Should people move in together before they are married?

@Lia929 (88)
October 18, 2018 4:32am CST
I strongly believe that it is very important to live with someone before you get married. It is the only way to see his habits, his daily behavior, to know him better.
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wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 18
I think if the guy is good then its okay, else I have to know him better first.
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7207)
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18 Oct 18
In love we become blind and are not able to see their bad qualities.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
18 Oct 18
I think it is much better in order to see if you can afford handling each others differences. I don`t see anything wrong with it
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maezee
@maezee (41997)
• United States
18 Oct 18
I would tend to agree.
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lady Di
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
it can be helpful, i am a bit torn about this idea though since the usual order is marriage before living together One should not get married if he or she is not ready to accept the partner entirely
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Namelesss
@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
18 Oct 18
Doesn't matter, you can never really know a person and no one can ever really know you. I say enjoy it while it lasts and is good for both of you.
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Namelesss
@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
18 Oct 18
@frenki Familiarity breeds either comfort or contempt so you are right about that. But a life time commitment is a test of your courage not your likes or comfort.
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Norra Re
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
18 Oct 18
But if you supose to live together for the rest of the life I guess its usefull to see how that person funcion indoors? Coz there maybe things or habbits that you dont like.
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Norra Re
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
19 Oct 18
@Namelesss Yes, that's true too.
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7207)
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18 Oct 18
I don't think that this will help you to know that person fully.
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Norra Re
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
18 Oct 18
Than what would? Or there is no way to know anyone fully ever?
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Norra Re
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
18 Oct 18
@Lia929 Ofcourse, alteast for living part. Its not same just going out and spening tme with someone and living. Totally different.
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Irina Udrescu
@Lia929 (88)
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18 Oct 18
@frenki it s difficult to know someone completely, but I do believe that living together helps a lot to discover good points and bad points at each other
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Norra Re
@frenki (1693)
• Serbia
18 Oct 18
Like you, I belive so too. Thats the only way to see that side of person. So if they wants so, ofcourse they should do it. Bottom line, its personal choice.
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Abiodun Adekoya
@septabchips (1142)
• Nigeria
18 Oct 18
Well, like @lady1993 said; the usual order is marriage before living together. But then I think what works for couple A may not work for couple B! in other words, we need to do what works better for our different relationships!
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