It's me or the dog!

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United Kingdom
January 12, 2019 2:28pm CST
Consider this. You live on your own and have done so for some time. You have a pet dog - your sole companion. You have shared your life with this creature and have grown very fond of it. You lavish love and attention on your dog, giving it the best money can buy - food, treats, toys and a comfortable home. One day, you have an epiphany. You realise that you were not meant to live a solitary life without the close comfort and companionship of another human being. Perhaps you are filled with an urge to procreate and pass on your genes to the next generation - and act which is the closest humans can come to immortality. Perhaps you have already tried this and found it (or the partner you had) wanting, and the relationship failed. You remember it as a painful experience, but that was a long time ago and now you see friends in loving relationships and wonder if you should try again. So you throw yourself once more into the dating game and find a suitable mate. You find true love and your hopes for the future are rekindled. But wait! There is a problem. Your partner and your dog don’t go well together. Your partner is not a doggy person and your dog isn’t willing to share you with a usurper. There is friction. It all comes to a head and your partner gives you an ultimatum - ‘Me or the dog!’ What to do? You love them both but you cling to your pet - it’s unquestioning love and acceptance of you was what saved your sanity during those long, dark nights of despair but can a dog be a lifelong companion - a substitute for human contact? What about your new partner? Are you willing to give up someone who could be your soulmate? Maybe you should find someone who would love your dog as you do but that could be a long search and you’re not getting any younger. This could be your last chance at happiness and a normal family life. 'Me or the dog!' What to do? What to do?
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 19
I really, really, REALLY hope this is a hypothetical question.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Jan 19
@ThreeTeddies I'm sure it does too but I still don't really want to answer it. Having said that, my husband had to accept my horse but luckily I wasn't put to the test.
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 19
@JudyEv In my case it is but I'm quite sure it happens in real life
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Jan 19
They are not your soulmate if they can not understand your feelings for the dog. I have 5 here and they would never go anywhere.
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• United Kingdom
12 Jan 19
@wolfgirl569 Dogs or partners ? LOL! Yeah, I get your meaning and yet full closeness and lifelong love and companionship can surely only be had with a partner the same species as yourself
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
12 Jan 19
One of my friends said that to her boyfriend. She didn't like his dog and she wanted it out of the house. Her boyfriend said: "Forget it. The dog was here before you and if someone has to leave it will you and not the dog" She didn't want to live without her boyfriend and decided to accept the dog. I wouldn't give up my dog either, but fortunately I have never been in that situation, My husband and I both love dogs.
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
13 Jan 19
Human relationships have a high probability of failure. So, if you pick the person, you could find yourself with no one, including the dog, in a very short time. So keeping the dog is the logical choice.
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
13 Jan 19
@ThreeTeddies Thank you, Teddy. I try.
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• United Kingdom
13 Jan 19
Well thought out sir!
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
12 Jan 19
What could be the possible problem with an animal that first of all cant even talk? I mean come on. The person would be very unreasonable.
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• Canada
12 Jan 19
This is so tough , really it is. In all honesty I would have to say it's to bad they can't love your dog too. Finding your soulmate means they absolutely gets you and everything about you and that dog is a part of you and it's really to bad that it can't work out like that. I wish you the best of luck in the end but it's truly up to you on how this all plays out.
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• United Kingdom
12 Jan 19
I'm quite sure many people will find themselves in this position
• Canada
12 Jan 19
@ThreeTeddies oh I am sure of it, I just think the dog helped you in so many ways and probably will continue to help you but there is the other factor I just thought of and that is the average life span of a dog, maybe if the partner really wants to be with you they will just stick it out ? I would hope so
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• United Kingdom
12 Jan 19
@Irishlasskicker I wouldn't stay with a woman who didn't want to stay with me. As for the lifespan of a dog . . . well, loyal animals are easier to come by than loyal people!
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
13 Jan 19
A dog cannot share space with me in my house.
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@rebelann (111164)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Jan 19
I would side with the dog, that kind of love is very hard to come by whereas human love is fickle and can fail in a heartbeat.
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@rebelann (111164)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Jan 19
Nothing good that is for sure @ThreeTeddies I think there are plenty of people just like us and none of us trust human relationships.
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• United Kingdom
12 Jan 19
@rebelann Sadly, I must agree with you - and what does that say about human relationships?
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