When you are home alone don't you have negative thoughts?

@dya80dya (33340)
October 30, 2018 6:19am CST
Now I am home alone and I have lots of negative thoughts. I try to use mylot to forget about my negative thoughts, but people are busy now. I tried to clean my room, but I have the same negative thoughts. And I worry a lot about different things. People here adviced me to not give a kitten to a woman. She lost cats all the time. I didn't give the cat and now I don't find anyone who would be interested. I worry a lot because of this and for many other reasons. It's very hard for me to be home alone. I don't have friends to call. Are you the same as me? Do you have negative thoughts and worries when you are home alone?
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
30 Oct 18
Sometimes i do and i try to listen to music that will uplift my mood.
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@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
Now I listen to music. But I feel lonely. Does this work for you?
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
30 Oct 18
@dya80dya i am a very introverted person so i do enjoy being alone but i have virtual friends on social media. Maybe virtual friends for you can help?
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@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
@Ladanger I talk to virtual friends. I am also introverted. I feel the need to talk with someone who understands me.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
Well, when you are alone, problematic, yes. But most of the time I do not entertain negative thoughts
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
@dya80dya I usually sing good songs, lively songs. I pray. I think of happy thoughts
@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
Can you think positive? How can you get rid of the negative thoughts?
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@mayka123 (16583)
• India
31 Oct 18
I live alone and I always keep myself busy at home. So there is no time for any kind of negative thoughts.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
No, I always find things to tinker with or fix, I also always find new things to learn, if it still does not work, I read the bible, my best weapon against negative thoughts because I draw inspiration from it.
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@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
Are you religious?
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
30 Oct 18
No. It's good idea to be on Mylot.
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@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
I try to write here. Maybe it will help.
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@septabchips (1142)
• Nigeria
30 Oct 18
It happens to everybody at a point or the other in life. Do you have hubbies? favourite music and stuffs like that?
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@dya80dya (33340)
30 Oct 18
Yes, I have. I listen to music. But it doesn't seem to help too much.
@rsa101 (37929)
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
Well if you have that on a regular basis you should have yourself checked out by a doctor to determine if its a normal anxiety attack or it is some kind of hormonal problem that needs treatment. You should try confiding to a trusted relatives about it so they will be aware of your condition and understand your needs.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
30 Oct 18
When I was alone, I felt bad also but then I tried to make myself busy. I write and write and write or read read and read.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Oct 18
No I do not.I treasure being home alone at times.Give me a chance to meditate and other things.
@Janet357 (75657)
31 Oct 18
No. I always believe that we are given this brain and body parts to be used on how to improve our lives, negative thoughts will not encourage you. Your brain stops working. But positive thoughts encourage you to push your limits, do what you can to being about changes.
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
Yes, at times, especially when I am feeling sad or sick. I tend to overthink when I am alone at home. But there are times that I still enjoy having my alone time because I can do whatever I want without people judging me
• Philippines
30 Oct 18
No i dont. :)
@debjani1 (7207)
30 Oct 18
No not at all. But for a longer period it's very boring.
@Rosain (639)
• India
30 Oct 18
No, I never thought about negative things when I stay alone.. In fact I'm a silence lover so I stay calm n happy when I'm alone.