Going to the "Happiest Place on Earth", Disneyland

United States
October 13, 2018 2:30pm CST
We just spent 6 days at Disneyland in Anaheim California, and the best part of the trip is that we're back home!!! We went for their Halloween party which was okay I guess, but the crowds were AWFUL! We went to the park early the day of the party and I stopped to make a purchase. I got chewed out by Bill's daughter and informed that I was to stay with them at ALL times because the tickets were very expensive. Not only did it leave me feeling like I was 5 years old but also that I was poor white trash living with Bill for free room and board. That it was for no other reason. I spent the next 4 days getting hit, kicked, sat on by people's kids; and I had several large heavy people fart in my face (Bil and I had to use mobility scooters to get around the park). When I made comment about it they just laughed and asked if it smelled good. And the whole time I was the cow's tail of the group made up of Bill's daughter, Bill and Bill's son-in-law. Yesterday (Friday) I figured we would check out of the motel and get on the road as we had a 5 hour trip ahead of us. No such luck. Back to the park for more rides and racing as hard as we could go, just like the other 5 days. A couple of nights I gave up and went to the motel around 10 p.m., Bill came in at 1 a.m. totally exhausted. His daughter ran him like crazy. It's tough enough trying to navigate the park in mobility scooters....you don't get to see anything because you're looking out for people and their kids...but then with our mobility issues trying to get into and out of the rides and fit into rides that don't have room for our legs (where our issues are) makes it very difficult. By the end of 6 days you are totally exhausted and beyond ready to go home. But one more trip across the street to Disneyland. We checked out of our room and made our way to the park...more rides, more over priced food. More shopping. We finally stopped at the Gheradelli Chocolate fountain to get a Sundae before we left. We finished our Sundaes and I acted as maid as usual and tossed the trash and hooked my purchase on to my cane so I wouldn't crush Bill's daughter's candy purchase. I didn't notice that the speed control on the mobility cart had been moved by the bag and it was now on high speed. I started to move the cart forward a little bit and it rocketed forward like a jet. It rammed the chairs we sat in and accidentally knocked them into Bill's son -in-law's service dog. I didn't even get to open my mouth when he (the son-in-law) screamed at me "What the hell are you trying to pull? You rammed the chairs right into my service dog!!!! You pull a stunt like that and you're going to be searching for another way back home because you aren't going to be riding with me!!!!" I didn't get to say "I'm sorry" or it was an accident or anything. He just stalked off. When I caught up with the group the son-in-law stated "I'm not walking behind HER" I cried all the way back to the place where we return the scooters. Bill didn't offer any comfort even when I told him that there was no way that I would EVER harm an animal deliberately. He just said it was water under the bridge and to forget it. Even with the snide quips on the way home (nothing like a 5 hour drive of snide remarks about what happened) I cried nearly the whole trip. How could he think that I would be so horrible as to deliberately harm an animal? I tried to race into my burning home last year to save my furry babies...now I wish I had made it. I take care of the feral cats around my home, I feed the deer because the feed is scarce because of the drought. I have lectured children on why they shouldn't be cruel to animals. My life revolves around being gentle and loving towards the furry creatures. I don't want to hear about Disneyland, see anything Disney, talk about Disney or even think about the trip they are planning in December for the Christmas party. I already am trying to think of a viable way to get out of going, after all the poor white trash lady costs too much to take along. And she's too much trouble too. It doesn't matter that all the stress and upset from their chewing me out and mean snide remarks can send me into a seizure. It doesn't matter that trying to do everything in one day has me eating pain pills like m & m's, it doesn't matter that their entire focus is on Bill and I'm the cow's tail of the group. I can be on mars and they wouldn't miss me. It was a horrible 6 days at the "Happiest Place on Earth". I have hidden the purchases I made in my storage room where I don't have to look at them and hurt more. I already hurt bad enough, especially for the chewing out and embarrassment over pushing the chairs close to the dog. The dog wasn't hurt by the way, but the way that the daughter and son-in-law acted it was like I broke the dog's leg on purpose. Go to the "Happiest Place on Earth"? NO THANK YOU!
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6 responses
@shaggin (71659)
• United States
13 Oct 18
Oh my that surely is a much different experience you had there then what I usually here. I know a bunch of families who pay thousands of dollars to go there each year. I could never waste that kind of money but they really love it there! It is so sad how you were treated I am so sorry I would just refuse to go next time. Tell them you don't want them spending so much money on you and that you feel like they won't be having fun if your around and you'd rather stay home while they go and enjoy themselves.
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• United States
14 Oct 18
You're absolutely right. They love throwing their affluence around. They have three homes and several cars and I don't know how many horses. I'm not impressed by people who spend tons of money on themselves. They look past the homeless and the needy. I figure that Bill's daughter and son-in-law spent around $5,000 to take us down to Disneyland. The tickets for the special halloween party were over $400 each alone. I wouldn't have spent that kind of money, I would have spent it to help the Veterans or homeless first. But that's just me. You're right, but I won't be so straight forward as to say "NO", I have excuses in my back pocket, so to speak. I can't stand the crowds and the horrible people there. I'm used to my critters and the peace and quiet of the woods. I hear one of the deer on the deck wondering where we are, and if they're going to get fed again. The rest of the crew are on the street with their big ears poised like huge dish antennas waiting to hear the door open and my staggering out with their food. Fifteen deer are the kind of crowd I like! Oh, one of the best excuses I can have is that my lungs won't take the atmosphere down there. Bill and I came back sick and it was a combination of the bio fuel and getting too cold from being wet on the Pirates of the Caribbean ride late at night. Being among people carrying who knows what germs on them didn't help either. So I just can't go the pace they go every day and stay healthy. I'll wave bye bye at the gate!
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
15 Oct 18
@BearArtistLady The excuse you gave at the bottom is good and legit! You can't risk your health if you get sick so easy! Fifteen deer in one yard would be a lot. It is nice that you feed them. It's frowned upon to feed them but I still think it's nice when people do.
@shaggin (71659)
• United States
15 Oct 18
@BearArtistLady if Bill doesn't want to go with that will make it easier for the two of you to avoid going. I'm in bed by 9 and read until 10pm. I am quitting drinking coffee and didn't sleep last night so I am totally exhausted today. The reason they say not to feed the deer is they will become dependant on humans and if they humans move or something they will keep coming back to that spot for food and will starve because they won't understand how to get food in their own. I'd love to hug a deer but I'd be worried as they carry so many ticks on their fur and this ticks carry Lyme disease.
@GardenGerty (157494)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I have never had any desire to go there at all, or to anything else Disney, except maybe some movies. I like @shaggin 's idea of just saying no to the next trip.
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@GardenGerty (157494)
• United States
26 Oct 18
When you and Bill turn them down for the Christmas trip, make it all about them. It will really stoke their ego for you to say, "Oh, but we couldn't. You were much too generous taking us once. It is your chance to enjoy each other's company." On the other hand, if you say the truth "The trip made me stressed, miserable, and ill." they will just have a reason to say you are ungrateful. Make it all about them and their pleasure.
@celticeagle (158739)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Oct 18
Too many people. I couldn't endure it.
@celticeagle (158739)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Oct 18
@BearArtistLady ......How that you had such a negative experience. I sure don't care for crowds at all.
• United States
17 Oct 18
@celticeagle I'm not a crowds person, especially when they're so thick that you can't see a thing. I couldn't move two feet without worrying about stepping on someone or getting hit in the head by someone's child. It sure doesn't make for a fun experience. Plus Bill was up with his daughter and she was paying all the attention to him and I was alone the whole time...I wasn't jealous, it's just that it was a bit rude that they made all the plans and I didn't have a chance to say squat.
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• United States
14 Oct 18
I didn't expect the numbers of people there! It was jammed packed and wall to wall people. If I want Disney memorabilia I'll order it online. Right now after the abuse I took from Bill's family I can't even look at the stuff I bought. I don't think I'll go back to the Magic Kingdom again, it's just too taxing.
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@sallypup (57749)
• Centralia, Washington
13 Oct 18
Oh my GAWD. Find an excuse, any excuse, whatever excuse, and stay a million miles away from those folks and Disneyland. I've wondered about that place and its crowds. My back can't handle standing in line forever. Just can't. Hugs from me. I am sorry you were emotionally abused.
• United States
14 Oct 18
We had to make a trip to town today to pick up my seizures meds...after all the stress from the crowds and the treatment from Bill's family I was amazed I didn't have a big one. Bill tried to make up for the bad treatment from good daughter and son-in-law by taking me to a few of my favorite places to shop. It was interesting to say the least. Watch for my next discussion "it's strange to say the least". I'll write that tomorrow morning. I can't stand in line for long periods of time either. I had to stand in line at the pharmacy today and my knees and ankles were really hurting. There were no chairs so I considered sitting on the floor. Good thought except that my trying to stand up would resemble a three legged hippo trying to get up after a failed ballet move...all wrinkled fanny and NO grace! (lol) I'm working on a plausible excise for NOT going. I think Bill's expecting it. I told him at dinner tonight what happened and that I don't appreciate being publicly humiliated. We'll see what happens, but I won't go down again for that kind of abuse. Thank you for the hugs...I love getting hugs! Almost as much as giving them. Tons of hugs back at you!
@JudyEv (325398)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct 18
What a terrible time you had. I wouldn't lay myself open to a repeat performance. Just refuse to go. Say no and stick to it.
@JudyEv (325398)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct 18
@BearArtistLady It's not my business but it sounds a bit like emotional blackmail. Surely when you are treated so badly Bill can see that there is no way you'd go willingly. Either he should stick up for you or let you stay home - just my tuppence worth. This is not your fault. Don't let him lay a guilt trip on you if you both stay home.
• United States
14 Oct 18
The problem is that Bill won't go if I don't go. From my research what the daughter paid for the tickets I could have bought a nice little compact car to replace my Subaru that was destroyed in the fire! I'm planning excused so I don't have to go along. Same thing for Thanksgiving too.
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• United States
14 Oct 18
@JudyEv You are such a sweetheart! Thank you for the smile on my birthday! When you get a minute read my next post, it relates to this one. I already have several excuses for not going....thankfully my house burned down! Doesn't that sound strange!!!! But I have to put getting the funds back to rebuild first and something like Disneyland last, so I can claim that I have to tend to something for the "case". If that doesn't work, I can use the bears and special orders as another excuse. I don't think Bill will lay a guilt trip on me as I don't think he was too happy on the trip either. The trip was mainly focused on what his daughter wanted and not on what it was supposed to be for, a celebration of Bill's 90th birthday. I filled him in on what went on, I realized he kind of shut down and went on auto pilot while we were there. Part of it was from fatigue and the rest was just turning his wild child loose at her favorite place. He was so tired by the last day of the trip that he didn't care about anything except getting home to his own lifestyle. He was a bit shook when I filled him in on what went on, and he is feeling a bit sheepish that he didn't stand up for me. I know he'll understand if I don't want to go again. OH!!!! If I posted it on myLot, it is your business too. I am posting to get input from my friends and getting their "tuppence" worth. (Your opinion is worth more than just a tuppence by the way.) Keep posting your opinion! Tons of love and hugs!!!
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