I Am So Upset

@simone10 (54189)
Louisville, Kentucky
April 15, 2019 8:16am CST
In my previous post, I explained that I had a doctor appointment at 8am. We had to leave at 7: 15 because of how far it is and traffic. When I went to the desk to check in, the girl asked for my name. When she looked at the computer, she said she had sent a text to me changing my appointment to next Monday. I never got said text and they were booked for the day. So I had to go back home. I had to watch my tone because the contract we have to sign (pain management) states you can't be rude or short with the staff or they will stop seeing you. I can understand but I really wanted to say how I felt. I just don't understand why the doctors office didn't call for something like that instead of sending a text. Just doesn't make sense to me. Oh well, I hope your day started better than mine.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
15 Apr 19
It would have been much more courteous and efficient if they had called you. That way they would definitely know that your appointment was cancelled. Sorry you had all that hassle.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
I asked her why didn't she call and all she could say was that she sent me a text. When I go back in Monday, I'm going to ask my doctor if I can request phone calls instead of texts.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Apr 19
@jaboUK,and doctor said no rude show to them,my goodness.How nice to raise the voice in front of them
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
15 Apr 19
I would think that both a text and courteous phone call, for those who don’t text, would have been more beneficial. So sorry you had to go through this. I’d be upset, too.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
I agree, a text and phone call or just a phone call. We had to drive 45 minutes to get there only to turn around and drive back.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Apr 19
@DianneN I know but I asked and they were booked for the day
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
18 Apr 19
@simone10 I think that's horrible and such a waste of time. Too bad they couldn't squeeze you in, too!
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
15 Apr 19
They are rude, to be sure that the patient knows, the only way is to get the phone and call. This is what they do here.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
17 Apr 19
@simone10 She is rude not believing what you said. Surely you would have not wasted your time if you received the message.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
All my other doctors call for reminders or to cancel an appointment. She acted like she didn't believe me. Did she really think I would have been there if I had received it?
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
17 Apr 19
@simone10 Doctor and nurses should never be rude. If people go there it's because they need help.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Apr 19
I know the feeling there.This happen to me a few times.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
It's frustrating isn't it? But what can we do.
@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
@amadeo you got that right
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Apr 19
@simone10 Grin and bear it.I guess
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@just4him (306080)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Apr 19
That's good they did that, made you sign a contract so you wouldn't be rude. I've been in customer service and rudeness is what I heard for 8 long hours. I agree they should have called instead of sending a text. This is a good place to vent.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
I wouldn't have been rude to them.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Apr 19
@just4him probably so. This is pain management and some people get upset if you ness with their pain meds.
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@just4him (306080)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Apr 19
@simone10 Some people are. They must have seen a lot of it to implement the contract.
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@kobesbuddy (74550)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Apr 19
I have signed in for my appointments through e-mail. If anything changes, I'm always suppose to call their office to speak with someone. And they should show the exact same common courtesy, towards you! It should always be done, one on one with a receptionist or a nurse. That's terrible what they did to you!
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
I agree! I guess this is the future of the medical field.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
@kobesbuddy that's so true! That's what made me upset, 45 minutes one way.
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@kobesbuddy (74550)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Apr 19
@simone10 Another one of the hick-ups, that cost your time, effort, planning, and money to drive there for no reason at all:(
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
15 Apr 19
Hope you let off steam somehow. Bottling it up is not good
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
I vented to my brother all the way home, poor thing had no choice but to listen.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
15 Apr 19
did they text you about other things before and did you receive them? is texting the only way they can reach you?
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
They just assumed my phone is a cell. It could have been a landline.
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• United States
15 Apr 19
I would have asked her if it was possible that any further communication be done over a phone-call. Texts aren't always reliable, as your case clearly shows.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
Exactly! I'm going to ask the doctor on Monday if she will put it in my file.
• United States
17 Apr 19
@simone10 I hope she does, or can tell you how to go about doing it yourself.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
@ScribbledAdNauseum So do I because this is ridiculous. And this is the second time in a month that they have had to reschedule my appointment. The last time they called, didn't text so it is doable.
• United States
15 Apr 19
Even with a text I would think a doctors office would also make a phone call about cancelling an appointment. How do they know that the following week works for you? I would have been mad too after making the trip.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
I agree with everything you said. Unfortunately I can't do much because of the contract they have used sign
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Apr 19
I don't understand sending a text either. Not everyone does text anyway. It should always be a phone message. You have every right to be angry.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
Thank you. I agree that not everyone texts. I do text but if she really sent the text, I didn't receive it.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
15 Apr 19
I am very sorry for the hassle. They should have called you.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
They really should have. They rescheduled another of my appointments last month and called on that one.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Apr 19
@thelme55 I'm going to ask the doctor about it when I go Monday.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
18 Apr 19
@simone10 I hope they will call you whenever there's a change in the schedule again.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Apr 19
That is really annoying, why didn't she call?
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
She didn't say, just kept repeating that she had text me.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Apr 19
@nela13 I agree but couldn't really say much more.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
18 Apr 19
@simone10 that is not an excuse.
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• Philippines
15 Apr 19
its so upsetting indeed.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
Yes it was but I'm over it now.
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@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
16 Apr 19
That is really poor service from them. The girl at the desk would, presumably, just be doing as she was told so it's not really fair to take it out on her. It's not surprising that you're upset, though. They should have made sure you were aware of - and happy with - any changes.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
I didn't take it out on the girl at the desk. I know she is doing what she was told to do. I just got frustrated because she kept saying over and over again that she had texted me. I was trying to explain that I never got it or I wouldn't have been there.
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
16 Apr 19
I am sorry that happened. I have some places that the texts are delayed. Interesting to sign a contract to be nice.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
It's pain management and if you need pain meds and other certain meds, you have to go there once a month. In order to be seen by a doctor, you have to sign the contract.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
15 Apr 19
My dentist uses texting now but one has to reply for the appointment to be confirmed. That makes more sense!
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
Yes, that makes perfect sense. I even mentioned that to the girl.
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
16 Apr 19
Sometimes happens in bad way, Hope everything has been handled carefully Many times we rely on technology but sometimes technology create problem in term of not being able to deliver at the right time. nowadays everything depends on internet connection, electricity and signals etc
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
Yes, that is very true. Things are okay now. I got over my anger
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@debjani1 (7207)
16 Apr 19
Its really disappointing. Its very difficult to get doctor's appointment nowadays. And if after getting , it will be cancelled then its quite natural to be upset specially when you reached doctor's chamber.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
It was very upsetting but I'm over it now. When I do see the doctor, I'm going to ask her to put in my chart that I don't want texts.
@Junbals (1421)
• Philippines
16 Apr 19
I can imagine the office may be cost cutting. In our country, texting is much cheaper than calling.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Apr 19
Probably so but it still was frustrating at the time.
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