find it difficult to part with my father and mother

love my family
@leny34 (8506)
Sidoarjo, Indonesia
November 23, 2018 11:57am CST
today is my 5th day, I am now far from my family, I work far outside the city so I can't go home every day. maybe I will go home once a month to visit my father and mother, At first I felt that it was hard for me to get away from my mother, but this was my job. even though I only separated for 5 days, I have missed my father and mother at home. but somehow I love my family ... how have you ever had a hard day separating from your father and mother when you worked out of town?
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
I left home to study at university. This is how things go.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
and do you feel heavy on the first day you leave home? because I felt my first day was hard enough to leave my house and family.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Nov 18
@leny34 Of course, it's difficult at the beginning. But you will have colleagues and soon find friends at the new place.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
@MALUSE yes I will try to find friends and adapt to my new place
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 18
blood is thicker than water
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
yes and the blood will remain red even though mixed with water
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
@nawala123 what blood is infected?
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 18
@leny34 but not when infected :)
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
Yeah, it’s hard to be far from family at first. Hope you can adjust very soon.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
@leny34 I’m hoping too.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
yes it is very difficult at the beginning, and I will try to adapt to the current situation
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
24 Nov 18
I hope you will be fine when you have to leave them for a while.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
at first I really felt hard to leave them, but now I'm a little used to it
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@Janet357 (75656)
24 Nov 18
Thats good because it will teach you how to be independent
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
being very important indeed and also very difficult on the first day
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
23 Nov 18
My most difficult part was separation when I married, but then I was very young.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
yes that's right, so did you also experience that difficult day for the first time?
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
25 Nov 18
@Nevena83 yes it seems that everyone will feel the way you feel
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
24 Nov 18
@leny34 Yes, it was the first time and it was hard for me.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 18
I guess you're in a phase of adjustment. But once you're earning steady and used to being yourself, you won't be missing them the way you miss them now.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
24 Nov 18
yes that's right in the adjustment process, maybe I will try to adjust myself to be away at home, have you ever experienced this?
@wolfgirl569 (95042)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Nov 18
It is time to be on your own. You and they will get used to it.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
Yes, it is true,, but I experienced a very hard start
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Nov 18
Yes, this is called growing up and becoming an independent woman.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
yes that's right ... maybe I will learn about it
@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
23 Nov 18
I am away from my parents from last 5 years..when I was just 16. I only visit them on holidays. Sometimes I miss them but it's life and some requirements
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
do you also work far away when you leave your parents? and how do you feel when you first leave your father and mother?
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
23 Nov 18
It's hard feeling dear but no choice there You have to work ..
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
23 Nov 18
absolutely right, not many choices   Have you ever felt that way too?