Interracial marriages

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@ShyBear88 (59261)
Sterling, Virginia
February 17, 2019 9:13am CST
Last night this topic came across one of my Facebook groups, that is called Hot topics and debates. Is where a bunch of us can talk about things without someone getting offend by it you can just disagree and walk away or choice not to talk about it. Someone brought up if we should or shouldn’t allow interracial marriages. Here is how I feel it’s okay if you don’t like it or think differently. If we didn’t have interracial couples or even them getting married I wouldn’t be here today. My dad is Hispanic my mom is white without them I wouldn’t existing which means my kids wouldn’t be here either. My husband and I are interracial couple and we are married have been for almost 9 years and we have 3 kids without us our kids wouldn’t be here. I have no attraction or other men outside of white American I know that sounds crazy but I have zero attraction to want to be physical with any guys of thst. Be friends, hang out no a problem. That’s how attraction works you don’t get to pick and choice whom your going to go for it’s part of the brain that you can flip on or off. You just see someone or talk to them and that magic attraction just hits you.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Feb 19
The best thing about interracial marriage, Biracial people are the best looking people in the world and you are 100 percent sure your spouse is not your cousin or aunt.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Feb 19
@ShyBear88 Yeah but not as incestrious as someone of the same ethnicity. On a single town in my homeland, every villager is my relative.
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
28 Feb 19
@CaptAlbertWhisker incest isn’t an ethnicity your ethnicity is what you related to as in white, African American, Latino. It in some cultures marriage for cousin was a tradition to keep the blood line pure. This is something most places have stopped doing or not longer want to do unless cousins are adopted in and have no blood relationship or siblings with no blood relations.
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
28 Feb 19
They are like your cousin aunt or uncle some where way way way down the line. They say each person if you look at our DNA long enough you can pin where each person is connected to each genticiall. Skin tone is jsut a getinic market just like any other pieces of genes giving to youZ
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• Santiago, Chile
17 Feb 19
Great topic. It is all about physical and emotional attraction. At the end of the day love does not discriminate skin color, gender, or how much money one has in one's pocket. Love is love. It is curious that Interracial marriages is a hot topic in the States when in Latin America that is the most common couples to get married.
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
It’s not really a hot topic but it did come up on our page recently. It was a question to all of us in there and all of us answered with it doesn’t matter because love is love.
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• Santiago, Chile
18 Feb 19
@ShyBear88 That is so right. You know? cultures are so different these days, in my country is so common to call a african-american "negro" and it is not disrespectful at all, in fact that word is used to even show approachment to them while in the States people can't even say that word on national tv.
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
@jvicentevalera in the US the use of the N word is disrespectful as it’s an insult we use Aferican American or black.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
15 Mar 19
I do not find anything wrong with interracial marriage for as ling as the families of both sides agree on the union then I think we should accept them as it is.
@Mike197602 (15489)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 19
I've no issue with interracial marriages or relationships...I think I'd have more of an issue with people that did have an issue about it
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
Lol.. I would tell those people to get over themselves
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@acelawrites (19274)
• Philippines
17 Feb 19
It is common these days; so many interracial marriages; some work well, others failed.
@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
Interracial has nothing to do with if it works or not. Marriages some times fall about for many reasons but the color of your skin isn’t that reason
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@fluffy69 (4956)
17 Feb 19
No idea. Im married to my wife who is just my neighbor, am not attracted to someone outside my country
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
A neighbor instead always form the same places or they are but that doesn’t mean they are not created by two people from two places. Technically all people are interracial because nobody is a 100% from where they are from and raised.
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@fluffy69 (4956)
18 Feb 19
@ShyBear88 you have a point there but since we live in the same country and even if we have small percentage of foreign blood we dont count it anymore because we have the same citizenship
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@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Feb 19
@fluffy69 okay but citizen doesn’t say what you are it said this is where I live anyone can get citizenship any where if you live there long enough or born there. Where your born gives you automatic citizenship. Nationality is for. Whole your born from racies is your mix from both parents so no matter how you try to put it everyone is mixed so when you have kids your kids are mixed.
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@Aquitaine24 (11651)
• San Jose, California
3 Mar 19
I agree with that.People can be obviously a different race,but it is not an exact science.Russians and other East Europeans often have some Asian ancestry.Blacks in America often have white or native American ancestry.You could be interracial without knowing it!