Marriage Trouble?

United States
November 28, 2006 3:42pm CST
Have you ever had troubles in your marriage? Did they get worked out? or are you still having some troubles? Marriage is not easy! Name some tips here on how you have made it through! Teamwork adn dedication!
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@_hope_ (3908)
• Australia
28 Nov 06
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i have been married for 26yrs it hasn`t been an easy path but i`m glad i took it we have five children the youngest 15 . yes there have been problems in that time and we have got through them we are still here together .communication between each other is the most important, and you need a lot of patience an awful lot, you need to know when it`s better to bite your tongue and not say anything .you need to have your own space and to remember to give your partener theres there will be so many obsticles in your path take each one and share it with your partener.if you have taken this path all the best to you and i hope you can over come any problems you encounter on your journey
• United States
28 Nov 06
Great post. I have had to bite my toungue a few times. :)
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• United States
28 Nov 06
Great post. I have had to bite my toungue a few times.:)
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@_hope_ (3908)
• Australia
16 Dec 06
believe me i have the sorest tongue around
@ruby1459 (2603)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I had a trouble in my past marriage.I was abused physically and mentally by my ex-husband.He was also a racist and he liked to make a fun of people who cannot speak English well like me. I seeked for help and this councelor told us that we need to seek for a help at marriage couceling and my ex said I am the only reason why our marriage hasn't been normal.He said if I was a good woman then he doesn't need to get mad or so. I've got divorced.I am happy to be going to a different life without him.I don't want to deal with a guy like him anymore. Our marriage didn't work out but I also couldn't stay with him any longer.
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• United States
28 Nov 06
I understand where your coming from.. no one has to put up with anyone who has no respect for them. Sad really... good thing you seen what was going on and got out! Good luck to you!
@minnie_98214 (10574)
• United States
28 Nov 06
yep and now im divorced. Best advise i can give is take it slow and make sure it right you should never have cold feet at any point.
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• United States
28 Nov 06
Cold feet... also dont get pregnant just because you get pregnant..
@sprint410 (196)
• United States
28 Nov 06
learn to say f it and walk away... when things seem to have passed then carry on.... Most people hang in there and fight it out and I have found that some times it is better just to leave and come back... I have been lucky though the wife and I hardly ever have any problems... I wish everyone else well on there marriage
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• United States
28 Nov 06
Thats great if you can share more with your partner. I find most discussions and problems seem to come in with raising children and money.
@gknott (936)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I have always had marriage trouble, I have never go this right..what is wrong with me?
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• United States
28 Nov 06
it's hard.. maybe it's not all you!
@macubx (11433)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
nope, thankgod im not married..
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• United States
28 Nov 06
Thanks, I posted this forum 2x! YIKES!