I get sad when I don't get enough of comments on my posts!!

By A A
India
November 19, 2018 7:18am CST
Do you also feel sad when you don't get enough of comments on your post??? I get happy when atleast 12 people comment on my posts, less than that, I get sad and wait for sometime.. Though, I did not wait today..
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18 responses
@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
19 Nov 18
I get comments on my posts because I read and comment plenty of posts and I do not write often.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
19 Nov 18
@anya12adwi Yes, this is surely the reason, when people do not see you around, they forget about you.
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• India
19 Nov 18
I also do read and comment but the intensity had been decreased due to my exams.. So, may be that could be possible reason
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• India
19 Nov 18
@LadyDuck I can't even compensate with my studies too.. So, I will have to gulp down this sadness..
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@marguicha (215403)
• Chile
19 Nov 18
Many times I get answers after I answer a post. Do you comment on your answers? Do you read other posts? That will not make you sad and you will get more friends.
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• India
19 Nov 18
Yes, I do read others' posts and comment there.. I post a new topic like twice or thrice in a week..
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@marguicha (215403)
• Chile
19 Nov 18
@anya12adwi Some people write more, some write less. My posts usually get around 7 replies
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• India
20 Nov 18
@marguicha No, Your posts get good amount of replies.. I have seen that
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
19 Nov 18
I like to get at least 10 comments. It is a science, one has to know how to get the minimum goal that one wants.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
19 Nov 18
@anya12adwi So, I don't start another post till I get them and I comment on other people's posts.
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• India
19 Nov 18
Yes, same as me.. I need or feel like 10 comments are enough to satiate me.. Below that hits my heart
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• India
20 Nov 18
@1hopefulman But that can take few days.. So, I some times don't wait..
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
21 Nov 18
We all want to have a lot of comments, it is a normal thing
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• India
25 Nov 18
Yes! Some don't reciprocate!
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• India
26 Nov 18
@nela13 We can't vouch on them though! I have never observed the people who comment back always!
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
25 Nov 18
@anya12adwi It is true, but we Can interact with those that we know always answer us
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 Nov 18
I don't get sad for this.. I used to be like that when I am a new user here . It's up to others wish if they like discussion they will comment or else no
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@dya80dya (33510)
19 Nov 18
Sometimes I have two comments. But I am not sad. Not all discussions are read here.
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• India
19 Nov 18
That's true even... Most of the posts are not being read here..
@vandana7 (98823)
• India
20 Nov 18
I on the other hand prefer few with whom I can interact more on the subject. But usually it happens when people are already in some fun chain or serious topic discussion. I think I was on topic of Vallabh Bhai statue. Big marathon arguments. LOL
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
20 Nov 18
@anya12adwi LOL...it is mostly me forcing my views down others gullet.
The Prime Minister of India unveiled the World’s biggest statue of Sardar Vallabh Bhai Patel in the state of Gujrat near Vadodara. This 182 meters statue...
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• India
20 Nov 18
Can you share me the link of that post?? I wanna see the opinions of people..
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• India
21 Nov 18
@vandana7 I saw your post!! And I had also argued with my friends regarding the need of a statue!! I fear to comment on that post as because I don't wanna involve in any arguments!! If he had to be given due respect, then we should contributed a chapter in history or literature!! That way, we could have given him due respect.. Now, that would turn into selfie hotspot... The tribal people there were relocated and not even given any compensations!! If that was his dream as a Gujarat's CM, he should funded the money from Gujarat and not from the whole of India!! It's just channeling to the matters that have no value..!! Before this statue, we did not know where the world's tallest statue was!! So, this place won't cater any international tourism! More over, it is away from Ahmedabad and nobody would want to waste 8 hours on a trip there!
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• Philippines
21 Nov 18
I'm happy when ever I get comments. But I feel guilty not spending more time in the recent post. I'm missing a lot even though I'm here every day.
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• India
21 Nov 18
I am not here everyday but I do try!! I also feel guilty about it..
@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
29 Nov 18
I hope you will get 50 responses one day on your posts
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• India
30 Nov 18
That would be mount everest in mylot and in my posts too!!
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
24 Nov 18
See with mine it is 14 responses now
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• India
25 Nov 18
Yeah! Thankyou, for making way to 15th!
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
25 Nov 18
@anya12adwi You are not alone.We all like to receive more and more responses on our posts.We all want to reach the payout as soon as possible.And it is possible only if you receive more responses and comments.After all we earn here when we receive a response,a comment or a like here.
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• India
26 Nov 18
Yes, it is give and take relationship and sometimes or most of the times, you get less than what you give!
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• India
27 Nov 18
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
26 Nov 18
@anya12adwi You are right.I have experienced it.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
22 Nov 18
For me it does not really matter one way or the other, although I like it when people comment on my posts as much as anyone else enjoys that someone (anyone) is paying attention. The key to getting interaction is of course to interact. The more you comment on other's posts the more they have an opportunity to find your posts and the more inclined they might be to leave a comment.
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• India
24 Nov 18
@porwest Yes correct..!! I have to go with the flow and carrying less emotions or at all no emotions..
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• India
22 Nov 18
Yes, I am into interaction but some days mylot is passive..!!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
24 Nov 18
@anya12adwi It is. But some days it is very active. You just take the good with the bad. All ewe can do in the end is our part.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
25 Nov 18
I am not sad. Some discussions have more some less comments.
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• India
26 Nov 18
If 10 comments is less, then it is fine but less than that, It is sad
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• India
27 Nov 18
@Moon24 Then you have huge heart!
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
26 Nov 18
@anya12adwi Now I see you're a long time on the site. I understand. We all like to have a lot of comments on the discussion. Sometimes we have no comment as much as we would like, but it's not a reason to feel bad. I do not like having less than 5 comments.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
24 Nov 18
It's nice when people want to talk to you, but do not be sad sometimes that people do not get to answer for obligations.
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• India
25 Nov 18
Yes, I should not expect high!
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• India
26 Nov 18
@Nevena83 That's true!
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
25 Nov 18
@anya12adwi It takes a bit of people to get to know you, so there will be more comments over time.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
19 Nov 18
Yes, but if I wait long enough I will get some.
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• India
20 Nov 18
But at the same time we lose some cents too... Right???
@May2k8 (18078)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 18
I am not sad, I keep thinking and gradually move.
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• India
21 Nov 18
I too move on!! But I keep to this feeling longer than I should
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
19 Nov 18
No..not at all!! Most of my discussions get a decent amount of response ! Even if my discussion doesn't get good amount I don't feel sad for it , my dear friend
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• India
19 Nov 18
Yes, I feel sad.. But I move on quickly.. But, I wish I was that interesting here, I mean my posts..
@Merliva (3539)
• San Marino
15 Feb 19
i know right ,....i get sad when only one two and only 3 comment