sad memory

Philippines
November 23, 2018 6:07am CST
In each page in our lives, we have this we called "downfall" Mine was when I lost my son when he was just 7 months. I felt I was going crazy at that time. It was very hard at that time but I still need to hold on because I still have another son which was in the hospital at that time. I have twins. My son is now 8 years old.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Nov 18
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Loss of a child at any point is heart breaking. =( I had 2 miscarriages and they were so difficult to go through but the love God showed me through it helped me so much.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
Yes.. even all the hardships we are still lucky to see the bright side...Everything that happens to us always has reasons.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
I think everyone will have a surprise in their lives ... and that is the most fun thing
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
yeah...We just need to count the blessings that we received.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
@mischellesagario absolutely right, and sometimes we are not grateful for what we have got
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@leny34 yes sometimes...
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@sofssu (23662)
29 Nov 18
I am so sorry for your loss. Its is really heart breaking for a mother.. I hope in time you pain will heal.
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@sofssu (23662)
29 Nov 18
@mischellesagario glad to hear that..
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
@sofssu Thank you so much
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
Yeah...Thank you...Don't worry I am very much happy and fine now...
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@just4him (306196)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Dec 18
I'm sorry you lost a son. I'm glad you still have the other twin.
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@just4him (306196)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Dec 18
@mischellesagario You would find strength.
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Yeah, I am very happy to still have the other one. He gives me all the strength I need now...I don't know what will happen to me if I will lose both of them...Maybe I will be crazy...
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@just4him Yeah for sure...Thank you for your encouragement
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
29 Nov 18
I know your heart break, I too had twins and lost one at 8 wks to SIDS, I just lost his twin brother 2 yrs ago at 31. I feel your pain and am sorry for your loss.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
29 Nov 18
@mischellesagario Yes, life has to go on for the others.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
@cintolThat makes us strong...Wherever our sons right now for sure they are very much happy.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
Yeah, it was really heartbreaking but we need to be strong for our son.
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@debjani1 (7207)
23 Nov 18
It's very sad. But see the GOD gave you twins. May be the lost one is one among the twins. Consider it.
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@debjani1 (7207)
24 Nov 18
@mischellesagario that's the spirit.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Yes, you are right...I am still happy to have one...I am very much happy right now...
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@DianneN (246814)
• United States
27 Nov 18
That is a mother's worst nightmare, and I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your son. You must be strong for your other son. My grandson is 8 years old, too.
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@DianneN (246814)
• United States
28 Nov 18
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• Philippines
28 Nov 18
Thank you @DianneN yeah you are really right I need to be strong for my other son...
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
23 Nov 18
It's really unfortunate.. My mom also lost a baby boy.. And she still wants if she could ever see his face.. As she could not see his face.. I can only guess how much difficulty it must be moving on but I pray God to give you strength and so much happiness with your twins that you forget every hurtful moment
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• India
24 Nov 18
@mischellesagario It's good that you are trying, otherwise it will be injustice to your other twin!
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
@anya12adwi Yeah of course! I'm still lucky to have my son...
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Thank you so much...It's not easy but I managed to keep on moving on because I still have the other twin...
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
23 Nov 18
Oh I'm really sorry for your loss,, hope your okay now
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
23 Nov 18
@mischellesagario good to know, how is your child now? What grade your son now?
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@resukill22 He is already 8 years old now..He's in grade 3. Do you have kids?
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
Thank you..I'm very much fine now...It's been 8 years already...
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
2 Dec 18
Happy to know the one son survived. But sad so sad to read about your other son RIP.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
2 Dec 18
@mischellesagario He is, he is with the Father and the Son and the Angels. Amen
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
@Courage7 Yeah I'm pretty sure he is an angel now...
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
Thank you...It's okay he is in heaven now...
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
Oh, that's really a very difficult situation. I'm glad you made it through.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@mischellesagario Being a parent, we should always be but events like this needs a lot of time for us to recover.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
Yeah.. I need to be strong...Thanks God
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@simplfred Yeah we just need to be positive in everything that will happen.
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
27 Nov 18
I am just 19 and I think if I am the one who will experience that kind of situation, it would really make my heart saddened really bad.
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
29 Nov 18
@mischellesagario They said that it is normal for a mom to be like that.Thank God that you're okay,
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• Philippines
28 Nov 18
I felt I am going crazy at that time. It's like a nightmare but I'm glad I got it through
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
@mnglsp Thank you so much...
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 18
i am so sorry to hear that. be tough for your son
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 18
@mischellesagario life must go on
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• Philippines
25 Nov 18
@nawala123 yeah of course...fight fight fight
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Yes..Thank you so much
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
23 Nov 18
I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that God gives you a little happiness in life.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
24 Nov 18
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Thank you...I am very much happy now...
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
23 Nov 18
I'm so very sorry about your baby boy. God helps us and comforts us in times of heartache.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Yes definitely! I am very much fine and happy now...Thank you so much
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
29 Nov 18
I know many who have lost premies after several months in the NicU and know it is hard. Glad the other son made it.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 18
Yeah, that is why I am still very happy to have my boy...
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Dec 18
i hope your son will grow healthy and a fine young man.
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• Philippines
2 Dec 18
That's what I am praying...and I do my very best to make him healthy and that he will grow up a fine and good man.
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• Northampton, England
23 Nov 18
7 month s. Thye will be in the playroom in heaven having fun mom
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
Yeah...He's an angel already.
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@Janet357 (75656)
23 Nov 18
Im not a mom but i know how hard it is to lose a loved one. But time will come, as Acts 24:15, there will be resurrection for everyone. And thats a promise- you will see your son again.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 18
He will always stay in my heart and in my mind...
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
23 Nov 18
Sorry for your loss. I understand you on some way. I lost my mother. :(
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Thank you so much...
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