Positive Outlook

@Nercie (231)
Naga City, Philippines
October 11, 2018 1:25am CST
I felt too much rejection wayback 10 years ago. I find it hard to cope up. Until I came out of my shell, I proved them wrong about me. Then, I get tired of proving to them what's my worth because I became consumed of hatred to those who rejected me and I came to my realization: The hell who are you to keep myself proving my worth to all of you. What matters is how I stand up again and rise after I falter. I am who I am..... How about you? Have you been rejected? How did you cope up?
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
11 Oct 18
Life is a series of choices and chances. It is a roller coaster ride but at the end of the day, you should ask yourself 'are you happy?' Welcome to mylot kabayan.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
11 Oct 18
@Nercie see more of you here!
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
Yes very much true rakski. Thank you Kabayan!
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
12 Oct 18
@rakski Yes I will be. I am enjoying the community of mylot heheheh
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
11 Oct 18
We are in charge of our lives and no where we should let others take over it.
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
I agree with you
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
11 Oct 18
I have been rejected many a times, now I don't give those rejection a rat's mind and continue being myself
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
12 Oct 18
@Nercie Yes, because they lose us, we don't lose them..
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
12 Oct 18
that's the spirit my friend!
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Swayamsiddha Dash
@Swayamsiddha (4358)
• New Delhi, India
11 Oct 18
I agree to you. You are right. Our happiness should n9t depend on others appreciation.
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
Yes, if we keep on pleasing them, they'll keep on wanting or asking for more of us. We don't really need to prove our worth to them as long as we know who we are that's enough.
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Debashri Das
@deba12 (2951)
• India
11 Oct 18
Don't waste your time in proving yourself to others. Just stay what You're. Your competition should be always with yourself.
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
thank you my friend :)
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7207)
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11 Oct 18
I think you will get better chance to proof yourself. Everyone will understand your value. Let the golden opportunity comes.
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
12 Oct 18
been tiered of proving myself to them. What matters to me it that my love ones appreciate and believes in me. I only need to prove myself to God that I am worthy of His glory and blessings. Thanks my friend.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
11 Oct 18
Yes I`ve been rejected many times but it never keeps me down trying until I got married and now I`m a housewife
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
11 Oct 18
@Nercie Thanks
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
happy for you :)
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Oct 18
Yes, I have been rejected or felt rejected. I have a good talk to myself and move on. There is no need to waste time wondering what happened oe why. Life is like that, some like us and some don''t.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
11 Oct 18
Welcome to mylot dear friend..
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Frederick Espiritu
@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
11 Oct 18
Rejection is part of life I think. I was being rejected by a girl before and it hurts so much but everyday feelings changes. Time heals.
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Hussain
@Hussain201 (100)
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11 Oct 18
Your right Depend on yourself not others .so happy life
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Michelle Renee Kidwell
@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
11 Oct 18
I think the majority of us have experienced rejection in one way or another! It can be difficult in the moment but thankfully I have learned to look at the more positive side of it though I do have my moments!
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Nercie Pahoyo
@Nercie (231)
• Naga City, Philippines
11 Oct 18
good for you my friend. We really have to look for the positive side in every negative part of our life.