I'm an old stump

@sallypup (57840)
Centralia, Washington
November 2, 2018 5:19pm CST
I have about a month to stew on this issue. Its time for me to start figuring it out: the middle of December my hubby and I will run right into our anniversary date. It will be our fortieth. Amazing how fast those years zipped by. I guess I'm supposed to purchase something that has to do with rubies. Hubby is not a jewelry person. Like I said, I am stumped. Bamboozled. He consults our daughter and between them something sweet appears. He already has the place picked out where we're going to have dinner. He already has invited two friends to the dinner. Me? I sit here stumped.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
2 Nov 18
I would certainly not buy rubies, but something meaningful to him.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Nov 18
@marlina You kind of got me laughing. Forty years of living with me and I should buy fake rubies? The poor guy!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Nov 18
A nice hand written note in a card is always nice. Just sayin'.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Nov 18
@CarolIDM I hear ya. I'm a poet-short story writer. I should be able to pull something out of my hat.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Nov 18
@CarolDM Its hardest to write when its for someone this personal. Terribly hard. I'll give it a go.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Nov 18
@sallypup Well there you go, it would be an original gift for sure.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48927)
• United States
3 Nov 18
Maybe you could make him a coupon book. like a coupon for a back or foot rub etc....
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
3 Nov 18
@Tampa_girl7 I like your idea.
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@wolfgirl569 (95104)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Nov 18
You could do what I did when hubby said he wanted nothing for Christmas. Instead of typing nothing into Amazons search type rubies and maybe you can get some ideas.
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@wolfgirl569 (95104)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Nov 18
@sallypup I found trump toilet paper with that search
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
3 Nov 18
@wolfgirl569 Maybe you can find a pillow for your hubby that says "you get nothing!" on it. I'll go to Amazon, thanks.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
3 Nov 18
@wolfgirl569 Good one. I just ran into a company that sold a jar that said on it: "You asked for nothing so here you go! Here's nothing." That silly thing cost 19.95. You could make your own for less.
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@RasmaSandra (73383)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Nov 18
Perhaps something that is ruby colored.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
3 Nov 18
Sorry I can't help. My husband doesn't get "material" gifts for anniversaries. He should be buying me rubies! Lol! We usually go away for a romantic weekend or have a romantic dinner out.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
15 Nov 18
I have such a hard time thinking up gifts as well. After 40 years I don't think I would be able to come up with anything original lol Pop on pinterest see if you can find some cool ideas.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Nov 18
@shaggin Good idea about pinterest. Thanks.
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• China
3 Nov 18
Congratulate you on ruby wedding in advance ! You will definitely give your husband a pleasant surprise by the time.
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@jstory07 (134422)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Nov 18
Do you have to get him rubies. Get him something that he has been wanting.
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@sallypup (57840)
• Centralia, Washington
3 Nov 18
@jstory07 Rubies is what is suggested for the 40th wedding anniversary. For sure, I could find some Scottish music. That's always a winner.
@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
3 Nov 18
Surprise him with someone unique for him.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Nov 18
I have no ideas for you.
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@NJChicaa (115985)
• United States
2 Nov 18
Maybe just something ruby colored?
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