So insensitive.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
December 4, 2018 3:30am CST
Last Friday was Basty's 6th Birthday. It was simple only with Family and some relatives were there. Also forgot to mention, Father was present too. Earlier that day, my cousins were the one who helps me organized the decorations such as banners and balloons. It was simple. Then I took a photo and send it to his Mother who is online on messenger. Thinking she would say something to Basty or call us to talk to her son. I waited for her to reply. As I check it, she only has seen the picture I send her and no greetings at all. Like nothing at all. Is it hard for a Mother not to think about her son? We know she has another Family to boast but at least one "hello" from her will be okay just to let Basty know that she still has a Mother. How sensitive. The photo was taken during Basty's Birthday. A typical Filipino style.
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• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Dec 18
F****** her and karma will come her way. Sorry but I am just going going to be straight forward with you as I am with everyone. The mother selfish, plain and simple. She may say hi and shoot a response back to you when she feels like it or at her convenience. If her daughters birthday is not of her importance, then neither is you’re efforts in trying to get to her to care, she will mostly likely see the end result for her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Dec 18
I would like to think it's a slap for her though she didn't care about her son, at least we still try to be a better guardian for her child. Yes, I believe karma will come to her soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Dec 18
@Nikkkki12 That makes sense too.
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Dec 18
@JustBhem sorry sons birthday** it’s not a slap in the face for her because she doesn’t care. This woman seems as though she doesn’t like who she is and fulfills her shitt personality with being a bitcch
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
4 Dec 18
Happy birthday to Basti
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Dec 18
Thanks, it was last week.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Dec 18
Strange behaviour from a mother, can't understand the reason. Belated Happy birthday to Basty. Hope he had a good time with his birthday even though his mother ignored him.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
Yes, he is a good time with his Birthday with his cousins.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
How can she do that to her own son? As if she doesn't care for him anymore. Even if she has a new family anymore, her being a mother to Basty should still be with her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
That is what I thought. But I think she is not a good Mother.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Dec 18
@JustBhem Obviously, she is not indeed. I pity Basty.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 18
@SIMPLYD Me too, that is why I will take care of him and give whatever he wants as long as I still live.
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@sofssu (23662)
4 Dec 18
Oh dear Basty's mother is not with him and she doesn't even wish her son on his birthday.. that is so sad.. poor little baby.
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@sofssu (23662)
5 Dec 18
@JustBhem Its amazing how you and your brother have taken care of this child.. I hope he never misses his mother.. and grows up to be a happy fulfilled child.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 18
@sofssu There are times when he ask me about his Mother and I will tell him that she is okay and someday she will be here to visit him.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
Yes, since Basty was 6 months old he leaves him to his Father which is my Brother. I saw how my Brother took care of him and since he cannot go to work, I am the one who took care of him even I was sick.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
4 Dec 18
That's a strange behaviour of mother.. anyhow my wishes to basty.... Picture looks good there
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Dec 18
Thanks, Icydoll.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
That is sad that she seems to forget her son with you. I guess she forgot her responsibility there that she wants to forget him already and just focus on his current family. It is sad for the boy to realise it and hopefully he would be able to overcome this and not carry it on while he is growing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
I think that is what we are going to do. We will take care of him as long as we live.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
@JustBhem Anyway he is part of your family. Might as well take good care of him and let him feel that he belongs to a family. I think it will be later on when he grows up and realises it that will be problem. But I think that for as long as he will feel loved by you then he might grow up like any normal person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 18
@rsa101 That is what we are doing now. I want him to feel that even though he doesn't have a Mother, he has an Aunt and a Father, and a Lolo who loves him dearly.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
4 Dec 18
You played a great role and I am sure Basty never missed her mother.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
I think he expects something from her.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
4 Dec 18
What kind of mother is that! Urgh! Can I have some chicken wings, please.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
@JustBhem Are you okay? It seems not?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
Sure, but it was all gone now.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 18
@tech40 Why do you ask?
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
4 Dec 18
A mother should at least take a few minutes to wish Happy Birthday.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
5 Dec 18
@JustBhem This is what she should have done.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
I thought he was going to greet him after sending her a photo.
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@just4him (306216)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Dec 18
That is insensitive not to wish her son a Happy Birthday.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 18
Yes, so insensitive indeed.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
how did Basty feel when his mother did not even greet him? that is so insensitive of a mother to ignore the existence of her kid.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
I feel he was sad because he expects a new bag from her Mother a long time ago. He thought he will have it on his Birthday. But we make him happy by bringing him to the park and get a free ride.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
10 Dec 18
How Can a mother do such thing? I cant imagine how her son felt.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Dec 18
Knowing her, I doubt she will be a Mother. She has 4 kids of whom have different Father. Imagine the pain of those kids.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
11 Dec 18
@JustBhem how many of those 4 kids live with her?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Dec 18
@nela13 Only one, her recent 1-year-old baby. The other kids are living elsewhere with their Father.
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• Bekasi, Indonesia
4 Dec 18
Happy Birthday May you live long and healthy always
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
Thank you and you as well.
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• Bekasi, Indonesia
5 Dec 18
@JustBhem You are welcome
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@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Dec 18
I hope the child had lots of fun anyway.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
Yes, they are having fun.
@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Dec 18
That is very sad for Basty. His mother must be very uncaring.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Dec 18
She is. So disappointed.
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@dya80dya (33512)
4 Dec 18
This is strange. I can't understand her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Dec 18
Me either.