i can not talk like you !!!

Algeria
December 5, 2018 3:16am CST
my name is dhia eddine im a guy who is trying to succeed in this life, but you allready know that everyone have some sort of obstacles in their life. one of my obstacles which is the wost! is i stutter , i really know anyone who can talk normal will see this thing not a big deal but when it comes to me it's feels like hell that burns inside. i can't communicate like a normal person, when i was on school i have never even answer any questoin for my teachers!! i mean i have never raised my hand to say somthing or ask a question....i was completely silence . every one knows that talking and communicating is the key of success in any business ... im just talking to my self and you not expecting any responses because it seems silly to anyone else but for me it's all my life about from the beginning thank you for listening
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12 responses
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
5 Dec 18
Some people have found that singing helps greatly. I have known people who stutter dreadfully and are tongue-tied when they talk yet who are flawless when they are singing a song. The trick, I believe, is to think of what you want to say as the words to a song - after all, everyday speech has a 'tune' and rises and falls in pitch naturally. There are tutors who can help you to use that method, so you may consider it worth looking into.
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• Algeria
5 Dec 18
i know exactly what you are saying , im always singing and i sing really well i dont even stutter when i sing buuuut not helping in real life !
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• Japan
5 Dec 18
i totally agree with you..
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• Algeria
5 Dec 18
@owlwings thank you !!!
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
5 Dec 18
If God take with one hand, he give us with 2 hands. Don't to be disappointed. I am hearing impaired, I am not fit for off line job so I am doing online jobs. Here I don't required to listed. You writing is pretty Good. Try here, Good luck
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
6 Dec 18
@didinedhia I replied on your message. I will help you in online earning.
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• Algeria
6 Dec 18
@anil02 thank you so mich sir!!
• Algeria
5 Dec 18
thank you sir
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
5 Dec 18
Your feelings are very understandable. I've read that there are different types of, and causes for, stuttering. And some people who stutter say that when they have a cold they don't stutter at all. I found a link you might find interesting, even helpful. Or not. But either way, you have friends here who can see the real person beyond the stuttering.
Natural treatment options and therapies for stuttering can assist in the treatment of the condition, such as magnesium, baking soda, and Vitamin C.
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
5 Dec 18
@didinedhia You're welcome.
• Algeria
5 Dec 18
THANK YOU SO MUCH
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
We all have weaknesses, friend. Even me, my main problem is that I don't have a great fighting spirit.
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• Algeria
5 Dec 18
fighting spirit is something you can build my friend!!!
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
5 Dec 18
@didinedhia Yeah, I know but I always keep myself safe, sometimes, afraid to gamble my fate.
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@Davictech (195)
5 Dec 18
You have the power of writing, take all the remedies that people has offer and also build more on expressing your self through writing
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• Algeria
5 Dec 18
thank you
@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
1 Mar 19
Nobody's perfect, and you're a great guy!
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• Algeria
1 Mar 19
thank you so much
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
1 Mar 19
@didinedhia You are welcome!!
@maezee (41997)
• United States
5 Dec 18
Welcome to mylot. I am sure stuttering cannot be an easy thing to go through.
@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
15 Jan 19
Well... that's interesting, Dhia. (I am sorry you are afflicted with a stuttering problem, but there may be ways to get around that.) Do you stutter when you sing? (One man here who stutters found he didn't stutter when he sings. (He is a famous singer here.) So he constantly hums and says the words he wants to say while he hums and doesn't stutter then.) I hope you continue to tell us things about yourself and your family. Oh, I probably should tell you that if I ever ask you a question that you consider too personal, please tell me. I tend to want to help people with their problems, so I look up the problem online and suggest things that may help them. Also, would you like me to help you with your English? (Do you use American English or British English? It appears you're using American English, but I could be mistaken about that.) Many myLotters come here to help them learn English. Often they ask others here to help them write it correctly. If you prefer not, then I won't tell you when you've made a mistake. (That is totally up to you. We aren't allowed to comment on how someone uses English unless that person asks us for help.) And I see someone else must have mentioned that you will earn more here if you keep a conversation with someone ongoing, without getting silly about it.
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 18
dont worry buddy. i think you can have therapy for your stutter
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@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Dec 18
And if anyone loughs or makes fun of you.... the irony will always be that they will have listened gotten your point and whatever they say won't leave a mark on you neither will it be written on your back for others to read.
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@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Dec 18
Well listen here no one is perfect whether you stutter or not always answer questions and ensure that you step your ground and let everyone know you exist and always ensure that you talk out.
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• Algeria
5 Dec 18
thank you
@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
28 Dec 18
No one is perfect. You can practise public speaking like toastmaster club or singing class. I heard these activities can improve stutter slowly.
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