Learning to say Whatever

Brendel Chilling
@CarolDM (203454)
Nashville, Tennessee
October 16, 2018 4:25pm CST
Instead of dreading the weather as it changes, I have decided to embrace it. No matter what the temperatures are, I will adapt. After all, what choice do we have, right? I was out and about today running errands. It started out cool and then a light drizzle and then cooler as I was out. I was not dressed for the weather but nothing to do but say, oh well.. whatever. This issue also reminded me of other things in life we cannot change. I try to embrace whatever comes and goes. It makes life go by a lot smoother. If you can't change it, just roll with it. I know, sounds easy but it is not. Life is a challenge and is all about out our attitudes. The photo is one of my cats Brendel chilling, also teaching me to say... whatever. Do you have a go to word when things come up you can't change?
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
16 Oct 18
I will usually say "Who cares?
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Oct 18
That probably works for you right?
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
16 Oct 18
I'm quite relaxed concerning the weather and other things.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Oct 18
Good for you my friend. This wasn't just abbot the weather, the weather sort of triggered other things.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
17 Oct 18
Cats know how to take every day. I try to live every day at its best.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
18 Oct 18
@CarolDM I was just outside playing with the kittens of my neighbor, they are lovely.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Yes they continue to teach me every single day.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Oct 18
@LadyDuck How sweet this is a very relaxing thing to do.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Oct 18
Not at this time.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Oct 18
@CarolDM Have a good evening there.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
@amadeo You do the same my friend.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Thank you Alfredo.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
17 Oct 18
@CarolDM Animals can really teach humans a thing or too. They are real and let you know how they feel.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
18 Oct 18
@CarolDM I have said that to people too.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
I completely agree with you.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Oct 18
@Hannihar Thanks and have a great day.
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@NormanDarlo (1071)
• Ireland
16 Oct 18
Learning to accept the things we cannot change is a key first step to contentment. It does sound simple, but it's one of the hardest lesson there is.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Oct 18
Absolutely Norman, easy to say. Hard to do. But we must do it. Who made the decision that life has to be this hard anyway.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Oct 18
@NormanDarlo So we continue forward a step at a time... with a little help from our friends.
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• Ireland
16 Oct 18
@CarolDM Yeah, I don't know. I don't think it was any easier at any point in the past. On the contrary in fact.
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• Philippines
17 Oct 18
I'm happy now that my dog is eating again and looking healthy and my knee doesn't hurt that much anymore. Other things I can live with it.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
That is great, I am happy for you and your dog. They depend on us for everything. Glad about your knee as well.
@just4him (305532)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 18
You can't get around it, so you have to live with it. I don't have go to words. Not that I know of anyway.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Yep that is correct Valerie.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Oct 18
Cats have the right attitude!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Catttitude.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
31 Oct 18
I am totally a summer guy, the hotter the better. I just don't like the cold, and don't function very well in it. But, having lived in Colorado for 37 years, I am used to it. 35° and snowing here in Denver right now. But I'm dealing with it.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
31 Oct 18
@CarolDM - For some reason, I thrive in the heat. I love riding my bike in the heat. I can't explain it, but I seem to ride stronger when it's really hot.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
31 Oct 18
I do not like extreme weather especially heat. Cool here in 50s for now.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
17 Oct 18
Cute cat. And I guess you're right. Nothing much we can do about the weather so may as well thrive in it
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Thanks she is my baby.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
17 Oct 18
Ah well, that is my go to phrase. Lovely photo there Carol.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
18 Oct 18
@CarolDM Welcome
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Thanks so much.
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• Rupert, Idaho
17 Oct 18
Whatever is a good word, better than my words I might say in the same situation. That's good to keep a positive attitude and just go with the flow. I try to live that way...but like you said it is not always easy! Thank you for sharing, and great photo of Brendel!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Yes, it kind of says it all. I try my best to keep my head up. Thanks Courtney.
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• Sonora, California
17 Oct 18
Learning to adapt is a must!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Absolutely I agree with you.
• United States
16 Oct 18
When it comes to weather we certainly have no control but it's fun to complain about it....it's either too hot or too cold, too rainy or not enough rain. I like your approach to saying "whatever" and just deal with the weather as it comes along. Today we had a nice sunny day so that gets a huge smile from me
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
Easy to complain Marilyn. Today was sunny here as well.
@debjani1 (7207)
31 Oct 18
Most of the time I used to say I just don't care.