to that person or everyone.