I'm annoyed with my family and my brother

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Most people know what's been going on with my brother. He was released on a plea bargain and is allowed to come home, which I'm not happy about but I've kept my mouth shut because I don't agree with my family and just don't have it in me to argue anymore. If they want to enable him that's on them. I've had it with him and don't want him to come home where he can do more damage. He is not regretful nor does he have the will to change. He's going to come home and do exactly what he did before because he suddenly feels he's entitled. He only cares about drinking and self-pity and if I had my way he'd stay in TN and learn to live with the consequences of his actions. He knows everyone is going to be here for him which is why he continues to act this way. He'll never hit his rock bottom if he continues to have everyone's unwavering support. They don't want to see him homeless but what do they think would have happened had he made it to where he was going? It would be different if you could trust him in your home but you can't. He steals and eats everyone out of house and home. He then messes up and expects no one to confront him on it. Since I live with my mom I really can't. I would love to be able to but don't want to deal with having to live with him after it. He has warrants out here too which I plan to possibly "anonymously" call in when he gets back. He needs to face the music of his actions. He thinks he did nothing wrong since he didn't actually steal the car he was going to hijack. The only reason he didn't was that kids were in it because apparently he still has a few morals still intact, otherwise, he would have. He may not have stolen it but he traumatized that poor mother and her children. They are in therapy now because of my moronic brother and yet he thinks he did nothing. He has been acting up in jail and causing issues and seems to feel the cops are out to get him. All of this and my family thinks he should come home. I kept my mouth shut but now they all seem to think I should help pay for his bus ticket home. That ticks me off. I don't want him home nor do I think he should come back home because he's not ready to but they expect me to help pay for it? We don't make much and our money goes to bills and food. Why should I use what little we make on my brother who made his own choices? I want to make a stipulation if I pay he has to go into a program to help him and not come back here. I want no part of this. I've kept my mouth shut but when they want me to help pay for him after he has already stolen from us and eaten most of the food we bought why should I pay for him? He had no plans on coming home when he stole my mother's car. He stole my husband's only coat on the coldest day of the year. He stole my son's carseat which was in the car so we didn't have a real way to get my son anywhere. We were expected to walk in sub-zero temps due to his stupidity, yet they think I should pay for him to return and let him do it all again? I don't think so. It would be different if he were willing to change and was trying I'd be able to find it in my heart more to help but right now I can't and I won't. I'm livid they would even suggest it.