My brother humiliates me.
@Nevena83 (65282)
Serbia
February 17, 2019 3:38pm CST
Good evening friends.
I managed to keep Helem up to 22 hours, and then she fell asleep, now I should sleep all night.
Today we were alone, because they all went to cut wood in the woods, and the two of us spent time outside. When I was supposed to bathe, my brother made a problem and started crying. I can not believe he's so insensitive.
I constantly suffer his insults and I do not expect him to thank me for worrying about Helena, but at least to stop insulting me. Unfortunately this will never happen.
How do you react to insults and humiliations?
I constantly suffer his insults and I do not expect him to thank me for worrying about Helena, but at least to stop insulting me. Unfortunately this will never happen.
How do you react to insults and humiliations?17 people like this
19 responses
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
17 Feb 19
I say something back!! I don't let people do that to me family or not. You need stand your ground and tell him how it makes you feel.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
17 Feb 19
@Nevena83 then sometimes it best just to cut those people out of your life..you don't need that in your life at all.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
17 Feb 19
@hillhjill You're right, but that's almost impossible, because I live with my parents and he comes to this house.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
17 Feb 19
It's good, but it's hard to escape, he's talking badly about me even when he thinks I do not hear him, he uses every opportunity to insult and humiliate me.
@WiseGhots (14607)
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17 Feb 19
Well, I certainly would have a serious conversation with him... AT LEAST.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
17 Feb 19
@WiseGhots Because he is someone who thinks he is the smartest, not to be mistaken ...
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
18 Feb 19
Sorry! I am thankful that I do not have that problem. I have two great brothers for which I'm thankful.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
19 Feb 19
@Nevena83 Yes, it is a great blessing and a real pleasure to have a good family. I wish everyone had that but sadly not everyone does.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
19 Feb 19
@1hopefulman Unfortunately, many do not have good family relationships.
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@moffittjc (118365)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Feb 19
I do not let insults and negative words bother me. I just ignore them. I don't let the words of other people affect who I am as a person. If they say bad things, that's their problem, not mine. I choose to be positive and happy. If they choose to be negative, angry or sad, well that's just something they have to live with. I am choosing to enjoy life. If they choose to suffer through life because of their poor attitudes, then they are just not going to be very happy people. Life is too short for that.
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@moffittjc (118365)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Feb 19
@Nevena83 I know there are so many factors that contribute to our outlook on life. Our personality, our upbringing, our education, our health, etc. I have rough days where I feel depressed, angry or sad, just like everyone else. But I force myself to snap out of it and find the good or happiness in each situation.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
23 Feb 19
@moffittjc But it's hard for me to find the motivation to get up when I fall.
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
3 Mar 19
If I understood well, your brother was a grown man,right? 
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
3 Mar 19
@LowRiderX He is a very rough man and we both have a very bad relationship, but his daughter loves me and I think he can not accept it. And he will make Helena cry, to harm me.
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Actually, I do not understand that part 
Do you have a brother or a sister?
@snowy22315 (169575)
• United States
17 Feb 19
I think you need to get out of that situation. As you say, it will never stop. If people are constantly disrespecting you, you need to move..Being around them is very bad for your mental health.
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
18 Feb 19
Yes, you are right, she gave excellent advice and I know it, but sometimes it's very difficult not to react to very serious insults.
@just4him (305417)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 19
I turn away from people who insult me and try to humiliate me. I don't give them the satisfaction of letting them see how much they hurt me.
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
17 Feb 19
I would ignore him. I know it's hard and like you said he will never change so you have to learn to just ignore him and react to his insults. He doesn't sound like a very nice person.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
17 Feb 19
@Nevena83 that is terrible. I don't know how people can be so mean especially to their own family
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
19 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe Yes, I can not figure it out either.
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