playboy mags

United States
September 12, 2006 10:54pm CST
husband looks at playboys and wife feels trashed
13 responses
• United States
22 Oct 06
I kind of feel the same way.. Im so thankful that my husband does not look at other women or mags.. I feel that it knocks me down. Like he has to compair me.. Well, Im not a busty blonde.. Instead Im a redhead, who isn't too fair.. Thank God, and I tan.. that makes me different.. and he slams guys who look at me.. so why should I let him look at other girls? Ha, I dont. I dont care to those of you who say they can look but not touch. I DONT feel that way. Maybe I get it from my folks, I dont know.. Call me old fashioned.. but I dont allow my guy to compair me.. as I do not look at other men.. and he knows that. It's a great balance that we have. Right now Im 5 months pregnant and he still looks at me as if Im as beautiful as I was the day we met.
• United States
23 Oct 06
I'm glad he makes you feel like your the only one for him. But he'll slip one day and not out of disrepect or anything, you'll find he is as human as the rest of the men/women who take a look elsewhere, not shop, just look.
• United States
23 Oct 06
And I do understand that.. but he knows that he doesn't want me to look.. and that I feel the same way... so we do everything in our living power to respect each other. Now when Im not around, I cant control him.. as far as work, Im not worried.. hes around guys all day (US Army Infantry).. but I know that I can trust that he doesn't listen to all his other guys when they are like look at that hot piece of meat. They all tell me that he's truely a great guy even when Im not around ;) Who would have thought that I could have found a man like that in this day and age?
• Pakistan
26 Oct 06
hahaha nice topic, but i hv nothing to say, wife shud do something so their husband dont look here and there.
@KrauseHome (35517)
• United States
26 Oct 06
If you feel this way, maybe it is time you decide to talk this situation over with your husband, and let him know how you really feel about this situation. Marriage is a 50/50 thing, and you should be able to talk about anything going on in it, and be able to come to a decision, and comprimise on what truly is best for each other. He may not know how you feel about this, and maybe you need to let him in on your feelings a little more.
• United States
25 Oct 06
I see it as just a mag. We dont have any at our home but I have looked through them. I dont feel ashamed to look at them. And if he looks at them it doesnt bother me. His father gave him a whole collection of VHS nd plenty of the dirty Mags they are at his mommas in a box put away the only thing I worry about is my son seeing them before I think he is ready
• United States
25 Oct 06
burn the magazines.
@sbeauty (5870)
• United States
23 Oct 06
My brother looked at Playboy when we were teens and then stashed them under his bed so Mother wouldn't find them. It's a fact of life with men. Get over it!
@BuffMom (2215)
• United States
23 Oct 06
I think its perfectly normal. A woman should not feel trashed over that. i mean if all he does is look at it and does not value or appreciate your body then Id be pissed
@Tanya8 (1734)
• Canada
22 Oct 06
I don't see this behavior as threatening to a marriage. Men need more visual stimulation. I see it as the equivalent, of a woman fantiszing a scenario (which is far easier to hide, since it's inside our heads).
@kesav010 (1686)
• India
19 Oct 06
therte is nothing to feel thrashed...
@bhchy1 (6052)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Men are visual...and most men read them.. Just get a copy of Playgirl and put it next to his Playboy. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
• United States
14 Sep 06
I don't think that just looking at Playboy mags should really make you feel trashed. You should actually be glad that he is looking at mags at home rather than going out to the strip clubs and/or to the bars. That is when it really gets bad. Maybe you should think about sitting down and looking at one or two with him, get more involved with it. Have you even talked to him about how you feel?
• United States
14 Sep 06
There's no need for the wife to feel trashed. Just looking doesn't mean much.
@asa010 (1129)
• India
13 Sep 06
trash ur husban instead.