Have you been "stonewalled" recently? "Your estimated wait time is two minutes."

@TheHorse (205716)
Walnut Creek, California
February 18, 2019 2:28pm CST
I admit that I long for the days when you could call a store or office and get a person on the other end. I was pretty young then, but I DO remember it. Right now, I'm trying to call the bookstore at the college where I teach. I want to ask what text book is most commonly use for "Critical Thinking," a class I'd consider teaching in addition to Intro and Research Methods. I hit "0" at the first stone wall, so they could direct me to the bookstore. The automated voice said, "Your estimated wait time is two minutes." A minute later, the voice said, "Your estimated wait time is two minutes." Now, five minutes later, my estimated wait time is still two minutes. I'm going to reevaluate what I learned in physics about space/time, hang up and finish this post. I've been stonewalled by Kaiser (my medical provider), EDD (when I needed to collect unemployment insurance between jobs), the guy who owes me $2500 for speaker refinishing work I did for him, etc. Have you been stonewalled recently? Give me a nice, frustrating example, so I can feel less alone.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
18 Feb 19
Sorry about that. No, I let my husband get stonewalled.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Smart!
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
18 Feb 19
@TheHorse That I am!
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
@DianneN Yeah, but when he winds up in the hospital with "your call is very important to us psychosis" (it's in the DSM-5! Really!) for the last 20 years of his life, you're going to be a lonely woman.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
19 Feb 19
I have been stonewalled a couple of times, last time it was in a health clinic.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
Did you finally get services?
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse after almost 25 minutes
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse it is awful, every time I phone I always wait a lot.
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
19 Feb 19
I can't give you any recent personal examples but I can helpfully remind you that this problem is closely related to the disappearance of, "The customer is always right."
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
20 Feb 19
@TheHorse I'm not sure. It seemed to be very sudden, though. And there was no ransom note.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
Oh yeah. I remember that. How did it disappear?
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@JWMILLER (3280)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
21 Apr 19
Probably not as nearly true as once thought.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
18 Feb 19
I once spent a wonderfully entertaining 10 minutes trying to negotiate the automated phone service of the Automobile Association in the UK. No matter which route I took through the menus after about 4 or 5 levels of menu I always ended up back at the main menu. I'm hoping it was a bug in the system and not designed to extract more in call charges from customers.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse Really bad of me I know. Imagine paying for a service and then wanting to actually use that service. What a terrible customer I am!!
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
@WorDazza Can they sue you for that in England?
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
I'd think they just wanted to be left alone. Why are you bothering them?
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• Agra, India
19 Feb 19
Yes...especially when it is a complaint regarding a faulty device.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
How did you try to contact the folks?
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
@amitkokiladitya Do you ever get to leave a message?
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• Agra, India
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse I just keep calling the help centre number again and again
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@janethwayne (5193)
• Philippines
20 Feb 19
Well when my child is in the hospital and then we have to pay the bill and my boss did not sign the paper for my insurance to deduct it.It took the entire day of waiting and it is very upsetting and we are desperate to discharge.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 19
Did insurance ultimately cover it?
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 19
@janethwayne Why did it take him so long?
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• Philippines
20 Feb 19
@TheHorse Yes they do cover that but the only thing is my boss has to sign it because I am working in his firm and it takes long for him to do that even if it is just simple to do.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
19 Feb 19
We did not exactly get stonewalled. We were able to get through the "press 1" for this, press "3" for that. Left message twice. It was never returned. Lucky the issue resolved itself, and was not an emergency.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Apr 19
Many of my messages are never returned.
@crossbones27 (48417)
• Mojave, California
18 Feb 19
Bernie Sanders too soon.
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• Mojave, California
18 Feb 19
@TheHorse Because he wants to make it where people do not go broke if they lose a job or do what you do. Medicare for all and similar programs not defined yet because for some reason scares America. . I always find it amazing people will bend over backward to say that is socialism and refuse, but love it when it goes to corporate socialism. Hey had to bring some balance because always get attacked when I bring this up.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
@crossbones27 Oh, I see what you're saying. But corporations are people too, aren't they (sarcasm emoji)? Would Paul in Peoria actually vote for Bernie? I'm not sure.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Can you elaborate?
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
21 Apr 19
I happened so much at our local pharmacy that I switched to one farther away. Could easily sit on hold for 20+ minutes since they would only have one tech working. The one 15 minutes further away has never put me on hold.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Apr 19
Glad you found a better place.
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@JWMILLER (3280)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
21 Apr 19
Never sure whether stonewalled, or just too busy with too few people working
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Apr 19
Someone is saving money.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Feb 19
No, not lately. Sorry, you are on your own.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
The Humanity!
@Janet357 (75656)
19 Feb 19
Yes it did happen to me. So many instances but i cannot narrate them here one by one because they all mix up in my head.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
Yes. It all solidifies into one Great Wall of China between us and the institutions we're dependent on.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
@Janet357 Sigh. I wasn't always crazy.
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@Janet357 (75656)
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse you’re crazy!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Feb 19
When I took care of all of my Dad's affairs I stayed on the phone... on hold... forever. Mediacom was the worse, his cable company would go out all the time. I do not miss that but I miss him.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Understandable. At least you let him have some peace and lack of frustration in his late years. What they put us through to save money is...almost criminal.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Feb 19
@TheHorse It is absurd and should not be called customer service. I have called them other names under my breath.
• Belews Creek, North Carolina
19 Feb 19
I avoid making phone calls if at all possible. I've noticed when volunteering at the library, that people call there to ask the strangest questions...I wonder if it is because it's one of the few places where callers actually talk to a real person right from the get-go.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
What kinds if questions do they ask? In the old days, before the internet, didn't people call libraries sometimes for a quick fact check or book recommendation?
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@JWMILLER (3280)
• Westmoreland, Tennessee
21 Apr 19
Iit might be. This calling of libraries seems common.
@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
18 Feb 19
I don't remember specifics, but yes I have had it happen to me more than once!
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Ain't technology grand?
@FourWalls (62120)
• United States
18 Feb 19
No, but I met Stonewall Jackson after one of his concerts. I love the “your call is important to us” lie, ahem, recording. Worst EVER for me: calling Social Security when I left the post office. I think that was a longer wait than the planned Gilligan cruise.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
I haven't experienced the Social Security three hour tour yet. And, in case you were wondering, I think that &(%$%^^% is hotter than ($%@#(.
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Feb 19
I love the one that tells me my call is very important to them.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
I get that one often! How about that?
@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
18 Feb 19
I had an experience a while back just trying to log in to a mail order pharmacy. I just needed someone to get me in, I just couldn't get it to work. So simple. Two hours later and at least five times of being transferred, ending up back at the beginning place, I was so aggravated, I thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown. You know how you get to laughing, bordering on hysteria? Honestly, it's a wonder my blood pressure didn't send me into a stroke. I tried again a few days later, got the nicest person and in three minutes, she had me logged in. Go figure.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Yes, I know that feeling. Your story sounded quite familiar.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 19
Vince hung on for four hours once but eventually got a person. He is nothing if not determined - AND he still managed to have a joke with the person.
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 19
That's close to my all-time record.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
18 Feb 19
It happened when we are reporting about the failed internet service. It's frustrating!
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@TheHorse (205716)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Feb 19
Is there a word for "frustrating in the nth degree"?