Peoples Feelings Please - Have A Heart Think Before You Type
By Angie
@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
January 2, 2019 10:28am CST
Its not hard to be the one to step up and be the bigger person, to have a heart. To think before you write about something that might hurt someone else`s feelings, or even damage their business opportunities.
Whether done out of jealousy or not, it still can hurt feelings.
Whether meant to harm a business or not, it might.
Think about it being you and someone wrote something that hurt you in either way. Can you do without the money? Can you turn off your feelings, that you were intentionally targeted?
Before you type, think.
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39 responses
@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
2 Jan 19
@andriaperry So true, sometimes we type without the intention to hurt, but we should pay attention.
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@akalinus (40440)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I hope I have never hurt with my comments. Sometimes, I just get carried away with stuff. I don't like boring so I try to come up with something interesting. We all have enough boring in our lives. I try not to hurt anyone. Everyone has feelings and opinions.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
Especially when you write something knowing it will hurt someone.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jan 19
I would hope if I ever hurt someone that they would contact me through messages. I try to treat others the way I want to be treated.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
2 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies yes I feel the same way! I would feel so bad if I hurt someone's feelings. I would want to be called out on my rudeness you know. It is a way we can learn from our mistakes!
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry I definitely think before I speak offline and before I type online. I try hard to be a good example of Jesus for others and I hope someday to hear well done good and faithful servant.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
I do too. I have never known you to say a mean word.
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan 19
@andriaperry I'm sorry if it's something that happened to you recently. It's happened to me many a times (more in real life, not so much here).
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
@much2say Seems more online lately for me.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Jan 19
I'm not sure how some thing I say could effect someone's livelihood but I would not want to think I would or could
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
No you have not said anything.
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@vandana7 (98787)
• India
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry Hey andria...I tease Pony and DE rotten. They can usually take it, so I feel I am in safe territory. I don't know about them, but I have fun and they actually seem to enjoy me troubling them. May be I am under some illusion.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
@vandana7 No, they know its all in fun.
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symbols to show it is al a joke. It is better to laugh than to cry.@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
No, not you! NEVER. I know we joke around. Here, mylot, we know who to joke with and who not to.
@akalinus (40440)
• United States
2 Jan 19
@andriaperry There is a group of us that joke around a lot. If I see that a person does not want to fool around with words and ideas, I just give straight answers.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
@akalinus I know. I also know we cab say weird stuff to each other to keep the smiles going.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Jan 19
@andriaperry Sometimes the person doesn't realize they have hurt the other person. There may be a misunderstanding.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
Sometimes the person don`t think it will hurt, but deep down they know that was not right.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
2 Jan 19
I was a target ever so often in the old myLot
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry There is one who tries but I just delete their posts and move on
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
I have been the past 6 months and I dont know why, I wish someone would tell me. I don`t think I am mean to anyone.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
@allknowing I bet I know, this one is a smarty mouth.
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@sofssu (23662)
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3 Jan 19
I wish they did put in a little more thought.. some people always like to show they know better and play the one up game.. while at times it could happen unintentionally. I hope not to tread on any ones toes this year.. I know some have done that to me.. But I am resilient.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
Me too! I will soar regardless!
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@wolfgirl569 (95082)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Jan 19
I hope I have not done that here to anyone. If I did it was unintentional. But when writing things it can be harder to convey a true message as there is no body language or at least the tone of voice to help you know the meaning. Maybe that is what happened.
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@wolfgirl569 (95082)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry Glad to hear that 
Not too much bothers me. But it would be nice if people would stop to think sometimes. But my mouth gets me in trouble in real life for that reason. 
Not too much bothers me. But it would be nice if people would stop to think sometimes. But my mouth gets me in trouble in real life for that reason. 1 person likes this
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
Not you 
.... were are mylot sisters.
I will just let it go, I wish people would think "will this hurt HER, if I write about this"
.... were are mylot sisters.
I will just let it go, I wish people would think "will this hurt HER, if I write about this"
@Deepizzaguy (94475)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
3 Jan 19
There is an old saying that goes "If you do not have anything nice to say. Don't say it all." I have learned that words can hurt people and that is not right.
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@DesirousDreamer (34783)
• Peoria, Arizona
2 Jan 19
If anyone is hurting you I'll give them a few words to say!
People are so rude sometimes. Unfortunately, since everyone is hidden behind a screen they become nasty. And then whine then someone confronts them about it. Trolls I tell you, trolls.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry I have seen that pettiness here and can think of one specific name off the top of my head who does things like that. I did not see any post like that recently though as I no longer follow them.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
You know, something was said without names but you know its aimed at you because I am the one doing that certain thing here.
Thank you.
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@DesirousDreamer (34783)
• Peoria, Arizona
4 Jan 19
@andriaperry I know indirect messages all too well! Of course, I am guilty of them as well, but I'm very passive-aggressive. Not exactly healthy, but I hate confrontation but I also hate when people are not nice.
@Hannihar (129391)
• Israel
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry
This is a very good post. Someone wrote a post and apparently I did not either read all of it or missed something and she was very rude in the way she responded to me. I am sorry if I have been rude in answering posts and sorry if I did not understand something but she did not have to be rude. She could have answered back better than she did. I did not see a post she made. I try to think before I answer a post and if do not understand something then ask I hope.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
I also ask when I do not understand a comment, that is what we should do.
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@Hannihar (129391)
• Israel
4 Jan 19
@andriaperry
Thanks andria and I do ask to explain because I do not understand something.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jan 19
@andriaperry She has done so many songs over the years.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
I know, you are a sweet person
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry oh no I kind of meant people in general like the ones leaving the reviews if they are upset about something they should wait a few days and see how they feel and think how to word it where it won't hurt someone. When I wrote you I didn't literally mean you at all more thinking of my own experiences.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
LOL, I am calm. having hurt feelings does not make me mad or riled up. well, I am more disappointed than anything, I expected her to be classier.
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@snowy22315 (169893)
• United States
2 Jan 19
Yes, thinking before you type is usually appreciated. Some people here think they can say whatever comes to mind whether it is mean, rude hateful or just uncalled for.
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@Marilynda1225 (79677)
• United States
2 Jan 19
You make a good point about thinking before we write. Words hurt
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Jan 19
Yes they do but I will not be stuck in the why would they do that anymore.
@sallypup (57836)
• Centralia, Washington
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry That was not nice. Now I'm choking on a candy cane. Funny you.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
Hell yes I would tell you, I would tell you to get your fat foot off of me.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 19
I know I'm guilty of writing things on here that have hurt peoples feelings.
My intention was never primarily to hurt their feelings but I did know that that may be the result of what I wrote.
Some things I'm sorry for some things not.
Off mylot I know I've written things that may have hurt a business and I'm sorry for none of them as they were true and accurate reviews.
When I do take the unusual opportunity to leave a bad review it has always been after contact with the business about my issue that I've felt has been ignored.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
Oh me too, I call home office before I write about it,I am used to you and if its not nice I give it an and walk away, lol. Saying "MEN!"
and walk away, lol. Saying "MEN!"1 person likes this
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 19
I don`t understand what you said.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
3 Jan 19
@andriaperry I said people would write anything even if it hurts you.
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