She Left the Abusive Husband
By @acelawrites
@acelawrites (19273)
Philippines
January 22, 2019 6:22am CST
She was so angry at her husband who is jobless and a drunkard!
So she left him for good after so many times that she gave her the chance to reform. The man always create trouble and even hurt her whenever he gets drunk. So she is now left to support her four children who are still so young.
I pity the woman! But she is determined not to reconcile again with the husband.
Do you think she made the right decision?
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20 responses
@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
22 Jan 19
Nobody should stand abuse. She waited too long!
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
22 Jan 19
@acelawrites Every abusive person asks for forgiveness. It is up to the other to say no. Specially if there are children.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
Their relationship is always on and off; the husband always ask for forgiveness.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
@marguicha she said this time she will not reconcile with the husband.
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@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
22 Jan 19
hell yes what the heck is wrong with people ,!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
The woman is so fine and works for the family; something is really wrong with the husband.
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@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
22 Jan 19
@acelawrites yes yes im talking about the shity husband , people who abuse should go to the prison
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@arthurchappell (45002)
• Preston, England
22 Jan 19
leaving him was the best thing she could do
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites I hope so. A permanent lesson by not taking him back.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
Maybe she had made her mind to teach him a lesson.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
@acelawrites this acts shouldn’t be tolerated
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
@Lucky15 yes, and I pity the woman; good thing she made the right decision.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Jan 19
Yes of course she did. Nobody should ever stay in an abusive realtionship. Good for her. I wish her well.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
I also pity her; I wish I could help her.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Jan 19
@acelawrites I am sure she will be okay. She sounds like a strong woman.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
@Happy2BeMe ys, she is, and she is very creative in earning a living for her family.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites A drunkard will always be a drunkard, unfortunately they become addicted.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
It was a right decision though it could be so hard for her; and the children now hate their father for being a drunkard.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
22 Jan 19
@acelawrites Good for your friend. No one deserves abuse!!!
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
It is true; I knew a friend who was in the same boat; she left the husband and now her children are successful because they knew the sacrifices of their mother.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
I agree, the husband did not learn his lesson even he was forgiven so many times in the past.
@kobesbuddy (74408)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Jan 19
Actually, I did the exact same thing, except I had two children. If the drinker doesn't get professional help, things will more than likely only get worse for that family. Separating is what they needed to do, if he refuses to change directions.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
He had undergone some psycho-cleansing process for some months, so the woman agreed to live with him again, but this time, he fell back into the vice again.
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@kobesbuddy (74408)
• East Tawas, Michigan
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites That's what happens, in most cases. They get dried out and then, go right back to it.
@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites
I hope she doesn't ever go back to him. Abusive husbands are terrible and do not deserve to be a husband and a father.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
I agree, he has no right to have a family.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
22 Jan 19
Yes, hope she makes a better life for herself
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
She had always been the breadwinner though they were living together; maybe it would be hard for her, but she can make it.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jan 19
She now stays with her mother, who will also look for the youngest child of two when she is out working. She said if the husband seek reconciliation, she will not be swayed.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites I hope so, I saw far too many women giving chances to their abusive husbands over and over again 
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
She should have left her abusive husband, the moment she hit her. The nerve of that husband! Jobless and yet he would drink and hit her when drunk already.
He deserves to be in jail.
I hope the wife can find a good job to support her 4 children.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites She should and ask for the free legal services so her husband can be forced to find a job and give a monthly support.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
She has a job as a massage therapist, but she should find so many regular clients to support her four children. I told her she should demand support from the husband.
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@debjani1 (7207)
•
23 Jan 19
Absolutely correct. Nobody have the right to hurt anyone physically. Her husband tortured her and drunked. He should be punished.
@WiseGhots (14607)
•
23 Jan 19
She definitely made the best decision.
This kind of situation is intolerable!
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
Yes, very dangerous for the children too!
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@Fajibar (136)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
Oh man, the one who is supposed to provide comfort & safety for his wife & kids is the one who is giving them suffering & fear. I hate this type of guy. She absolutely made the right decision. As for guys like this, I've met one once & I got into trouble because I've let him know in his face that I hate his stench.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
The woman should also learn her lesson; to stick to her decision to leave the husband for good.
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@Fajibar (136)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
@acelawrites Yeah, I think she's in her hometown now with her kids.
