I need to ask something but trust me I am not being rude.
April 15, 2019 10:15pm CST
My aide/friend is a big girl. her breasts are on her knees. A man in my house today ask why I allow her in my home like that. I asked her already to please not come to my home like that. I know different backgrounds allow people to see things differently. She said to that she does not care she is comfortable. I refuse to let her inside when B is here. He would not like that at all. I had two male friends comment on her coming in like that. I want to say something else to her but would I be stepping out of my boundaries to ask her to lift herself in a proper way. I won't dare go to the front door like that let alone her home where she lives with a man. But I really need to address her again because B is not one to call before he arrives. But he would not like that at all. You know when people say show me your friends and then you show them that. I know everyone is different so I am not trying to be rude but she clearly has no care about her appearance in this manor.
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• Anniston, Alabama
I hate to say something because you almost suffocated when I told you the paint needed a warm place to dry, I am sorry about that, I did not know you would close the windows. I am like you, I put a bra on and act like a lady around men.
• United States
It's your home, if you don't like it you have every right to say something. I see no reason for her going to work without a bra on, especially if she has larger ones. It's inappropriate and I wouldn't want it in my home either around my boyfriend.
Its your choice whether you allow her or not . As the house is yours no matter whom you allowed. But without bra she looks very odd. I don't think why she is so careless. But I will tell her frankly that if you want to visit my house then you should be in proper way.