After marriage girls should work or not?

Why would I not want to work after I get married?? I worked before marriage and now I am married and still working. Some women quit their jobs after they have kids because of high daycare prices but that is still considered a job staying home with them.

allow??? is she your wife or slave????allow????

No reason for women to not work after marriage unless they choose not to. I think most women who get married after they have a professional career stay working. I cannot imagine how bored I would be if I was home all day. The only reaosn I would quit working is to return to school full time.

I wold say two things: Its upto the girl if she wants to continue with her career if she wants after marriage as well. The other side of the coin would be that she will be forced by her circumstances to leave the career aside to take of her family as when she will be pregnant and even after her delivery the baby will need her support. Thus, if she is very caring then she may quit the job after marriage to look after her family. But, if she is less caring more of career oriented then she may opt for continuing with job and won't give birth to baby until she want.

They can. It depends upon their interest in their field and economical background. situations may vary from one person to anoyher. we can`t tell exactly because some may work for timepass and some may for family. but i leave the decission to the girls only.

yeap ofcourse..i'll allow ma wife to work...'coz it's her right to work..n i won't keep her from that...

if i were a man i will allow my wife to work, thats it if her decision. i dont see anything wrong about it. she want to help, fine. it will be a big help for the family economically and self worth for the wife.

depends on the couple. but if the woman wants to, why stop her? it's her choice.... then let her!

It's up to the individual. As per my plannning i wanted to stay at home once my children starts their education, but things seem not as per planned. I have to work to support the whole family. have to survive !!!!!

I see women and men as equals, so it's not a matter of should they, it's a matter of what her and her man agree on doing.

yes .. they should work .. infact this should be girls own dicission whether she want to work or not.

I think that women, whether they are married or not, should be able to do what they want, including work. I am not married, but I am with my long-term boyfriend and we have a daughter together. I used to work at a retail manager, but I had to quit my job since then; it was like 50-60 hours a week I was working. I just stayed home with our daughter. When I started working from home, about a year later, my boyfriend was a little weird about it at first. He was always coming up with excuses about how I shouldn’t work or why he couldn’t help me with our daughter, so I could work. Everything is better now though. He explained to me that it was kind of weird at first because he was always providing for us and it felt good to him. However, we are both now glad that I am working.

yeah shell have to work i mean i dont have any money. imean i do but i spend it on stupid stuff that is no use to me just ends up collecting dust. so yeah if she cant feed me and pay my way why would i marry her!? im not stupid coz im a man im allways right

I'd like to work after marriage. coz I like to be financial independent. :p working doesn't have any conflict with marriage too. My husband is happy that I go to work too. One of the reasons is because of financial, two incomes is obviously better than 1. Another reason is, if I don't work, I'll just stay at home and be lazy, I won't be able to grow up and learn. But my concern is, how about the kids? who's taking care of them?

I worked after I got married until I had my second child. Now if I were to work it would only pay for day care and fuel to get to work. It doesn't really make since to me.

if my wud want to work...i'll definitely allow her to shape her own career

yup , i will allow my wife to work if she wants to :)

It depends on the person I think. If she wants to work by all means work.

sure i would like her to work, work for her satisfaction & forget abt money, let her atleast enjoy the freedom of not having to work for oney but for her fun for her usage i wolud love to have a wife who wants to work coz she wants to so it & not bcoz of the money

Yes, I want to work. I can help my husband financially. If he do not want my income to manage the house it will be my pleasure to save the money for some good cause. Sometimes it may help for an emergency. If I have my hard earned money in the bank, it means lot for me.