Persuade or Convince?

October 20, 2018 6:44pm CST
Although some dictionaries define "convince" in a very similar way to "persuade", in reality, according to some theorists of the subject, there is an important difference. They argue that no one person convinces another, but that the same person is the one who convinces himself, that is, nobody rules in the mind of another, and someone changes his opinion, or changes his behavior when he is the one who wants to do it, not when another is the one who decides it. What we can do so that another changes, is just to persuade him, arguing about the benefits he would get if he changed his opinion, his attitude or behavior towards something, someone or any situation. Although we often do something that others force us to do, it does not always mean that we are convinced that it is the best thing to do. In those cases, we are doing it by obligation, not by conviction. What do you think about it?
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
21 Oct 18
I can totally agree to what you have said here. And I might add that sometimes charismatic people have an easy time to persuade others to do their bidding with intense charm. Even they can convince the other person it was their own idea to do it lol
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@franxav (13597)
• India
21 Oct 18
I think when we convince someone we make the person understand what is good for him and he chooses to do it. When we persuade someone to do something we are making him do it.
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21 Oct 18
Hi, Xavier, your point of view is very interesting, it is good to know diverse opinions, of all of them we learn, thanks for contributing to this topic.