What a pathetic excuse!

@Fleura (29097)
United Kingdom
November 13, 2018 3:01pm CST
Our eldest daughter (otherwise known as Big One) is now in her second year of high school, and she is one of the few children who don’t have their own ’phone – even some children at primary school have them. To be fair, she never complains about this, and always has a good answer when her class-mates ask her how she manages! But – she has got a bit hung up on the way the other children use their phones for most things, and can’t seem to see that a ’phone is just one tool. For example at the start of the academic year the school posted the new timetable online. She claimed she didn’t know what classes she would have because she didn’t have a ’phone, and had to ask her friends instead - but she does have a laptop so she could easily have looked it up at home! The other day she went along to a meeting about some forthcoming school drama, to find out if there were things she might be interested in helping with. When I asked her about it afterwards, she said that yes, she was interested, but it would involve staying after school some days and also working on a couple of weekends. When I asked her for the dates she said she didn’t know – they had been told, but she couldn’t write them down because she didn’t have a ’phone. SERIOUSLY?? I was, to use one of @MALUSE’s favourite phrases, gobsmacked. That has to be one of the most pathetic excuses I have ever heard! And especially from a girl who spends so much of her time writing at home – we have piles of paper accumulating literally everywhere! What can you say? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2018.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
13 Nov 18
I also recommend 'flabbergasted' and 'nonplussed'. :-)
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
13 Nov 18
Good words!
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
13 Nov 18
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@JudyEv (325345)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Nov 18
@MALUSE And you questioned my use of 'joey'. That has nothing on transmogrify.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
13 Nov 18
And she cannot call to ask for the dates because she has no phone. Resistance is futile, I would buy her a cheap phone.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
14 Nov 18
@Fleura We have cheap mobile subscriptions for kids/students in France starting at 2 Euros/month for 2 hrs of calls, unlimited sms and mms (the teens use quite only text messages) and a small data envelope that you can block. To not have bad surprises on the bill, I have myself blocked my subscription : if I reach my limit of data for the month, my data are limited to 128kb/s with no rise of the bill.
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
15 Nov 18
@topffer I need to look for something like that for her and for me as well!
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@GardenGerty (157485)
• United States
14 Nov 18
It is her passive aggressive way of complaining she does not have a phone. She could have written it on her hand, even. That is what an efficiency expert told us to do at an inservice for one of my jobs. You remember better writing it on your hand.
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 18
Indeed! And it certainly wouldn't be the first time she's made a note of something that way.
@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
13 Nov 18
When my daughters were little, they said that they were the "only" ones who had to be in bed earlier and that they were the "only" students who did not watch this or that TV show.
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 18
But who wants to be just like everyone else anyway?
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
13 Nov 18
@Fleura Kids do, at a certain age. Specially if they have strict parents.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
13 Nov 18
why do you object her for having a phone/
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
16 Nov 18
I think she is trying her best to get you a phone of her very own. I think it's time.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
15 Nov 18
Lol not a great excuse. It is unusual for a girl her age to be without s phone so I commend you for a job well done.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 18
Very good word! She is trying to let you know she wants a phone without openly say that she wants one. Of course she can check everything using her laptop.
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@xFiacre (12612)
• Ireland
13 Nov 18
@fleura I’ve used that excuse myself!
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 18
Very convenient if you don't really want to remember something!
@paigea (35635)
• Canada
13 Nov 18
She thinks she will get to you. I might consider buying a high school student a phone for a Christmas gift if they had a part time job to pay the monthly bill. Glad I didn't have to deal with it when my kids were growing up.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
13 Nov 18
I am one of the few people who don't have a phone either and everybody is always acting me how I can manager without a phone. It really doesn't bother me but then again I am not a phone person. I don't like talking on the phone.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Nov 18
Sounds like she really wants the phone.
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