Sometimes you need to watch your words
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325648)
Rockingham, Australia
January 5, 2019 3:46am CST
Can’t you just see this in your mind’s eye? A guy freaks out when he sees a spider. His screams cause his little daughter to start bellowing too. He repeatedly whacks at the spider screaming ‘why don’t you die’ at the top of his lungs. The neighbours hear all the carry-on, ring the police, and three squad cars rush to the scene by which time the poor spider has indeed succumbed.
This is what happened to Rhys Howard of Perth, Western Australia, just a day or two ago. Apparently his partner usually deals with spiders but she was in the shower. The whole scenario sounds slightly familiar although Vince doesn’t get close enough to a spider to yell anything.
Photo of a fight to the death between a redback spider and a centipede. The redback won.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
5 Jan 19
This happened with a frog in our house, it was one of those shiny green ones which entered I don't know how.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
5 Jan 19
It is hard to fight fear. I have fear of toads when I was a kid (Okay, until Now).
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
5 Jan 19
@JudyEv I'm not much afraid on regular frogs but for toads they hunts me even in my dreams.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
5 Jan 19
When I see a cockroach it will be an eeeeeks but not loud and I can deal with it. A snake is a different matter
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@xFiacre (12593)
• Ireland
5 Jan 19
@responsiveme Snakes are always a different matter and they must be deal with most comprehensively, vile creatures.
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@xFiacre (12593)
• Ireland
5 Jan 19
@responsiveme Only imported ones, none native to the country. I wish people would not import them.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
5 Jan 19
@xFiacre
There are no snakes in Ireland.(Forsythe story) Or are there?
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@snowy22315 (169893)
• United States
5 Jan 19
Oh Geez what a wimp! Of course he is teaching his child to overreact to spiders too, but maybe in that part of the world you need to.
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@snowy22315 (169893)
• United States
6 Jan 19
@JudyEv I doubt that..we may have one or two that are poisonous..but my guess is you have a few more.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
5 Jan 19
Each of us has different fears. We could not just laugh it out because that guy was really scared. We can not prevent ourselves from being scared. I also have my own fears but I can not scream at the top of my lungs. However, I understand people who really scream.
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@TheHorse (205618)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Jan 19
I looked closely at the photo and wondered who would win. I assume the redback is similar to our black widow. Perhaps the venom is chemically similar as well. I have no problem with spiders. I've removed a few wolf spiders that had colleagues on their desks. I use the upside-down glass and cardboard method. As for reactions, children learn what their parents do.
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@Traceyjayne (1763)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 19
At work if we have spiders or wasps etc in the classroom I try to get it out calmly as I am in front of the children ….at home although I try to get them out carefully ….they don't always make it …...
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@JudyEv (325648)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Jan 19
I think many of us temper our actions around children. We don't really want to freak them out.
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Jan 19
Is the redback poisonous?
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
5 Jan 19
My boyfriend is terrified of spiders so I always have to kill them for him
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@wolfgirl569 (95082)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Jan 19
That poor guy. But with the child screaming I am glad someone called to be safe. You never know anymore.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
5 Jan 19
I know so many men like this, I shake my head!
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@JudyEv (325648)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Jan 19
Sometimes it's the women who are the brave ones isn't it?
@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Jan 19
I'll bet Rhys was embarrassed, to have those police squad cars called to the scene! I've screamed at spiders before, but nobody called the cops on me:)
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Jan 19
@JudyEv His little daughter was probably thinking, 'Daddy is my hero!'
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