Frivolous Friday

@DianneN (246793)
United States
March 8, 2019 7:51am CST
Sometimes you just have to eat what you are craving, even if you have suffered a heart attack and a stroke, as our son’s father-in-law is doing in the photo above. Many of my friends here know that this happened while on safari in Kenya. He is still in a wonderful private hospital in Nairobi, but was recently moved to his own apartment in the hospital. His neurologist wants him to remain for observation for another week or two before flying back to NYC on a med-evac jet with his wife. He still has a blood clot in his heart. He still needs heart surgery for the damage inflicted on his heart. Our son flew home on Monday and our daughter-in-law will fly home with her siblings tomorrow. Tonight is our Friday date night, but my husband and I do not plan on eating anything as frivolous as that!
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43 responses
• United States
8 Mar 19
He certainly looks good for someone recovering from a heart attack and stroke. Wow an apartment in the hospital is new to me. Hope he continues to improve and can get back to NY for continued treatment.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
That surprised me, too, but they do live the life somehow. I'd be in a hut. lol Many thanks. We are pulling for him.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Mar 19
Makes some think about all that meat and fried foods.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
The doctor told him to go for what he craved and okayed it for this one time only.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
Well, at least I see lot of vegetables.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@DianneN The problem is that some people can eat anything and do well and others need to be really cautious. I am one that needs to be very cautious about what I eat. Thankfully, I've learned so much about what helps me to stay healthy. I wish him health and happiness!
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
LOL! His doctor okayed it.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Thank you!
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 19
Oh my goodness, he surely has a good appetite. I am glad to know that he feels better.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 19
@DianneN Exactly like my husband they do not gain an ounce. I hope he can go home soon.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
This thin man could always eat and not gain any weight at all. The doctor gave him permission to order whatever he craved most. Hopefully, he will be well enough to return home very soon.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
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@just4him (306173)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Mar 19
I'm glad he's doing better. My prayers are still with him and your family.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
Thanks so much. He still needs them.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@just4him Thank you so much. I will ask you for prayers when he is finally allowed to fly home. XOX
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@just4him (306173)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Mar 19
@DianneN You're welcome. Always. You just let me know, and I'll be praying. Not that I don't anyway.
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
8 Mar 19
A human being is like foam...
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
That's an interesting way of putting it.
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
8 Mar 19
@DianneN I'm just thinking loudly ... how people are actually weak, gentle ...
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
8 Mar 19
@kepweng It's not a quote, I'm just thinking loudly
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@marguicha (215407)
• Chile
8 Mar 19
He certainly looks wonderful. And so does the food. Yum!
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@marguicha (215407)
• Chile
9 Mar 19
@DianneN Doctors do wonders lately.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Thanks! I'm sure his heart doesn't look too well, but they are working on it.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
@marguicha Yes, they do.
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@rebelann (111164)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Mar 19
I hope he gets to go home soon to have the much needed surgery to make him better.
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@rebelann (111164)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Mar 19
I've put him in my prayers @DianneN I hope he will be ok.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@rebelann Oh, thank you soooooo much! I truly appreciate that.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Thanks so much. He has a blood clot on his heart, which is scary.
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@wanghui (894)
• China
9 Mar 19
he looks is a very nice people for his friendly smile,prayers he will be recovery quickly!
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@wanghui (894)
• China
10 Mar 19
@DianneN take all of our bless to he
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Thanks so much for your prayers. He is going through a very rough time.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@wanghui Thanks so much!!!!
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@Tampa_girl7 (48937)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Wow, I’d never know what he’s been through from the photo.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48937)
• United States
9 Mar 19
@DianneN I hope he continues to do well.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
@Tampa_girl7 Thank you. Once he's safely back in NYC, we will give a sign of relief until it's time for his heart surgery. That blood clot on his heart is still a big concern.
@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Thanks. He does look the same for sure.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Mar 19
Party on down tonight you crazy kids.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
We are crazy kids!
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@kobesbuddy (74553)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Mar 19
For being as sick as he was, your son's father-in-law looks wonderful! God has definitely touched him, at this time of a critical affliction. I will still be praying, so the Lord will completely heal his body from head to toe:) Please, don't tell anyone that I'm praying for his 'toes,' his family might think that I'm a bit, you know, (kinky!)
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
15 Mar 19
You just made me laugh. I truly appreciate the prayers. He has always had such a wonderful sense of humor and has been a good looking man. His short term memory is a bit shot from his stroke, but his long term memory is fine. My son told me that he's not always lucid, but at least he can speak and isn't paralyzed. We are so grateful that he is alive.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
15 Mar 19
@kobesbuddy He was so lucky then. OMG!
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@kobesbuddy (74553)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Mar 19
@DianneN Thank God, he's lucid, most of the time. Depending upon where the stroke happened in his brain, determines the severity of damage that's done. Paralysis on one side of the body is traumatic, it can never be restored:(
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@YrNemo (20261)
10 Mar 19
That tray made me think of fries, chips etc... hmmm... (should I go raiding the pantry or not! To do or not to do!!!) Glad to hear that that in-law of yours is recovering fine (based from what he was enjoying there in the pic).
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
10 Mar 19
I hope you did not raid your pantry! Thanks. The doctor okayed that splurge just one time and one time only.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
11 Mar 19
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@YrNemo (20261)
11 Mar 19
@DianneN I ended up doing nothing, or did I? (It was something that happened a thousand years ago or something... I am losing my mind more and more these days .)
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
8 Mar 19
He looks good, but I do not think it's good to eat what he eats.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
His doctor allowed it for one meal only.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Mar 19
@DianneN Then it's okay.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
9 Mar 19
@KlyliePot You should not eat the food that's on the photo.
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@snowy22315 (169959)
• United States
10 Mar 19
I was thinking about your friend last night,,actually he popped into my mind for some reason..I think he should joke with his doctors.."I may have had a heart attack, but at least I out ran the lion."
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@snowy22315 (169959)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@DianneN HAHA, mention that line, if he hasn't thought of it.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
10 Mar 19
. He is quite the joker and a bright and witty man. I'm sure he had his doctors in stitches - pun intended.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
8 Mar 19
Those vegetables are good but not the fries I guess.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
8 Mar 19
@DianneN I cannot stop him. He seems really happy on this pic.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
@jobelbojel No one could blame him after all he's been through.. Thank you!
@DianneN (246793)
• United States
8 Mar 19
His doctor allowed it that one time. It made him happy to not have to eat hospital food.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
8 Mar 19
Did the doctor approve this meal? He looks good on this picture
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
Yes, the doctor approved it for this one time only. (It looks like you have a new "friend"?)
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
9 Mar 19
@DianneN he will have difficult times after the surgery. I know, today she answered two of my discussions, sometimes she does it.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
8 Mar 19
Wow. That looks way better than the hospital food they have here. lol. Good for him. He looks like he is a fine mood. I hope his surgery will go well. Happy FriDianne!
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
So true, but I believe that was restaurant food. Thanks!
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
10 Mar 19
@DianneN Ah That explains it!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Mar 19
He looks great, glad he got good medical care.
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
He still has signs from his stroke, but that's the least of his problems right now. We just want him to make it home safely. Thanks, Carol.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Mar 19
@DianneN Yes indeed, you all have been though a lot.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
8 Mar 19
The food looks nice
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@DianneN (246793)
• United States
9 Mar 19
He was craving it, so his doctor allowed it for one time only.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
10 Mar 19
@KlyliePot Not exactly any food, something which smells good or looks nice
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
9 Mar 19
@KlyliePot When I see food.. I don't see anything else
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