Is it a good idea to have a child before marriage.

@lwethu (242)
South Africa
September 12, 2006 8:23am CST
I have a baby and i am not married according to the experience i have i don't think so.Heeeelp me
3 responses
• India
19 Dec 06
i think so that it is not a good idea to have a child before marriage . i am not agree with this point .
@shuz697 (1047)
• United States
12 Sep 06
well I had both my babies before I was married and it didn't affect our family or the love my children received.. just because someone is married that doesn't make them a better parent.. Theses days hardly anyone is married anymore its not a big deal like it used to be..
@maryannemax (12176)
• Sweden
12 Sep 06
i once had a friend who got pregnant by our common friend. i told her not to rush into marriage if she's not sure if she loves that man or not. marriage is not the answer for that problem. things will work at the best time suited for you. it does not mean that if you get pregnant, you need to get married soon with the dad of your future baby. and good my friend listened to me. the dad of his baby turned out to be irresponsible and not worthy of her love and care. years later, she got married with someone who loves her most. good for her!