Why people makes fun of guys saving their virginity before marriage?

Calgary, Alberta
January 11, 2019 1:04am CST
If a woman says she is saving her virginity before marriage, People will say "Awww, she is so pure, It is nice to see a lady of morals and values" or they will say " She is so innocent I want to protect her at all costs". Women who saves their virginities are highly praised. The word virgin is an insult to men for some reason. Until now many people are making fun of the football player Tim Tebow because he is a virgin until now. He is rich, popular, handsome and he is already 32 years old. He wanted to save his virginity because of his religion and faith. I notice a lot of people on the article about his engagement, are mocking him and making fun of him. They even question his heterosexuality. He is going to marry Miss Universe 2017, who is also a virgin. So 2 inexperienced people will make love on their honeymoon. I lost mine at age 14 and It never made me felt cool or different. Instead I think it made me a hot mess when it comes to life decisions. Why do you think female virgins are admired and desired? Why male virgins are mocked and ridiculed? I don't judge people based on their sexual activity. I judge them on how they treat people.
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@skysnap (18915)
11 Jan
western brainwashing trend I guess.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
People are calling him gay,loser and wimp for wanting to keep his virginity before marriage.
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@skysnap (18915)
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker it does not matter, at the end we all become dust. and people who are desperate to lose it are just simps to be honest.
@db20747 (12414)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker Sometimes it's best to do things the old fashioned way!!!
@iridion9 (11232)
• Philippines
11 Jan
Nope, not all men laugh at him. I salute him for following GOD's rule.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
to think of it, he is a football player, most men of his profession are aggressively chased by women.
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• Philippines
13 Jan
Yup he's a rare gem.
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@noni1959 (3617)
• United States
11 Jan
I respect this. Those who make fun are projecting their own shortcomings and choices off on him and others who make this choice. They are just plain mean.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
yeah there seemed to be a double standard when it comes to this issue.
• Philippines
13 Jan
They can't believe such men exist. They just envy him.
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@noni1959 (3617)
• United States
13 Jan
@Letranknight2015 I believe some exist and just keep it quiet because of society. I have so much respect for them.
@amirev777 (3741)
• India
11 Jan
Yes, virginity is a big issue, on a small piece of tissue
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
In case of women, it can now be restored with surgery.
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@amirev777 (3741)
• India
11 Jan
@Porcospino (20884)
• Denmark
11 Jan
I have met men who were still virgins when they were in their late 20s. I would never judge anyone because of that. I think that it is a personal choice.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
So there are still some religious people in Denmark? usually virgins in western countries though are guys with low self esteem to ask a woman for a date.
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@Porcospino (20884)
• Denmark
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker Some people in Denmark want to wait because of their religion. There aren't many of them. Most Danish men don't have that kind of thoughts. Some of the men who are still virgins haven't been able to find a date like you wrote.
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@Athinker (3505)
• Jaipur, India
11 Jan
That's right friend
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
so did you save yourself?
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@Athinker (3505)
• Jaipur, India
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker yupp friend
@Acefun (945)
• Malaysia
12 Jan
Those people who always gossip about others virginity are to free about their life. They is no wrong virgin or not. It is based on how the inner heart of the person. If they are evil in their life probably they will ruin their life. I do have some friends that are not virgin when the are young due to curiosity at younger age and some still virgin and no dating experience at all. It is nice to heard that they are married now and they will have a sweet moment in their honey moon. Wish them all the best.
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• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
Its hard for me to imagine a Honeymoon between two virgins, they will have no idea what to do.
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@Acefun (945)
• Malaysia
12 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker Probably they know.
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
@Acefun From what I heard Honeymoon between virgins are awkward. They don't know how to use their tools. Not only both are virgins.... they never kissed too. They saved their first kiss on their wedding day... resulting to the most cringey first kiss. this one looks hilarious
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• Algeria
11 Jan
you are right
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
did you saved yours before marriage?
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• Algeria
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker yesss i saved it till i got my love life my wife
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• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
@didinedhia thats a lot of dedication
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@id_peace (8634)
• Singapore
11 Jan
I think they are teasing him?
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
He had been called gay for staying virgin too.
@id_peace (8634)
• Singapore
11 Jan
That is really really silly of them to say so....
• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
@id_peace Yeah they think a straight guy wants to impregnate any woman on sight.
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@Janet357 (7576)
12 Jan
I dont find this funny. Saving your virginity for you spouse is amazing, though nowadays, it seldom happens.
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• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
I think it still happens but most virgin grooms hide it in shame.
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@Janet357 (7576)
12 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker oh they should not.
@Shavkat (69491)
• Philippines
11 Jan
Perhaps it is based on what culture.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
Even in so called Christian countries, Virgin males are mocked.
@Shavkat (69491)
• Philippines
13 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker I do agree on that.
@fluffy69 (1095)
11 Jan
What is his religion?
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
Baptist, His parents are missionaries. She is Christian too both are virgins
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@fluffy69 (1095)
11 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker thats good. We cant bend the teachings of the bible just to impress people.
@venus123 (62)
• Philippines
11 Jan
i agree
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
about?
• Philippines
12 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker oh i dont know hehe
@RasmaSandra (21987)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Jan
I think it should be equal for both sexes but my thought is that everyone thinks the man should be the one to do the teaching if the woman doesn't know what to do or how to act. I see nothing wrong with both teaching each other.
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• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
Its hard to believe there is double standards up to now and it's 2019.
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@db20747 (12414)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Jan
A man can be a virgin but he wont admit it!! We need more like him!!!
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
yeah he wear the virginity badge with all his pride
@JESSY3236 (8062)
• United States
11 Jan
My fiance was a virgin until last year.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
You succeed on "corrupting" him? I found out an ex girlfriend dumped tebow because he left her dryer than a dessert due to his beliefs.
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@JohnRoberts (69946)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Jan
It's like the guy who sleeps around is a "stud" to be admired while a woman who sleeps around is called nasty names.
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
Yeah they call women who sleeps around beaches . slots and thots.
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@mandala100 (55084)
• Hong Kong
11 Jan
I lost my virginity 31 years ago my friend!
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• Calgary, Alberta
11 Jan
I lost mine 19 years ago.
@FayeHazel (23410)
• United States
13 Jan
Interesting view point... First off - as long as that is what the person truly, and honestly wants to do - I think it is great if people wait for marriage or until later in life. Perhaps people feel that virginity in woman is a nice thing, when the woman is young still. 18-20s.... oh that's nice, she's so pure. But once you're nearing 30 and still a virgin people I think look at either gender like "what is wrong with them? No one will sleep with them, they're a virgin because they're undesired...." etc. I say because I was 29. And mostly why I slept with someone was to get away from the stigma. It wasn't a nice experience and I didn't feel any smarter or different, like youd said.
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@WiseGhots (2972)
12 Jan
I think it's kinda of "cultural" thing.
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
Both liberal and conservative countries mock male virgins though
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@WiseGhots (2972)
12 Jan
@CaptAlbertWhisker It depends on the country. Don't you think?
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan
@WiseGhots Conservative countries mock and make fun of virgin grooms too
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