RANT: "A BABY is still a BABY!!!"

@Shavkat (137215)
Philippines
November 12, 2018 8:55am CST
This is my last entry for tonight. I had a free lesson class booked by a mother. As I entered the virtual classroom, I was totally surprised. That is, I am going to teach a 2 year-old-girl. For me, she's still a baby to learn the English language as a Chinese nationality. I tried to carry out the lesson and dive to the deepest ocean.lol It is too obvious that the child cannot utter any English words. Without any second thought, the mother sent a message that I am teaching a "Thai English." What?!? Then she logged out from the software. Perhaps she is trying to say is, "Tinglish." "Do you think that parents should be the one teaching their child at this age?" "Do we need to force the child to learn a second language?" Image Credit: actual-names.com
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@Janet357 (75656)
12 Nov 18
Oh my goodness, thats hilarious? How did she know it was a thai in the first place? Hahaha yah, baby should not study english online.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
It is simple, my friend. The mother is not also good at speaking the language. What more for the child, right?
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@Janet357 (75656)
13 Nov 18
@Shavkat yah, she doesnt know english but she has the nerve to conclude that the teacher speaks thai hahah. Anyway, let’s move on. :)
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
@Janet357 Indeed, my friend.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
12 Nov 18
Wow that must have been so cute to see the little one in front of the screen though. I would think it would be very hard to teach them that young. I think it would be good if she teaches them what she knows on her own until she is a little older. She might be a very smart child so the mom may want to teach her earlier.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
It is really cute to see a baby on the computer's screen. However, the child cannot show her abilities during the class. I personally think that the mother should accept the real fact about it. That is, the child is not ready to learn the second language.
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• Philippines
14 Nov 18
She's nuts. that's all i can describe her! a freaking two year old! She's not a robot what the heck she thinking!
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
That's what I had said with the admin. It is up to them if they will accept my explanation about it.
@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Nov 18
Some people are way too ambitious for their children. That little girl is too young to start a second language online.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
That's what I felt when looking at the mother. In fact, she is so frustrated and in denial during the class.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
13 Nov 18
In the United States we unfortunately don't focus as much on learning second languages. But then we do speak English which is really sort of a universal language. If one can speak English, no matter what country they are from, they tend to have better prospects in life for whatever reason.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I do think that people in your country don't need to learn other languages. We, Asian people need to learn the English language primarily. As you had mentioned it is a universal language. We need to be competitive.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
12 Nov 18
Most kids pick up the language if you speak another language around them.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I do agree on that. This child's environment is not conducive to learn the English language.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 18
It will be just fun for her just like Spanish is for Sophie our little munchkin. Really it should be a kind of game for her and wishing you good luck just take it in your stride.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 18
@Shavkat She is on there for just a short while or have they changed their mind? Perhaps it seemed like a good idea to them and we all make mistakes.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 I think the mother needs to realize something about this situation. I am not blaming her to have such a lesson. It is a good way for self-realization.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I guess I didn't need to endure more time with the child. Since they log off from the system at that time
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
Oh my! How can you teach a two year old when she can't even utter a word or two. Why did you say it's a free lesson? She didn't pay you for your effort and time?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
@Shavkat Snob and rude mother. Maybe you should request not to have her next time.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
@SIMPLYD I hope I can do that. I cannot control whose students will book the classes.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I tried to encourage the mother and child. But then, the mother insulted and logged off after. I don't mind because I am still being paid.
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@sofssu (23662)
13 Nov 18
Ambition at its worst, the child is way too young for online learning. We speak a few languages, our children pick them up naturally at a very young age (Around two) .. . We haven't taught them really, they learn from observation and experience at this age.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
You have a big point on this. I personally think that parents should not force their kids to learn specific languages. The child needs to enjoy their childhood and learn things in a baby step manner.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
@sofssu (23662)
13 Nov 18
@Shavkat so true.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
5 Dec 18
Knowing a second language is good but teaching a two-year-old child is nonsense. A two-year-old child can learn two languages if the parents speak different languages. But then there is no 'teaching'.The learning comes naturally. One can only pity the child you met on the net.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
11 Dec 18
I will definitely agree with you. It is a waste of time and money learning the second language at this age.
@DianneN (246819)
• United States
13 Nov 18
A child of that age is way too young to be taught English online. Sigh.....
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I totally agree with you. The admin was nagging me about it. I just ignore them.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
i believe... that kids should be taught first at home rather than teachers in the institution. it is not a reason to be employed that one does not teach her child the basics of learning
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
That's what I am also thinking. It should always start at home to learn things, especially with this age.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@ridingbet You said it right. We are lucky to have good parents.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
18 Nov 18
@Shavkat our parents are our first teachers.
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• India
15 Nov 18
I think parents would be apt,the kid is so pretty
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
I think they wishes good things to their children
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@abhinalstrikr I mean for some biological parents
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• India
20 Nov 18
@Shavkat yes may be
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
17 Dec 18
@Shavkat She is too little to learn anything I would say. I think when the child is old enough to understand words and speak a sentence then they could be taught a 2nd language.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
17 Dec 18
If you can just see me when having the class, I was like a clown.lol The child cannot say anything.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
18 Dec 18
@Hannihar Well, I just gave some advice to the mother on how to teach her child.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
17 Dec 18
@Shavkat So what did you do. I bet you are a good teacher.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
She is too young however it will be okay if the parents will follow through.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I think it is fine if the parents can speak the language, too.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
The mother should be the one teaching her child; virtual classroom is not for her yet.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
I totally agree with you. It needs to be the mom.
@Daelii (5619)
• United States
20 Nov 18
Honestly... I'm gonna side with both you and the mother on this. In doing studies on children picking up other languages, its best if the child learns it before the age of six. The reason being is, as they grow and their brains develop, they are building little connections when they hear other languages. So later in life, when an adult, its actually easier for them to learn the whole language because the brain had already started building a road map in that direction as a child. This is why, I gladly play music from other cultures in other languages to my kids as babies on up. I don't have to understand the words. The kids don't have to understand them. But hearing it, actually helps learn the sounds and flavor of the language. So, to answer your questions.... Yes, the parent should be teaching the child at that age, but not in a typical method you'd think concerning sitting in a class room approach. Play a movie with another language turned on, music in another language, etc, are sufficient as a basic background noise to learn from. Kids don't need to learn a second language, but its probably to their advantage if they do. My kids know a number of words in a few different languages. I hope as they get older, they can expand on that if they so wish.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
For me, there is nothing wrong if the mother wants her child to know the second language. But then, it should be done by her. A good example is my little niece who had learned the English language. My family and I decided her to know this language first before the official language. I must say that it was a successful one. She had learned it at home. The family is hands-on in teaching her the universal language. I hope the child's mother will realize this.