can't hold money

I am usualy the same way with my oldest daughter time i help her i have to do without myself like now letting her use my car til she gets hers ..but that's what mothers do ..my mom always helped me when i was in a need so im glad i can help my daughter ..but will glad to get my car back too .. :)

You know what your problem is so it shouldn't be too difficult to overcome it. You can set a certain sum of money aside in case you have to or want to help someone. When this money is gone, you tell the next beggar that you are sorry but you have no money left. You can also ask yourself why you behave like this and fall for every sad story. Are you afraid people won't love you any more if you don't give them money?

I had so many bad experienced lending money to others. Some of them forget that they owe something to me. Thus, I tend to be vigilant with this concern.

I am like that before but now I am more wiser already.