why does problems exists in most of marriages from the first two years of living

i think it can also be coz it was rushed

i am not sure of that.

I think it's a combination of a few things. You're supposed to do the "what's yours is mine, what's mine is yours" mentality but it takes some time to get used to it. Also, alot of people feel like they got married, the person is "stuck" with them, so why keep up the effort. They begin to take things for granated, not put the effort into the romance, time spent together and communication. I know some girls who got so carried away with the wedding plans, the showers, gifts, the big day, the honeymoon and all the planning that when it was all over they felt depressed. Like all the romance of their marriage was done and then "now what?" My husband and I have had our high ups and low downs, but the most important thing I learned through it all was that old and veryt true saying: the more you both put into a marriage, the more the both of you will get from it.

I am married and I believe it's because they're getting to know each other which they should have done before they were married because after they marry they're going through a transition period of total committment to each other.

I think the first years are the hard for marriage because their must adjusting the life of couple, live together is difficulty

I think its because people dont plan orthink ahead how sharing yourlife with another will be like. Imcurrently living with my fiancee for a 3rd year, we've earnedthe hard way how togive each other space,and how to please the other, when we marry we'll have no problems. Have a nice day!

am married,we married men sometimes lie to our wives about our finacial state,and some ladies are not what they told you they are before marrige ,then after marriage they can not hide again,then the trouble

I think the first 2 years are the hardest because you are adjusting to married life, being with each other every day, learning your differences. One big problem is communication. A lot of couples dont know how to communicate the right way. I know from experience because my husband I are separated right now after 3 years of marriage.

i think its understanding between the two... if they succeed to understand each other then no problem arises at all...

well after 2 years you are over the honeymoon period and now notice the zits on each others backsides not so lovingly. tolerance levels are dropping and one sees that things are not going quite the way you imagined. time for midcourse corrections! but why doesnt the other person make those corrections? why should i?

no idea, depends there can be some exceptions.