I’m Sorry but I Don’t Have Cash in Me

@ZedSmart (19753)
Philippines
October 9, 2018 5:23am CST
Lately, I encountered a woman in the street when I go outside to buy a candy in the distant store because the one nearest to us was closed. I did not bring other cash except that money enough for me to buy. As our way comes close, she showed me a piece of paper and it’s a prescription paper but I didn’t have the time to read it. She asked me for some money but I wasn’t able to hand her some because I don’t have money except those few pennies enough to buy me candies. It was just quick encounter and I realized that I should have at least guided her to the proper place to where she could ask. I spend a couple of minutes thinking that I might have done something to at least help the woman. I felt guilt inside of me but I really don’t have the money. Was the woman did not really know what places to go on seeking help similar like hers? She could at least visit some local offices of the government. I might be judgmental if I would think that she just used it to collect alms as there are many the same cases I encountered in the past. They would show you piece of paper while others even gave you an envelope. They would say that they needed for help because their relatives died or in the hospital. Photo Credit: Pixabay.com
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
9 Oct 18
Didn't you even bring your checking account?
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
10 Oct 18
@ZedSmart there is a possibility just like that. I remember my experience, there was an old woman who sells vegetables on the corner of the market. just a small space with a small table and lots of different vegetables. I always buy from her because you know old woman and small space. Then one time without my routine market day I went to the market, about closing time. OMG I saw she was loading her vegetables in a beautiful, brand new SUV
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Oct 18
@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Oct 18
I don't have any. I might poorer than the woman herself.
@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
9 Oct 18
Do whatever you can. You will be rewarded for your actions even if it was a scammer. God will judge you by your intentions but by their intentions.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
10 Oct 18
@ZedSmart That's right Just do what your heart tells you.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Oct 18
It was just hit in my mind later that if she really needed the help, at least I should have told her to go at the nearest social welfare office.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
9 Oct 18
Hope she is not scamming you, somebody tried to do that to me before, no problem I could give her money but first I asked what's ailing you? " and she told me, next I said " let me look at the prescription " she showed it to me, I said " this prescription is not for your illness" then I asked " where are you from? " She told me a "sitio" in our "Barangay," then I ask to name me somebody she knows there, she could not, then I identified myself as a " kagawad" ( as I was during that time) she left in a hurry
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Oct 18
It could be a scheme. She thought perhaps that I have plenty of money but I'm sorry I don't have.
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
9 Oct 18
Would not be surprised if she was just a scammer.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Oct 18
You are right on that. I'm also very careful on dealing such people.
@arunima25 (85305)
• Bangalore, India
9 Oct 18
It leaves us with a guilt feeling. But many of them are scammers and should not be encouraged.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
9 Oct 18
Yes, it was. I thought of that too that the woman was just using it. I was not sure about that and I might be wrong. Although, there are institutions that she could ask for help and I think the first is at the city hall.
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@arunima25 (85305)
• Bangalore, India
9 Oct 18
@ZedSmart That always leaves us confused... whether it is a genuine thing or a scam. I try to ignore it.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
9 Oct 18
Sometimes I give some change when I have but sometimes when I don't I do feel badly about it.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
9 Oct 18
@ZedSmart I know maybe people who actually have extra cash should help those people
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
9 Oct 18
I feel sorry because what if she really needed that help.
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