Girlfriend & Wife

@amiksinha (1961)
India
September 13, 2006 11:58am CST
Why a man spend so much of time with girlfrnd talking all about love and commitment and once she becomes his wife, it becomes opposite
27 responses
• India
13 Sep 06
haha...that's true...man craves for woman...when he gets stuck with one, natuarlly he's gonna get bored!
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@tomk2004 (396)
• India
10 Oct 06
all thnigs are better chased thn achieved......shakespeare
@swonki (387)
• India
15 Sep 06
I am just keeping on talking and talking only. Thank you. I'll not marry her now. I'll marry some other one whom i am talking less or not yet at all.
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@242238 (501)
• China
15 Sep 06
I have a similar question. How parters can remain their enthusiasms as the time goes by?
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@satbirsk (400)
• India
15 Sep 06
After marriage there are certain responsibilities on both sides which sometimes lead to conlicts
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@babray06 (1787)
• India
15 Sep 06
It's something which is related to our nature. Most men do that.
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@crixti (223)
• Romania
14 Sep 06
He obtained what he worked for. Interest disappears. There is no gold anymore!
@asa010 (1129)
• India
13 Sep 06
simple he has already poured his mind has nothing left in to tell
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@mudassar (129)
• India
13 Sep 06
hi its a good question i think its not possible if they love each other and trust and understanding is main thing if they hve this qualities then iam sure they will never fight.
@perugu (5281)
• India
7 Oct 06
Now a days PEOPLE ARE FEELING THAT WIFE IS PERMANANT HOUSE AND LOVER IS GUEST HOUSE......WHERE PEOPLE ALWAYS PREFER TO GO TO GUEST HOUSE.
@tomk2004 (396)
• India
10 Oct 06
Hah tht response was interesting.
• India
11 Oct 06
I dont agree with that. U take a deeop breath and allow urself to recall everything.. there must be something missing now.. else no one wants to leave or neglect his wife. If anybody does that .. then there are just 1 word frm them _uck
• India
11 Oct 06
Yes you are correct. That's Why i am telling Arrange Marriages are Better than Love Marriages.
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
11 Oct 06
It is not that a person dosent love his wife like before marriage. Its like this. Before marriage they are just two of them. After marriage the girl comes in a new enviourment where she has to cope with not only her husband but his other family members. This is where the friction begins. She needs the same love from his parents which she got from her parents. This is missing. A lot of your time is spent coping with these kind of problems and time left for saying i love you becomes scarce. From their hearts both love each other.
• United States
11 Oct 06
everything looks attractive as long as it is out of reach.
@vipul20044 (5799)
• India
10 Oct 06
the main reason behind that is, that someone who is near to you but still she isnt with you! You tend to have some insecurities in you as you dont want that person to leave you at any time That is why you make commitments and you talk so much about love And then after marriage you know you will spend your whole life with her so you tend to become more naive towards her! Think of it as the stage of wooing and after tat
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
10 Oct 06
A man shows more love on the girl friend bcoz may be he doesnt want to miss the gal. But its not the correct answer. May be or may not. I think everything depends on the persons understanding. There wouldnt have been any fights if there was a proper understanding between the two.
@whitish (1409)
• India
10 Oct 06
bcoz wife is different from girlfriend.girlfriend can be lost but wife cannot be easily thrown away
@simonpaul (741)
• Nigeria
10 Oct 06
the man a just conqured the woman and if he is adventurus he try to get another thing done like his work done.
• Kuwait
10 Oct 06
mybe because he found something opposite too,, suggestion dont change the way you are when your just lover.. good luck!!
@luckiest (282)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 06
That's men!when u r still his girlfriend, he won't complain that ur house is very far but after married, he will say the other way...
@i_agree_but (1185)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Oct 06
Ask her. She is the one to reply.