Do you have a brother or a sister?
@Nevena83 (65282)
Serbia
December 10, 2018 2:15pm CST
Good evening friends
You already know that my brother was visiting. Some people know that I do not have a good relationship with him, and for that, our mother deserves it. He always paid more attention and love to him. Everything was allowed to him, he never punished him and always found excuses for him.
It's so today when we're already grown up. I always had this difference, but I never behaved towards him, but he started. She often scolds me, humiliates me, laughs ... It hurts very much. He is even very wrong and shows his dissatisfaction that his daughter loves me.
I hardly bear it all if it lasts for a very long time, but I felt the greatest pain when one day said that my child would have expelled from the house that it was not me. I thought I'd die. My child was always attached to him and he could say something like that. At that moment, I only managed to tell him that I would never do that to his child.
Do you have a brother or a sister? What is your relationship with them?
27 people like this
30 responses
@marguicha (215428)
• Chile
10 Dec 18
I don´t have a good relationship with my brother, but mine sounds like heaven as compared to yours. Still, it hurts a lot.
2 people like this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
@marguicha Rarely when I heard that a brother is attached to a sister, it's always different.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Dec 18
I know how that one feels the only thing is that my sons do not like my brothers because of what they did to me.
So sorry what is happening to you.
In the end my Mom was very sorry for having always loved the two of them more than me.
She always spoiled them more.
1 person likes this
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83
Yes they are on my side in that sense.
They do not love my brothers at all.
Maybe he will grow out of that as he grows up.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 That's good. It is important that the children are with you and believe you.
1 person likes this
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 I loved more my father, he was a very good man and he was always ready to step by my side. I married very young, I really disliked how my mother favored my brother all the time. He grew up selfish and egoist because he always had everything he asked from my mother.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you too. I think that the mothers are guilty of separating us from little. And my brother is the same as your brother. But in your words, determination is decisive, not pain. How did you overcome this difference and what is it like?
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@LadyDuck That's in my case. My mother always loved my brother more. Even now, when I tell her what she is doing, she rejects it and tells me that I'm jealous, but it's not really that way. She was pleased when I gave birth to a son because she likes male children. And then I said that a woman's child would love only her son, and so it was. When he got a daughter, she's all happy. These are things that really hurt. I am 35 years old and it never stopped hurting. My mother never told him a bad word, never raised the tone, always supported him, even in bad things, while my whole life was stumbling. I grew up 15 years ago, she is changing me to this day, while her son lives with a woman who is behaving in a terrible manner, and she sees and finds justification.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (31775)
• India
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 I have three elder brothers and two elder sisters.I'm close to my eldest brother and eldest sister.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (31775)
• India
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 No,never.In our family we are expected to respect our elders. And my elders love me.No question of any clash.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@Shivram59 This is for any praise. I wish my brother would respect me.
1 person likes this
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
10 Dec 18
I have two brothers and we get along pretty well. Sorry that you don't get along with your brother.
1 person likes this
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Dec 18
@Nevena83 That would be nice for you. See if you can make peace and get closer.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
@1hopefulman It will never happen. I'm always the same, I never hurt him, but he ...
1 person likes this
@JESSY3236 (18923)
• United States
11 Dec 18
I'm an only child. I do have two stepbrothers (I haven't seen a long time) and a stepsister (I don't talk to much). I may have some half brothers or sisters. I don't know.
1 person likes this
@JESSY3236 (18923)
• United States
14 Dec 18
@Nevena83 I've tried to find one of stepbrothers online, but I don't know what he looks like now or where he lives now. I have talked to my stepsister some, but we aren't close.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
14 Dec 18
@JESSY3236 Yeah, you do not know where he is? And can you find it through some state institutions with the help of names and surnames?
1 person likes this
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
10 Dec 18
I have a half brother, he was 16 when I was born and we were very close. My mom got remarried and I had six step brothers and I only got along with one of them.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
@hillhjill Do you think you will ever fix a relationship with others?
1 person likes this
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 Not too good since we were kids. But now i am trying to fix it
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@nawala123 It's good when you want to fix your relationship. I wish my brother wanted it too.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
2 Jan 19
It is really sad to hear what you have been going through. I don't have a sister, but I have a younger brother who is settled in US. We didn't have very cordial relationship - the sibling rivalry was always there, but we stood up for each other whenever anyone of us was facing some difficulty. Even now whenever he requires any monetary help, I do help him to best of my ability. Our mother never discriminated between us. Here in Goa, India where I stay, we don't discriminate between sons and daughters. The brother alsways loves his sister, and will do anything to protect her. He will never humiliate her. Likewise sisters also love their brothers very much.
1 person likes this
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
2 Jan 19
@Nevena83 I don't understand why your mother discriminated between both of you.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
2 Jan 19
It's so beautiful. My mother always made a difference. He always loved him more and he became very rude.
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
2 Jan 19
@amirev777 I do not know, she always liked him more. Even now, when he sees how he acts, he always finds justification for him. While she always criticized me for everything, even when I'm singing, she criticizes me, she never likes to see me happy. I even wrote about it.
@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Dec 18
I have one Sister and I am close to her.
1 person likes this
@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Dec 18
@Nevena83 No, we are 2 and a half years a part in age. We played a lot together when we were kids and still have fun when we get together.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
@LeaPea2417 That is very nice. I wish I had such a relationship with my brother.
I wish I had such a relationship with my brother.1 person likes this
@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
11 Dec 18
I have one brother, who is 2 years younger than me. As children, we were like twins, doing everything together. But as we became teens, we didn't like each other very much because we were always chasing the same girls, and that would cause us to fight. But then when I graduated from the university and moved back home to live close to him, we became close friends again. We always look out for each other.
1 person likes this
@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 My brother and I have good days and bad days, but overall we really look out for each other.
1 person likes this
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@moffittjc That is very nice. I never felt the love of my brother.
1 person likes this
@redurnet (1799)
• United Kingdom
11 Dec 18
I have a big family of half brothers and sisters and I am not especially close to any of them. I think it can be difficult sometimes, when people have very different personalities and also sometimes we seem to compete for the love and respect of our parents.
1 person likes this
