I Am A Little Behind

@porwest (78761)
United States
December 10, 2018 5:47pm CST
It seems to always go this way. But I am a little behind on responding to all of the wonderful comments people have taken the time to send to my posts. But, like I wrote in a far-gone discussion, I do eventually get to them all, and I will. I am now taking them one post at a time—just easier I think to manage that way. And so right now I am still working on getting to all of the comments left on my "Baking My Bratwurst" post. Part of what takes me so long to get to my own posts and take care of them is I tend to always click on the commenter's profile, find something to read, and hopefully leave a comment on what they write as well. All in day's work. Just like to periodically remind people I have not forgotten about you. It just takes me a bit to spend the time and truly take in your interaction with me. Onward and upward.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
16 Dec 18
Every day, I clear all the notifications first, then I read the discussions and leave comments.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
I am always bouncing around all over the place when I am here for whatever reason.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
@Nevena83 It's been okay. Nothing to write home about. But it's been okay.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
19 Dec 18
@porwest That's nice. Today, there was very little activity with me. How was it with you?
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
15 Dec 18
It is always nice to get meaningful responses even though they may be late.
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• India
20 Dec 18
@porwest I like the little alleyways that side track from the main post too. Having said that it is possible only to do it with people who are genuinely interested
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
Meaningful responses are the best. I like comments that create threads. After all, they must have intended it that way when they (the owners of the site) decided to call them discussions. Discussions in real life rarely tend to be one and done.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
24 Dec 18
@responsiveme It takes a bit to engage a conversation. A well placed comment definitely can facilitate that. Things that kill a conversation are things like "I agree," "Yeah, you're right," or simple emoticon responses.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Dec 18
I also get behind at times but eventually always clear them all. I get a real sense of accomplishments when that happens.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
20 Dec 18
@porwest And a few minutes later there is bunch more to work on. The more you give, the more you get!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
I know right? Me too.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
@1hopefulman I KNOW. I am shooting myself in the foot every time I am on here.
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@TheHorse (205627)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jan 19
You are a better man than me. Even if you are a Republican. I tend to respond to comments on MY posts first. The I visit those who have been so kind as to visit me.
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@TheHorse (205627)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jan 19
@porwest Egads, I'm so CONFUSED! On to more important matters, will I be called a sexist pig if I turn football back on?
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
6 Jan 19
I neglect my own posts a lot. For whatever reason. I spend a lot of time on other's posts. Not sure WHY I do it that way. But I am usually behind on MY OWN posts. Not others. Go figure. It must be the republican in me. I am not out for my own gain, but rather the gain of others.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
6 Jan 19
@TheHorse No. I am cooking dinner and the wifey is watching football. I don't watch football but I do cook. It's weird in our house.
@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Dec 18
Not to worry. I’m facing the same ordeal. It is what it is and our true friends understand. The site is slow again, today. What a drag.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Dec 18
@porwest It’s working fine now!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
Slow as in loading slowly? I hate when that happens, and it seems to be happening a lot more recently.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
@DianneN It is. And I am glad for it. When I want to MyLot I just want to MyLot, and when it's quirky, jerky, and slow this just irks me to no end.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
11 Dec 18
Yes we understand. I am the same way Jim and with the site slowness it is annoying to try to keep up. Seems okay at this time tho.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
20 Dec 18
@porwest Yes it has been acting up again today and yesterday it is not stable at all
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
@Courage7 So far it has been pretty fast for me tonight. Have not had major problems with it anyway.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
Yeah. For now it seems to be working in tip top shape. Let's hope it keeps up.
@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Dec 18
That's ok - I am A LOT behind . I try to eventually get back to everyone - somehow, someway . . . but I think most people here understand how it goes .
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Dec 18
@porwest Exactly. It's the "culture" of this place. A bit different from real life .
@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
It is one of the great aspects of this site. No one walks away mad around here. Not really.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
23 Dec 18
I always clear my notifications, do not like to see them piling up.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
24 Dec 18
Me either. If I see them over 100 I usually do let out a sigh...and then get to work.
@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
11 Dec 18
This morning I am very late in responding to all the comments. I slept a little more, I had a few urgent documents to check, I will not finish before noon.
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 18
@porwest No, nobody hold it against us, real life is more important.
@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
We all have our days here when we are just not feeling it, or just not able to be here. Luckily no one holds it against us.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Dec 18
That's how I interact here. Answer a comment, go to the profile and read a post and leave a comment.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Dec 18
@porwest That's how I view it.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
Yeah. It seems to work. And I tend to feel, and maybe I shouldn't, that it is important to spend time with others who have spent time with me.
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@Hannihar (129391)
• Israel
11 Dec 18
@porwest Doing one at a time is a good idea.
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@Hannihar (129391)
• Israel
20 Dec 18
@porwest I find that I try to answer all of the posts that leave a comment on my discussions but there are some I may miss and sorry about that. I do not miss them on purpose.
@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
I have just found it is much easier to manage it that way. I really do want to get to ALL of the comments people have taken the time to leave on my posts and get back to them and their posts. So just focusing on one at a time just works for me, and I never have to wonder where I left off.
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• United States
7 Mar 19
I also tend to get behind often and I do enjoy responding to comments. Living on the road and camping many times doesn't give me too much time online. But I do try to catch up whenever I get online.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
10 Mar 19
It can be daunting sometimes when you have a post that garners quite a few responses. A big problem for me is that I almost always go into the commenters profile, find something to read, and also leave a comment on, so in that way going through my own responses on my own posts tends to take me much longer.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 18
I think we have all been there. Life gets in the way sometimes.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
23 Dec 18
Indeed it does. And for whatever it is worth, of COURSE what happens outside of this site take precedence.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Dec 18
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@ethal2018 (387)
• United States
11 Dec 18
Great pic.. No worries.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
Thanks.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
10 Dec 18
The first thing I do the moment I am up is to read through notifications and finish them and then get on to top rated and so on.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
23 Dec 18
Usually I will do something similar. Go through a good amount of notifications, then move onto one of my posts that need attention, then I will hang around mostly most recent activity. I seem to find the most to respond to there as opposed to the other parts of the site.
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@1creekgirl (40506)
• United States
11 Dec 18
Wow, real life can get in our way sometimes. Just do what you can and don't forget to live!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
23 Dec 18
Very true. I am certain it's not like anyone is going to string me up by ankles if I miss something on here.
@JudyEv (325648)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Dec 18
We all have different ways of dealing with the discussions here. There is always something calling for our attention.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
It is a vicious cycle some days here.
@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
11 Dec 18
Just do what you can. Life is a busy place to be.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
20 Dec 18
Oh, you KNOW it.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Dec 18
I am over 500 behind, I have never caught up.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
Egads. Do you keep all of your notifications? I have mine filtered so all I get are responses to my posts, and responses to my comments.
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Dec 18
Don't sweat it. Just keep plugging away at notifications.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 Dec 18
That's all one can do around here. Some days I tend to do things in threes. Three notifications, read and comment on three new posts, respond to three comments on my posts, and go to their posts. Not sure why there is a rhyme or reason to anything I do here. But I never feel like it is work.
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